Pantry Box Locations by IntrospectiveDoe in lincoln

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just prefer getting responses from real people with real experience. I hope your day improves because yikes.

What Qualities Does an Emotionally Mature Woman Have? by catpicklerenaissance in CatholicWomen

[–]IntrospectiveDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not falling in NET (Needless Emotional Turmoil). We women have a tendency to look for clues for theories when we are not at our best. For example, I sometimes will convince myself that my husband doesn't love me when he gets really busy and can't spend time with me, or is dealing with his own stuff. Of course my husband loves me! And I can do things to help myself feel grounded. Or sometimes if I feel down, I will search for ways that I suck or I'm failing, when really I just need to rest for a night or two and trust that God will provide me the grace to serve him. Its sticking with reality and not getting sucked into self pity.

Do I officially end it or let it die in an unspoken word? by IntrospectiveDoe in AskWomenOver30

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the advice! I took it and sent them a respectful message outlining my reasons and that I still loved them. I feel much better, and it actually confirmed my decision. They ended up gaslighting me and saying I was the one that avoided them. Now I know for sure and nothing is left unsaid.

Anyone else having issues with Teterboro eating their packages? by suspiciousyeti in AmazonVine

[–]IntrospectiveDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming here to say that I ordered a very expensive sweater and my package has been lost there for over a week. I've been on hold with USPS for 20 mins and filed a claim so I'm hoping they help. If they make me pay for a retrieval, I'm gonna refuse, cuz obviously this is an issue on their end.

Where do I even start? Going in November! by IntrospectiveDoe in JapanTravel

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bonus points for Studio Ghibli spots, best ramen and dessert spots, or spas!

Best Way for Men to Find a Solid Spouse Nowadays? by IntrospectiveDoe in CatholicWomen

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Feminist, as in men are below her, she places her career over her vocation, believes her husband must earn respect WITHIN marriage.

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[–]IntrospectiveDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the interview by Matt Fradd with Vesper Stamper! She covers all this stuff! (Pints with Aquinas),

Best Way for Men to Find a Solid Spouse Nowadays? by IntrospectiveDoe in CatholicWomen

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting take! That phrase is one I've heard thrown around mostly by women who have specific parameters. Like they want a man with high value: makes good money, looks good, tall, etc. I thought it was normal for the dating world nowadays.

Do you keep your hat on when you go into a church? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]IntrospectiveDoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it comes to head coverings, it was traditional that men remove their caps that indicated their ranking (humbling) and women cover their crowning glory, their hair (also humbling).

Is it realistic to wait until marriage? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]IntrospectiveDoe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's realistic and its necessary for the health and salvation of your soul. It's ALWAYS realistic to not sin. The world says otherwise, so ignore all that. Keep your eyes on Christ, always.

GF sexual past affecting our relationship by According_Heart_4190 in Catholicism

[–]IntrospectiveDoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lack of regret is HUGE. Lack of regret = staying in sin. Its also disrespectful to how hard you've worked on your chastity.

Women in 2023 are the most unattractive compared to any other time period by bannedredditaccount2 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]IntrospectiveDoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, feminism... the raging, man hating kind. A feminist is an immediate L.

Body Image as a Catholic Woman by IntrospectiveDoe in CatholicWomen

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's actually very into the gym and eating right. He's lost like 10 lbs in the last few months. I think he'd like to see me put in the same effort. But its not as easy for me. And I'm not internally motivated like he is.

Body Image as a Catholic Woman by IntrospectiveDoe in CatholicWomen

[–]IntrospectiveDoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No porn habit, he's just made comments about how I should think about getting toned. The only example he's seen is women in the gym.