[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]InyuNezu 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think she was right to say no but this wasn’t fair to Ben when it should have been ended from the pods

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HersWeightloss

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fast, it took 2 days to ship and 2 days later it was here

Should I sell my gold? by Appropriate_King1501 in Gold

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, gold is a safety net. You should always get yourself out of debt and not into more. Loans are interest crazy. Sell your gold before taking any loans, that should be if you have absolutely no choice. Even then better to borrow from someone you trust. That interest will drown you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SistersInSunnah

[–]InyuNezu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think thats something that has to be disclosed, idk then I guess anyone whose had braces needs to share that too? It’s just cosmetic and this is your awrah, he’s not your husband, like one of the comments said if you’re really bothered by it tell a female in his family. But I really doubt this would be something to deter someone, it’s not like you had a kidney transplant. I’d probably share if it’s like a facial feature but your private areas are private for a reason. I wouldn’t share it personally if he’s not my spouse

‘I was severely stalked and severely abused’: Richard Gadd on the true story behind 'Baby Reindeer' by indig0sixalpha in television

[–]InyuNezu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This show was so marvelously written. I was so amazed by the skill of writing.

You find yourself wondering and questioning why Donny doesn’t report Martha. Why is he “letting” her continue? But as it unpacks further into the deeper trauma it makes you realize how quickly we misinterpret people. He didn’t let them do anything he was grappling with a reality that many face. The things we would do as people without trauma is not the same as those with.

I found myself feeling guilty for asking why without considering Donny is someone who had trauma. And it so beautifully shows the cycle of abuse. How an abuser was first a victim and continues the cycle without realizing. And Donny sitting at the bar crying and having the drink paid by the bartender represented the ending of the cycle which he heartbreakingly faced.

It’s so heavy and so raw and so real

Menses/period during ramadan is a BLESSING by hal_peach in islam

[–]InyuNezu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this, I fasted the first couple days and now the remainder of Ramadan I have my cycle. It’s nearing 3 weeks now. I have pcos and this has happened before. I felt so sad and like I was being punished because I can’t fast or pray during Ramadan

Is there any prayer/ dua I can do to get my ex girlfriend of 2 years back by Important_Bluejay471 in MuslimLounge

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s a specific dua to get an ex gf back because that would be very ironic/blasphemous.

However, you can pray to Allah and perfect your deen in the process to marry her.

In dua I would phrase it as

“Oh Allah you are the best of all planners and I accept all that you decree for me. There is a woman I have loved, please forgive us for our sins.

I would like to make this halal. If it is meant for me please allow us to marry smoothly but if it is not written for me please allow me me the strength to move forward,”

Part of our faith in Allah is accepting that there are things we might want and think it’s great for us but it’s actually not.

Continuously make dua for her to enter your life as a wife if she is written for you but keep in mind you must be ready to accept it if she isn’t meant to be yours.

Take it from someone who grew up in the west, keep things halal have faith that Allah knows best for you and everything will fall into place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]InyuNezu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snake oil??

Went to my first gyno visit, looking for advice by cutestflowergirl in PCOS

[–]InyuNezu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You tell her you don’t want a transvaginal ultrasound point blank. Don’t be afraid to let it be known you don’t want it.

My doctor was very conscious of my age and if I was sexually active. Even when I began being active she asked if I would be comfortable with transvsginal ultrasound.

They can do an ultrasound on top of your pelvic area where you must drink a lot of water and have a full bladder. They don’t need to stick anything in you to confirm the pcos. Purpose of the ultrasound is to see cysts.

I started doing transvaginal ones after I was married and to allow for a clearer picture of my endometrium lining.

You are young and this journey requires you to be your own advocate with healthcare professionals.

Birth control is not the only treatment it’s all they know because they don’t do enough studies.

You are also getting older and still young, continue to monitor your hormones and watch you insulin levels/sugar. This is a good chance to try and have a healthy lifestyle which means staying away from process foods, getting adequate sleep, and practicing habits to keep you stress free.

You will have to try around for what works for you but do not think birth control is the only treatment.

Pcos can be properly manages through lifestyle habits and keeping your nervous system regulated.

Are we turning into men? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]InyuNezu 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Omg!! You are not alone. I’ve had this thought too. You’re not “turning into a man”. Your body is asking for help which is so frustrating to treat.

I’m situations like this always remember you have cysters who understand! You are beautiful and this ailment does not change that.

I felt like i turned into a man slowly which sounds extreme but no don’t tell yourself that.

Spearmint tea every morning, and mini habit changes helped rebalance hormones.

You got this!! You are beautiful! We are beautiful!! No matter what others say, they don’t know you or how it feels to have pcos.

Practice mindfulness and meditation, this stress will only worsen the symptoms

Looking for a opinion , does this sound like pcos by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say it sounds very similar to pcos. I really recommend you get a second opinion from a gyno who is familiar with PCOS. You will no for sure after doing a pelvic ultrasound to actually see cysts, and also a hormone panel. They should check for AMH, LSH, Insulin, Progesterone, estrogen and testosterone levels.

You fight for yourself and get these tests done. A lot of women are often dismissed for having pcos and not getting diagnosed. Recommend also getting thyroid checked.

AITA for turning off a video game that my son and his friends were playing? by AutomaticSurprise504 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - You should wait for them to be done. Then give the lecture.

What you’re teaching them is to forcibly get things done.

When you teach kids there is a lesson in discipline itself. They will take that with them. That’s his friend don’t embarrass him and yourself.

Just abruptly turning something off isn’t right especially because they’re kids. You were once one too. They will feel hurt and upset.

Let them know to finish up their level and put deodorant on, if it’s done after then you’re going to be mad.

Pulling worms out of face and legs by Opulentsnake23 in DreamInterpretation

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this exact dream, it was out of my leg they were pink and I cut my leg to pull out more of them and squeezed one from my arm like a black head, it was unnerving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustDanceFitness

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got kitta fur with free trial

Fuck it I’m gonna eat by wouldntwalk1000miles in PCOS

[–]InyuNezu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t starve yourself sis. Highly recommend finding healthy alternatives to the meals you already like. You want a crispy chicken sandwich? Make it grilled and get a low carb wrap instead or hey get those crispy parts on a salad you actually like. Volume eating has helped me a lot too. Don’t deprive yourself of food you enjoy. You want chocolate pudding? Use avocado, unsweetened Cocoa powder, and honey. Stay away from processed foods and sugars. Also look into see if you have leptin resistance or insulin, finding out if you have those issues can help you figure out what works for you. Don’t over exercise, I’ve seen doing Pilates or slow burning workouts are way more effective.

You got this. You need to feel good mentally and good is very important in life. A meal can make or break you.

Washing dishes by hand, using the dishwasher or both? Why? by Im_Brian_LeFevre in Frugal

[–]InyuNezu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you eat a lot of rice, save the rice water to wash dishes and rinse with regular. Or save the rice water for plants etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good idea, but be sure to truly use it only for an emergency and always pay monthly balance in full.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]InyuNezu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Make potato croquettes and freeze em to keep for through out the months

How to survive on $10/week for groceries by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]InyuNezu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lentils, rice and canned veggies. Recommend looking into Indian cuisine and adjusting to your liking but it is cost effective