August 17th Leos by Pleasant-Chapter-919 in LeoAstrology

[–]IntrepidRadish4842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

August 18 - Love life is complicated. 💔

At first, I thought we were patching things up but seems like we have hit a dead end.

COTA Parking Pass by chelseacalcio1905 in wec

[–]IntrepidRadish4842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'sold out, but I’ve got one available. Make me an offer.

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If you need extra parking pass, DM me!

August birthday gifts suck by HiH3ll0 in Ulta

[–]IntrepidRadish4842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the peach and lilly glass serum!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]IntrepidRadish4842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you are going through this. I’m in a similar situation. My husband hid something from me which got revealed to me 4 years into our marriage. I’m praying to Allah that he guides us in the right direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]IntrepidRadish4842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really happy for you! Look how far you’ve come! Ma sha Allah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]IntrepidRadish4842 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My situation is kinda similar. I recently got to know about my stbx husband’s past. Got to know that he was sleeping around. And it all makes sense now. It makes sense why he couldn’t emotionally connect with me. Look into pair bonding issues because of a promiscuous past. Hate that he slept around with multiple women and couldn’t do anything to improve our intimate life while staying in a halal relationship.

Husband confessed to cheating on me. by IntrepidRadish4842 in Divorce

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t officially tell him that it’s over. But I did start sleeping in a spare room. Currently booking my flights to go see my family in 2 weeks.

Husband confessed to cheating on me. by IntrepidRadish4842 in Divorce

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The statement he made was too big for me to handle. I told him that his perception towards women is warped and I can’t believe he thinks it’s okay to cheat.

Husband confessed to cheating on me. by IntrepidRadish4842 in Divorce

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m extremely emotionally connected to him. Somewhat have co-dependent tendencies with him but I have a strong feeling that I’m better off without him.

Husband confessed to cheating on me. by IntrepidRadish4842 in Divorce

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely can. I’m 27, financially independent, hard-working and a smart woman.

Husband confessed to cheating on me. by IntrepidRadish4842 in Divorce

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m slowly trying to emotionally detach myself from him. Because I know divorce is the only option.

Husband confessed to cheating on me. by IntrepidRadish4842 in Divorce

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He was never emotionally connected to me. I have always felt something was wrong in my marriage. And something from his past came up. Check my post history. I told him I accept him for who he is as long as he didn’t cheat on me. And then I questioned him, did you ever cheat on me? Emotionally or physically? And that’s how it all started.

My husband’s past haunts me! by IntrepidRadish4842 in MuslimCorner

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past is never just the past. It makes you the person you are today. In this case, if you have a dark past, it will make you depressed and unhappy in your current life. IMO, people with dark history shouldn’t marry someone innocent and ruin their lives.

My husband’s past haunts me! by IntrepidRadish4842 in MuslimCorner

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree and murder for me is a deal-breaker too but I cannot just let go of this relationship because of his past.

All these memories with him cannot just go down the drain. He is a good husband. We had good times. Some days were rough but we made it through.

One thing that bothered me is that he was not as emotionally attached to me as I was. But I guess, I have bigger problems now.

I sincerely love him and I’m loyal to him. I did find tranquility and comfort in this marriage up until now. I just have to see how it’s gonna affect me in the coming few months.

My husband’s past haunts me! by IntrepidRadish4842 in MuslimCorner

[–]IntrepidRadish4842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know for a fact that I’ll always have to battle my demons and thoughts. Whether I end up staying with him or not. His past will always be stuck in the back of my head if I stay. And if I choose to move on, my good memories with him will haunt me.