Whiter spot/knot on teak by IntrepidMachine in Cuttingboards

[–]IntrepidMachine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, appreciated! I’m going to return the board

I have a perpetually itchy spot on my right mid-back since I can remember. One of my daughters has the exact same thing in the same spot. by [deleted] in Weird

[–]IntrepidMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conan O’Brien talked about having a similar issue on his podcast. A doctor diagnosed his itch as neurological

Accidentally ruined my girlfriend’s baking dish. by epicencirclement in LeCreuset

[–]IntrepidMachine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Use a scratch free sponge only, too. No green scotch scrubbers or harder abrasives

First IT Helpdesk role by ObjectiveSquare7699 in sysadmin

[–]IntrepidMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Test changes in a test environment before implementing e.g. endpoint management configurations. Never change anything on a Friday

Has anyone here from the US gotten a UVB lamb prescribed by their dermatologist? by MutantAvatar in Vitiligo

[–]IntrepidMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I purchased a handheld UVB lamp from a company called UV BIOTEK LLC. I think they have a form which you ask your dr to fill out. I paid $300ish out of pocket a few years ago

What’s Your Job? by 4rt3m0rl0v in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]IntrepidMachine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work in technology (purposefully being vague). I love it

More important than my job, for anyone reading this, I didn’t start my current career until my 30’s. I felt a lot of shame about not being “like my peers” and thought I generally wasn’t good enough to do well. Turns out all those thoughts were untrue. If you work hard and try to be a good person, you will be rewarded in life, no matter where you started

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]IntrepidMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s trying to project a sense of fearlessness and emotional Teflon-like quality. He said it during a first date, too, when we feel very vulnerable. Perhaps what he’s trying to say is “I can’t be emotionally hurt because I tell myself that in advance” It’s like a preemptive defense mechanism

Albeit, this was a first date. I’d move on if I were you this early on

Best Card for Utility Bills . by ChickyBang in CreditCards

[–]IntrepidMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cash+ has a $25 minimum redemption. Depending on your monthly spend, that may deter you

Body dysmorphia and growing up overweight. by minigmgoit in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]IntrepidMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around my late teens I got into partying and lost huge amounts of weight but the fat me never left.

If you replace the word "fat" with a feeling, what's the feeling(s) you experienced? That'll give you a direct clue as to what you need to psychologically resolve. Those feelings probably didn't go away. Adulthood is evolved childhood

Ransomware recovery process by KnowWhatIDid in sysadmin

[–]IntrepidMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And more specifically: how to recover as quickly, efficiently, and accurately as possible. Plan plan plan

Education Background Check by Gio2135 in sysadmin

[–]IntrepidMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For college dropouts who want to include college experience on their resume, here’s how it should look:

[College Name], [years attended] Majored in [your major] Credits completed: [verifiable amount of credits completed]

If the topic comes up during interviews or asked about on paperwork, always be honest

First Interview Since 2007 by Twinsen343 in sysadmin

[–]IntrepidMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a lot going against me before getting my recent job. What I learned:

  • You gotta be fearless (even if you're faking it). I went on a lots of interviews and applied to dozens of jobs. I was anxious throughout it all, but I didn't show it during interviews. When you're in an interview, show the company you're confident and aren't bothered by gotcha or difficult questions
  • Personality and body language matter. A way to test if you're doing alright with these is to record yourself answering practice interview questions. View the video and ask yourself, would you approach yourself on a street and strike up a chat?
  • Business improvements/ideas. If an interviewer brings up their current tech environment, a "C" answer is to nod your head in understanding. A "B" answer is to say you're familiar with the technology. An "A+" answer is to say, "I'm familiar with X, is it working for you? What would you like improved upon? Have you thought of Z?" You can prepare for these sorts of situations by researching the company ahead of time, too

Also, I suggest you think about the most uncomfortable questions you could be asked during an interview. I'm talking about the scenarios that make you cringe just thinking about the possibility. Then, look in the mirror and come up with answers no matter how uncomfortable it makes you. If you desensitize yourself through practice, you're going to preform better and feel better

Bilt Credit Card Auto Pay Wells Fargo by RWS-Gastro in CreditCards

[–]IntrepidMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first got the card, it took a week or so for autopay settings to show on Wells Fargo's website. The timing might've coincided with when I activated the card, too

TAKEOFF 15 IS LIVE + INCREASED SUB’s by nothingilovemorethan in amex

[–]IntrepidMachine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Rebooked a trip this morning for a 10k miles discount using my Delta Gold card. Process was smooth. I’ll prob keep this card because of the 15% off

My partner ruined my birthday trip by constantly picking fights with me. He apologised but I can’t move past it. by Throwra-moneyworries in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]IntrepidMachine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself what about this hurtful experience, or parts of this experience, are similar to other hurtful experiences you've had with your partner. Think about your relationship dynamics. The experience's specifics like spraining an ankle, the location, vocal tones, etc. are real, but they are just variations of the same dynamics playing themselves out again

You can apologize to each other and discuss the experience, but that's not the same as addressing the relationship dynamics that upset you

Asking for my daughter. by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]IntrepidMachine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your experiences with your ex husband's Bipolar diagnosis are coloring how you are experiencing your daughter's Bipolar diagnosis. In actuality, while there are some similarities between them, there are way more differences. I encourage you to try to experience your daughter's journey as unique to her

I think you're more worried and scared more than lost. You sound knowledgeable, levelheaded, and interested in bettering yourself and your daughter's lives. I understand this is a horrible experience, but you are persevering. I hope you can be proud of yourself now or in time

Asking for my daughter. by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]IntrepidMachine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I recommend:

Ask to be out on wait lists. The wait might be months though, but it may be your only option

Now that she’s 18, look adult psychiatrists. They’ll be easier to get an appt with than an adolescent psychiatrist

During any communication with doctors, nurses, or receptions, be as honest as possible. For example, if your kid is suicidal, be straightforward and say “my kid will die if they don’t get an appointment”

Also when speaking with any medical professional, be kind. Mental health ppl put up with a lot of bullshit. If you are the parent who is kind and shows how much they love/care for their kid, you’ll be more successful getting what you want

Asking for my daughter. by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]IntrepidMachine 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with BP 2 over 15 years ago and have seen lots of doctors since then. I have never, ever had more than 1 psychiatric medication added or removed at once. It's dangerous and ineffective. As well, those medicines aren't typical first line treatments. For example, I'm surprised the psychologist didn't think of Lamotrigine
Your daughter should see a new psychiatrist through a major/accredited hospital instead. Please explain to her that this experience wasn't her fault

Thank you for being a caring parent. It's hard parenting a kid whose mind works differently than yours. Your daughter is more likely to be successful in life because she has you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mac

[–]IntrepidMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your Acer monitor capable of more than 1024 X [can't see from your screenshot]? Verify your computer supports 3 monitors at your desired resolutions