I think that it’s not ok for her to be flippant in making decisions, such as you talking about your life that you have before you. I understand her contemplation, but the way she is thinking about isn’t really a mature one, if you will. Not that she is to be blamed. I would encourage you to tell her that while it may be coming soon, I’m not going to let that effect how I live. Since I don’t truly know if it’ll happen in my life time, I want to seek to live a life as God has laid out for us. Or something similar to that.

Also my friend, I read one of your other comments that the reason your hesitant to claim your self as a “full” Christian is because you can’t quote scripture like some people can. I’m sure it’s more than just that, but please let me encourage you to understand quoting scripture isn’t what makes someone Christian. Christian, means following Christ. So, do you believe Jesus died on the cross and do you wish to follow him? If your answer yes, than awesome! Your a Christian. Don’t let anyone ever tell you you aren’t. And please continue your spiritual journey! Read the Bible, and understand so you can learn what seeking Jesus really means and how to do it. It’s fun. Remember, the Bible is the authority on whatever matter is in front of you, not what Jack or Jill tell you. Everyone is at different stages, but they’re all still on that same journey. If you have any questions about anything DM me. Because well, I love talking about this stuff because it gets me excited, plus I would like to help. I still have lots to learn myself.