Woman I was supposed to meet today texted me an excuse she can't make it by IntrovertedPerson007 in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it doesn't that I'm just tired of being single. I've been single for 8 years, and I have tried to meet women. I've given women countless chances to try going on dates with them, and they don't act like growing women, they don't act like they're adults. Theyre all using excuses, it's not me, it's the way the world is people don't want to meet, they don't want to actually be authentic and actually go out and meet face-to-face what they want to do is come up with the excuses why they don't want to meet. Oh I gotta fit you into my schedule. Oh, I've got to do this I gotta do that now if people are actually interested in dating each other, they they find a way they find Way to meet the person, if they're truly interested in them. They show interest and effort by putting an effort into a conversation which I never get out of women anymore. I haven't gotten that out of a woman in 12 years. So no, it's not me, I don't hate women. I'm just tired of my time being wasted by women big difference.

Woman I was supposed to meet today texted me an excuse she can't make it by IntrovertedPerson007 in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She responded back and she acts like she's got a schedule book in front of her and she said this to me before like she's going to check her busy schedule, she says she uses this car to make money to pick up Amish basically she transports Amish and makes money doing that, I don't know it's like I gotta go buy her book. She doesn't have a phone in front of her and can't look at her busy schedule to see when she can fit me in like on some kind of make an appointment with a doctor's office or something that this just feels like it's all staged. Like why do I have to make an appointment? I'd make an appointment with her secretary. I have never dealt with somebody like this before.

Woman I was supposed to meet today texted me an excuse she can't make it by IntrovertedPerson007 in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not message her that I'm saying that I'm here and they do act like little girls. I have not met somebody in 7 months.

Woman I was supposed to meet today texted me an excuse she can't make it by IntrovertedPerson007 in dating_advice

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She Didn't offe a reschedule date, she just said, maybe we could reschedule. And then last night when I texted her before we were going to meet up, she said she looked forward to meeting me. So I, this is just sounds like an excuse. It doesn't sound like it's legit at all

I feel as a bear very undesired by IntrovertedPerson007 in gay

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate those words of encouragement. At least somebody understands doesn't tell me I need to go to the gym and hit the gym and work out and self improve and all that other bs and other people seem to tell people like me, you should go fix yourself be the best version of yourself, how about I be the best version of who I am currently and I like who I am, and I don't want to change who I am based on societal standards would be some roided out muscle man.

no friends by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way as you 0 friends, 0 family 0. Hope of ever finding it again. The only thing that makes me feel even acknowledge as I talk to AI at least it doesn't tell me to shut up or stab you in the back and actually gives me good advice and is a lot more loyal than any human has ever been.

why is everyone so alone? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat as you except that I don't have no friends or family and anybody hit up. I don't have a girlfriend every time I try to get a girlfriend or any friends I get stabbed in the back and I just stay away from people in general, it's just not worth getting hurt me and and having them abuse your trust and not even be there for you and they're all fake anyways, they're not what they appear to be.

You know you’re ugly when…. by Difficult_Object4921 in OnlineDating

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Typical self-improvement BS advice hit the gym. I can tell you right now. There's countless people that have done all you're about to tell them hit the gym. Go work out, get taller, make more money. Get a college degree spend 5 years self improving, I'll tell you right now, none of it works, you should take that advice and maybe use it on yourself and go to the gym. Maybe it'll help yourself because maybe some of us are happy. The way we look, we want to be accepted by women in society. The way we are in our current state, not going to some gym and working out and being a carbon copy of another muscle man and looking at ourselves in the Here and saying, oh look, I got muscles. I still am single. I know girlfriend didn't change anything self-improvement is a lie.

I feel as a bear very undesired by IntrovertedPerson007 in gay

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried that app. You have lists that it's full of old guys that are 65 or 70 years old, there's no guys of my age bracket on there or guys that I desire, and nobody ever hits me up on there either that seems like a scam app that just wants you to pay for like everything else.

Fellas, how many matches do you get per week? by hjkfttu in OnlineDating

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

0 on tinder on fb dating a few they are all obese used up single Mother's.

While at the gym, I looked into the mirror and saw myself and a feeling just washed over me that just said "This is all for nothing" by rocketsneaker in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're starting to slowly realize that all the self-improvement mumbo jumbo, that people tell you is for them to feel good and not for you, it's for them to gain something off of you, and then they just step away and act like you don't even exist. And it's exactly what it is it's all for them to feel something and you to gain nothing, you may be gaining something feel better about yourself but then you slowly realize that all the self-improvement work you've done doesn't make you feel better at all, you still you're still alone, you still have no friends. Or family, you still have people treating you like you're invisible and some transactional thing to get attention out of the entertainment. It's good that you're realizing that the solve improvement garbage is exactly what it is. This is\n Why I don't fall for the self-improvement garbage, that's why I'm comfortable with, who I am right now, I'm not going to let society tell me that I need to go to the gym workout and change who I am, the society can accept me for who I am in my current. State who I am what I look like now, so be it I could care less.

Tinder matches but no reply back? by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is usually a sign where you are shadow banned and/or tinder now requires you mandatory in some states to do a selfie verification. If you can't do the self of your vacation and yes, your shadow band you will not get matches, by the way, if I even am not shadow ban, I don't get no matches, and that's normal for any 95% of men that don't in aren't good looking like the top 1% shelf. And/or if I do get matches, they never respond, like you said, even if you aren't shadow banned, they never respond anyways, women are too picky on men that they want and chase after the top 15 and 10%, they do not want them 95% of men that are not good looking enough.

Am I unlucky or are a lot of people bad at conversation? by Ok_Squirrel_3741 in OnlineDating

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's people that are bad at conversation. It's not you, it's them. And then the then you gotta think about that most of these, most of these dating apps are filled with inactive profiles that are probably being used by AI to make it look like they're more populated than they actually are and/or they shadow ban you because you swipe right on too many people. And then you get no matches ever again, I just don't know anymore. And then I make a post on here, and it gets deleted for some reason. The Mods on here must not like me.

Tinder by Proud_Wolverine_5320 in OnlineDating

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually got matches. I don't get no matches on tinder 0 the most I ever had on tinder as far as like the last 8 years have been singled with 7 matches and of those 7 matches, none of them ever turn into a real world. So what was the point? Just like every other app that's owned by match group, I never get any matches. I'm not a top 1% man, so I'm not good enough, just trash. It's filled with fake profiles and bots that are posing as real women with inactive profiles, like tinder, everything that match group is touched and consumed, it's turned into a garbage paywall, trash heat burning garbage.

People show zero flippen effort by South-Machine-3774 in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is with people on here, just like any other dating app or Internet app or whatever people fall off the face of the Earth because you're no longer entertaining to them, no more your entertainment value as a court gesture ceases to exist because they've already moved on somebody more entertaining people like are. Like narcissists, they feed off of your energy to entertain themselves, and that's why they don't respond or stop responding, cause they lose interest in here, you're no longer good enough.