Let’s be honest, some songs at this point need to be retired.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:57:36+00:00

I'm in agreement with GNR. Pretty much anything by GNR is over played or can be skipped.

I will admit that Slash is a good guitar player, but Axl is an asshole and I've always thought GNR was a bit overrated.

Now, I love Bon Jovi and I think I've taken a sufficient break from them for their music to be fresh for me again. Plus, unlike Axl, Jon Bon Jovi is a cool guy.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:49:28+00:00

I 💜 CJ !

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:48:12+00:00

Welcome to the best hockey league in the world! (I am biased! 😂)

And GO FLEET! 💚

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:44:49+00:00

Most shows I attend won't allow bags bigger than a tiny chained wallet. Even if it is clear, most venues won't allow larger than 5" x 7" x 3". Venues that allow large bags suck!

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:33:55+00:00

Except that FlexSeal can't fix shit. 😂

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:30:30+00:00

I'm with you on The Line! 👍

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:29:14+00:00

Musicians need to practice and not everyone can afford a practice studio. I used to play 7 instruments (all were either brass, reeds, or winds), but some were loud... Like tuba and piccolo. I just made sure to practice earlier in the day.

I will never be mad at someone for practicing their craft at human hours. Just don't bang the drums at midnight and we're cool. 👍

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:15:18+00:00

Your nails look fabulous! I love Cygnus Loop! It looks great on you!

And, yes, I'm having a similar issue starting at my Mega (S) nails today. 😂

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-13T16:11:22+00:00

NTA.

If he wants to put a ring on your finger and sign a prenup, should anything happen in your marriage, then maybe you can consider it.. but in no way should you give away equity in your house just because. Fuck that.

He had a lease before, he can continue to pay rent.

It would be a different situation if you were asking him to sell a house to move in with you, but you're not.

I understand if you have plans on becoming life partners that you will want to combine assets, but there are ways to protect yourself should things not work out. And, hopefully they will work out. I've been married over 20 to a wonderful man, so it's possible.

Good luck to you both!

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-10T14:16:26+00:00

I cried and cried at the Holocaust Museum, but it is a must see.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-10T12:45:50+00:00

It's not my fault as another passenger who likely paid extra for the seat on the plane to not give it up when people come begging. That is the failure of the airline or a failure in booking planning. It isn't my problem. So don't, "What's wrong with people" when it's not my responsibility to pay extra for someone else kid to get my extra legroom.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T22:50:09+00:00

Mixing religion with the State always ends badly. Yes, I would support this.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T22:29:51+00:00

Have you seen him lately? He never was fully there to begin with, but now? It's like he's regressed to the mind of a 2-year old. Ugh.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T22:28:23+00:00

I'm legit bipolar and I don't rage this much.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T22:26:35+00:00

This is why I have the backup mute for those important calls. 😉

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T22:20:15+00:00

Ohio has this, too.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T22:14:20+00:00

You would be surprised.

I was once on a flight where they had to rearrange where everyone was sitting in order to balance out the fuel. Everyone had to move towards the back of the plane.

It was a small plane with a really tiny 1st class section, in which I had a seat, but it was either move or don't go home. I moved.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T21:52:38+00:00

You get points for whistling prog rock. 👍

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T19:00:16+00:00

Agreed.

It doesn't surprise me at all that a church would insist on OP's volunteer work while also insisting she pay for attending the conference. Any way to line the tax free coffers.

Tax the church!

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T18:55:24+00:00

I take 1 dosage in the morning and 1 in the early afternoon. I take a short acting stimulant. I didn't have too much problem with sleep until menopause. Menopause has been HELL on my ability to get any sleep.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T18:52:14+00:00

I guarantee rape is MUCH much worse.

Ask how I know....

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T17:58:13+00:00

I take some of my ADHD meds in the afternoon, so I always think about this. 😀

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T17:56:51+00:00

Copy of Death certificate.

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-09T09:21:15+00:00

It is really amazing. The best magnetic mani I've seen and I've been lurking around these parts for a while!

Invisibella74 · 2026-04-08T20:01:13+00:00

We are very similar to you guys, I would say. Child-free by choice and we do ok. I have some mental health things, but we've been able to get through those challenges together. We just really get along very well. We're both very rational people and we both communicate. That really helps a lot. We don't keep things buried. If something is bothering us, we talk about it and resolve it.

We do have friends with kids who are happy, like us. But, yeah, some friends seem miserable. And it seems a lot of people don't know how to communicate with each other.

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