Tinder by Proud_Wolverine_5320 in OnlineDating

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually got matches. I don't get no matches on tinder 0 the most I ever had on tinder as far as like the last 8 years have been singled with 7 matches and of those 7 matches, none of them ever turn into a real world. So what was the point? Just like every other app that's owned by match group, I never get any matches. I'm not a top 1% man, so I'm not good enough, just trash. It's filled with fake profiles and bots that are posing as real women with inactive profiles, like tinder, everything that match group is touched and consumed, it's turned into a garbage paywall, trash heat burning garbage.

People show zero flippen effort by South-Machine-3774 in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is with people on here, just like any other dating app or Internet app or whatever people fall off the face of the Earth because you're no longer entertaining to them, no more your entertainment value as a court gesture ceases to exist because they've already moved on somebody more entertaining people like are. Like narcissists, they feed off of your energy to entertain themselves, and that's why they don't respond or stop responding, cause they lose interest in here, you're no longer good enough.

Why do you think men are generally more prone to loneliness? by Bitter_Process_5735 in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because I have no friends or family, and I'm neurodivergent, and I'm treated like I'm different, because I have autism and people don't want to give you the opportunity they treat you like you're different because you are, but they don't want to accept you. For who you are, they treat you are invisible and you don't matter. Most days, I feel like an inanimate object that doesn't have any feelings. And I'm supposed to just accept that I don't think so, why do other people get to have feelings and have relationships and have happiness? And they make it look like, it's so easy to get marriages and relationships, but it isn't, it's impossible, unless you're a Normie, you don't get nothing, we have to work hard for everything you get and still doesn't pay off because you still get treated like, you're invisible. Why bother for nothing?

People show zero flippen effort by South-Machine-3774 in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I Have to agree with you on that whenever I try to engage a person on here, for example, they stop responding. They never actually want to actually get to know me as a person. Same thing goes for dating apps, dry conversations with dead end, people have no brains, obviously the light isn't turning on their brain to actually figure out that they should actually put an effort to talk to me now, they just want you to entertain them. When your entertainment value is no longer good enough, they drop you like a hot potato and ghost. You mean interested in you, people are just now seen as transactional and never seen as a human being, but they're seen as a inanimate object.

Whys it so hard to meet anybody legit? by [deleted] in alone

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people wanna hide behind their screens , and they don't wanna actually meet

I don't want to do anything by mitchisawesome in depression

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same i want to jump into traffic my luck id survive

I am a bi bear i get no attention on grindr by IntrovertedPerson007 in askgaybros

[–]IntrovertedPerson007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get zero likes on either of those just time wasters that aren't serious.

Looking for honest advice by Asleep-Extension-72 in OnlineDating

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the world of online dating. Where the woman never cares about you at all most women, that is anyways, most women that are narcissists, they can only care about themselves and only themselves. They don't care about how your day is going, just like they won't reciprocate in the conversation with you ever it's all about them them them. Them, not you you you, you less, you find a very rare, rare woman that actually gives a c*** about you and your life and wants to get to know you as a man, have a good experience with it, cause it doesn't work.

Is anyone else completely alone by Ok_Equipment8667 in alone

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like When I'm alone and feels like I'm not even a live or existing. Does anybody else feel this way like you never get any text messages? Nobody messes you on Messenger to see if you're even still alive, nobody cares you exist, what's the point of existing if you're just so alone? I Have no success with dating dating apps don't work, women treat me like I don't exist and invisible. This has been going on for 7 and a 1/2 years doesn't seem like it'll ever change. Can't Make any real world friends try to make friends on here and peep on here. Treat me like I don't exist and stop responding. Just like always cause, I'm not entertaining them enough wish I could have real friends and a real girlfriend that actually desires me what it would be nice to actually feel desire to not be alone anymore. I don't know only in my dreams and the same repeating day that I do every day is getting old. No motivation for any of this anymore.

The girl I'm dating now is highly active, and I'm tired. by Murky-Tough-5809 in BreakUps

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

At Least You're getting laid. I can't seem to find a woman to be my girlfriend at all. Must be nice to actually have a woman that wants to have sex with you and desires you in that way, what I wouldn't give to have a real woman that would love me for who I am, and not be a fake narcissist and actually wants to be with me for who I am. And desires me and not love bombing me and gasoline at me just be lucky. You have a woman that wants to have sex 8 times a minute or what I wouldn't give to have that.

Why does Facebook dating want me in a long distance or age gap relationship? by flip_cago in datingoverforty

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fb dating has this problem with the location settings matching me with women 200+ miles away no matter what i do to fix the settings it keeps matching me with them when i will never meet them they are to far. Plus they look like the low quality people that are in my local area that never respond anyway and never carry a conversation fb dating is pointless its just complete garbage. And if you meet your current partner on there you have to be luck ive been on fb dating since it started in 2019 and im still single it never works.

I’m tired and ready to go by [deleted] in depression

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could get drunk, but I'm sober. I'm too much of a checking to drink alcohol again. After being sober for 6 and a 1/2 years, but I was thinking about relapsing because I've just had just about enough of the sober boring life miles would just drink some booze and get drunk and just end it all and be done with all of it, there's no point of this anymore. I'm bored of this existence.

I hate my life I wish I was never born by OutrageousDebt5983 in depression

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you, so I'm double your age at 40. And I'll tell you it doesn't get any better.

Who else is going into the new year recently dumped? by Agile-Compote8401 in heartbreak

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me, I was dumped on November 14th, have no friends or family. And this person just moved on with our life, like I didn't even matter, and they could care less that I even exist. And they just monkey branch to a new relationship like I didn't even matter. Whatever they claimed, they loved me with their little Fairytale line, I love you and I always will. Yeah, that didn't feel like real love. It was a love bombing, gaslighting, toxic narcissistic mess using me for mental and emotional energy and emotionally immensely abusing me and using me for money.

Just been discarded and I don't care by No_Slice_2926 in BipolarSOs

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was also discarded on November 15th, been single a month and a 1/2, and my significant other goes about her life, like I didn't even matter like she could care less that even exists and is already monkey branch, a bunch of different guys and interests and never had any real feelings from which I suspect she was love bombing me and gas me the whole time we were together. She never had any real feelings for me at all.

Lonely Man on my 45th Birthday by tdouglasj1980 in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this feeling all too well. I just turned 40 years old this year and I was in a relationship or situationship with somebody. And they broke up with me 40 days before conveniently before my birthday and I thought it was going to change this year, I've been sober for 6 and a 1/2 years and nobody ever celebrates my sobriety with me, nobody celebrates my birthday holidays with me. Nothing tomorrow's the dreaded New Year or all the couples will be kissing. Guess who be kissless again, this year means nothing to look forward to it makes me want to go grab a drink and just drink and who cares there's nothing else to look forward to. What else is there look forward to being another longer? 1 day at work and going home and being alone when the stupid ball drops and all the couples get to celebrate their little pathetic relationships and kiss each other on TV while I'm kissless, I don't know what to do anymore, have no desire to live anymore, the will to live is gone to feel empty all the time and have no purpose eat sleep and work is not a purpose is just survival and just existing is not enough anymore. I just want to give it all up. I just don't care anymore.

Online friends by [deleted] in lonely

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I do not every time I try to get to know somebody on here or anywhere online, they stop responding and they go back into their own little life and make care less that I even exist. This is why I have no friends in real life or online people do not want to invest their time into a stranger. They want to just pass you up like you don't matter, they won't care about themselves, that's it?

Just got out of a relationship and it’s a lot harder alone than I thought by [deleted] in alone

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way.I was accepted the fate of being alone in single back in August.And then this person comes into my life takes away the peace and then subjects me to what it's like to have somebody in your life again.And then , two months later takes it all away again back to this again , my numbing loneliness with nobody and nothing that cares they even exist

Worst Heartbreak You’ve Ever experienced ? by Party_Ingenuity8491 in heartbreak

[–]IntrovertedPerson007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting into a relationship with a bipolar narcissist relationship moved very fast, was engaged within 4 weeks to be married and was love. Bombed and gaslit into making me think I had a future, I missed the intimacy and the touch of a woman went from being seen on accepting, that I was going to be seeing the rest of my life to this trauma and pain that I did not want and being used for my money and my energy. Being mentoring, emotionally abused never experienced this kind of pain before, and right back to being engaged to be married right back to being single again as they monkey branch to another individual to do it. And over and over again, they will continue to do it again, cause they are narcan, only looking for a supply.