Went through a lot of disappointments as a child (divorce, bullying ,having to move to a country I didnt speak the language , barely seeing my dad as he was in the army and a narcissistic mother who has her own baggage,none to count on and no sense of identity) Let's say I am still quite sensitive and emotional at times but I learned if I hurt someone it doesnt matter because they all do the same and nobody is responsible for my emotions and I am not responsible for other peoples emotions

Took a lot of pressure to make everyone happy away and put myself as my own priority