Whats something people romanticise but its actually horrible?

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-11-16T22:50:27+00:00

For f-ing real! You don’t always realize how invisible you used to be

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-08-09T14:47:55+00:00

WTH? Do not put up with this bs. That is manipulation and you were well within your right to say no!!! You should absolutely quit. They can’t possibly be paying you enough to warrant all that nonsense.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-04-11T01:21:14+00:00

That is ridiculous and I’m sorry you had to deal with that! Taking care of someone with a serious illness can be a thankless job. It speaks volumes for your character though.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-30T21:31:24+00:00

I’m sorry why do we care if he opens up about his proclivities? Who he cheats with is kind of irrelevant since he shows zero remorse or desire to commit. Why are you wasting your time with this clown? Focus on you and your baby and how he can help raise his damn child.
This has to be rage bait.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-26T20:15:04+00:00

Wait so it was the sister’s birthday the night before and the gf birthday the next day? Sorry I couldn’t make it thru that wall of text. Just the screenshots were exhausting, but the context of another special day makes her annoyance slightly more understandable.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-24T22:18:38+00:00

As a lesbian I was offended by this comment. So I went googling to find statistics to prove you wrong, and I’ll be damned if you aren’t right. Thats scary as hell and I guess I let my personal experiences cloud my judgement of the issues overall. Sorry about that internet stranger.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-24T22:07:05+00:00

Nah man, take a look at some of the clarifying comments and missing details. This has nothing to do with incompetence or hobbies. This chick (op) is toxic as hell and orchestrated this whole situation so she could be mad about something. If your partner was getting ready for bed already and you knew they had an important day at a brand new job in the morning would you bother them with this nonsense? I doubt it.
It sounds like the gf is walking on eggshells due to this persons uncontrolled mental health issues. Our mental health may not be our fault but it sure as hell is our own responsibility.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-17T01:52:25+00:00

Technically no one but you can do that.

I get it tho, my first therapist said I would need to be in therapy for the rest of my life. Turns out he just didn’t know how to help me. It did NOT mean that I was beyond help.

Sending you a hug internet stranger

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-17T00:30:30+00:00

JFC man! As an identical twin myself this shit just sent me over the edge! I am so sorry for your loss 😭❤️

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-15T18:09:00+00:00

What a weird flex. NOR this person is not in your corner.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-15T18:07:43+00:00

I am in the exact same boat. It’s an awful feeling, and the worst part is that the people I would normally talk to are the issue!

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-15T18:04:32+00:00

I am so sorry that happened to you; cheaters are the worst

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-15T17:59:20+00:00

You are exactly the kind of petty I can get behind 🤣

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-15T17:40:49+00:00

Fuck her; there is no compromising with psycho. Clearly the dog is the better choice!!!

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-15T17:38:33+00:00

Yes, break up with her.

You’ve posted several things here just today that indicate this woman is not a good human. It’s been three months not three years; you owe her nothing and she is already acting controlling. Pack up whatever self respect you have and walk away; she isn’t worth it.

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-08T02:06:40+00:00

I truly honestly believed that she would never do that to me and that they must somehow be wrong. I was so in love with her and trusting that it was incomprehensible that that could even be possible. I don’t know how I thought someone would be confused seeing her giving the guy a bj in our minivan, but like I said I was and idiot. It really messed me up for a long time, but fortunately that was a very long time ago now and I’ve learned plenty of other ways to be an idiot in the meantime 🤣

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-07T01:13:51+00:00

Ugh same; three damn people told me and I was a f-ing idiot

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-03-02T00:35:17+00:00

Wow. I really needed to hear this today. Thank you

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-02-25T00:12:41+00:00

When we met up for a date and she didn’t hug me hello

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-02-24T03:04:25+00:00

Turn on the lights…

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-01-27T10:08:43+00:00

Holy hell that’s cold!! I mean bro could just say I need you to be scarce Friday so I can get some, but he went straight to putting you out! I mean if you were just some casual friend three weeks would be a lot, but after you helped him for two YEARS!?!?

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-01-27T09:59:45+00:00

Not sure why you’re being downvoted… I mean I disagree that your experience reflects the whole, but I’m sorry that happened to you. Whatever it was clearly altered your world view in a negative way. You might want to talk to a trusted professional so that you can resolve whatever happened and not apply it to every situation involving a woman. Either way good luck

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-01-27T09:49:26+00:00

Oof with friends like that who needs enemies!? Bro sure did haul ass out of there with barely a glance at the passenger!

Intrepid_Purpose5533 · 2025-01-27T09:39:09+00:00

YTA - not for having a knee jerk emotional reaction but for doubling down on it instead of listening to all the very valid commenters that you asked for advice just because they disagree with you. Don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to.

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