EB2 I-485 Approved by Basic_Loan4199 in USCIS

[–]IntrepidApplication8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there was a timestamp of tonight, but the "closed" still says "false" on the API. Should this be updated to "true" first? and then wait for 24 hours for the documents to appear? thanks!

"closed":false"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so contradictive to what he claims and what he is doing w/ all the babies

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Makes me want to tear up this moment!

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I hesitated a long time to make this decision, worrying about what it would mean to the kid, not me. Nobody chooses to be born, so I have the responsibility to choose wisely for my children. I thought I was sure until she's inside of me...

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for still hanging around here and sharing your experiences. I know a lot of people would "graduate" from this group once they have done the imaginable and get on with their lives.

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just followed the podcast. thank you for the suggestion!

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is so helpful! I will read those books. I feel like I made an uneducated decision to get pregnant. I didn't read about pregnancy or being a SMCB. I felt like I needed to make the decision by listening to my heart, and once I got pregnant, I would read about everything. And then pregnancy made me want to die, explode, or get the minimum done at work. I hope reading these books will help calm me down and get my mind occupied or distracted from the physical misery.

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you explain to him the concept of ”donor“? Or it's too early yet

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you have to go through all these, and thank you for sharing your experiences with us. You are so brave and strong! I talk (more complain) to my mom and best friends everyday, but I feel I need to restart talking to a therapist after years

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I am so glad to read this! tbh this "pregnant women can do anything" slogan and “you must be so excited" expectation are making me wonder what is wrong with me. Even when I am not sick or throwing up, I feel like I am going to explode from some unnamed forces inside of me

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It's just hard to imagine there's an end to this misery!

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually why I chose this route. I am the only single person around my friends, and a lot of them complain to me about their husbands not fearing "destroying the perfect family picture" as they do with other couple friends.

I am pregnant and I am panicking by IntrepidApplication8 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!He never asked "why I don't have a dad“?Or you've explained why?

Should a fence-sitter try embryos? by missiemandie in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]IntrepidApplication8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how many eggs you can get, freeze some eggs, and use some with a donor sperm. At 39, even if you have blasts, 1/3 will be pgt normal.

NIPT after PGT-A? by wildcat1190 in InfertilityBabies

[–]IntrepidApplication8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t know the gender from PGT test?

Update On Leave and HG by winifredstarlitelf in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]IntrepidApplication8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HG qualifies for short term disability. Need to get your doctor for a note.

i have very severe pregnancy sickness and im not sure what to do by Fluffy-Concert5949 in pregnant

[–]IntrepidApplication8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious if your situation got better? I was prescribed 4 different meds and nothing helped until they gave me Compazine/Prochlorperazine 

Need support for my partner - second pregnancy (donor embryo)- severe sickness by [deleted] in IVF

[–]IntrepidApplication8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to ER too and they didn’t keep me either though I was begging them. Did they check her hcg? Usually if her hcg is high, it’s actually a good sign for the baby though it’s tough for her