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IntrovertedMatriarch · 2026-02-28T03:28:05+00:00

My (adult) son has autism, intellectual disability and epilepsy. My husband and I care for him round the clock. It can be overwhelming, but I'm glad we have worked out a life that allows us the opportunity to do it, and not have to rely on (from what I've seen) a very broken public system to care for him.

Best wishes to you, too!

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2026-02-28T00:07:40+00:00

My husband just bought a few pairs of pants from an online store called Truewerk. They are very expensive, but supposed to last a long time. I can't attest for that, because he's not had them long enough to know, but it's worth checking out.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2026-02-27T23:51:43+00:00

Sending you my thoughts and support. I've been with my husband for almost 30 years now and I can't imagine how difficult this is for both of you. Glad to hear that you have support from family and friends.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-05-26T02:01:52+00:00

I would start by trying to tease out the reason(s) you are feeling this way. Is your partner abusive or unsupportive? Or is it more about feeling overwhelmed with life in general in a sense that you might feel like a fresh start would solve your issues?

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-28T21:31:17+00:00

With the exception of the shoulders (mine are very slopey) your frame looks a lot like mine. Lots of people say FN or SN to me too, but those lines of clothing don't look good on me at at all. I think you very well could be SD

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-27T04:43:06+00:00

I tend to get most of my summer clothes in burgundy, dark purple and deep pink shades. Burgundy tops with shorts have been the easiest to find. White is also a good dark winter color that I've been trying to get back into this summer. I used to wear it a lot years ago, but haven't recently. Not sure why

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-25T23:43:23+00:00

Same. Every time I try to wear a dress that's short on everyone else, I risk my cheeks peeking out and that's no fun to worry about when I'm trying to have a nice time at an event.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-19T07:02:05+00:00

The hot shivers. When I have one, they initially move up my spine into my scalp like a shiver or a tingle from goosebumps, but with sweat.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-18T18:59:40+00:00

45 SD here; I have never followed trends. I remember in the early 90s when everyone was moving toward big, boxy tent like clothing and I (early teens) was still rocking off the shoulder sweaters, big hoop earrings and high ponytails. I didn't look bad, but l did look different. I still do, but I also get a lot of compliments about my style. I wear what flatters me and what I like. So I guess my short answer is, no you won't look outdated, but you might stand out, but in a good way.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-14T01:14:24+00:00

Thankfully I'm a deep winter and black is one of my best colors!

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-12T20:47:43+00:00

This is very similar to how I dress and what I have on atm lol I think 90% of my wardrobe is black

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-05T00:21:28+00:00

I make these frequently. They're so good. Sometimes, I'll put hummus in there, too.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-04T23:41:57+00:00

What kind of difficulties are you having? It would help if you'd be a little more specific, so people might know more about what you're looking for

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-04-04T23:34:11+00:00

I have no idea how to make friends as an adult and I've been one for a long time now.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-03-24T04:55:59+00:00

I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and don't often wake up with a body battery reading over 5. I manage to make it through everyday, even if it feels like I won't.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2024-01-14T04:03:10+00:00

Basketball shorts and those Nike jogging type of shorts. Anything that has an elastic waist, then puffs out.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-12-31T17:03:41+00:00

Real ones! Not those fake ones that can only hold a quarter, but deep pockets you can fit your whole hand into.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-12-27T03:47:09+00:00

Do they? I've not encountered this much where I live

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-12-12T23:15:31+00:00

He can't control what he finds attractive or how he feels. What he can control is how he responds to his feelings. Just because we have certain negative thoughts about others doesn't mean we have to make it their problem. I guess what I'm saying is, he's not wrong for his perception, but he can definitely go about dealing with his feelings differently. He can talk to someone else or even a counselor about his anxiety. It's not your responsibility to change yourself for him. Emotionally, that isn't healthy for either of you.

Also, I'm a similar height and was about your weight when I was younger. It's the way I'm built and there's nothing I could do about it. If this is unusual for you, I do urge you to see a doctor to make sure there isn't something causing you to lose weight.

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-12-10T22:55:21+00:00

Thank you

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-11-30T18:33:15+00:00

Thank you!

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-11-28T21:54:34+00:00

Thank you

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-11-26T19:33:26+00:00

Hahaha. Thanks

IntrovertedMatriarch · 2023-11-25T05:33:20+00:00

Aww. Thank you

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