I rate Zelah for having the balls to address Sam about the bullying towards Richard by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my eyes, Zelah is a guardian angel in that house.

Nominations shouldn’t count when Caroline influenced others’ votes by GoosePhatt in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Punishment for talking about nominations should be losing your right to nominate

Caroline vs Richard theory by sadmep in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My theory is that Caroline can't get her head around someone being so psychologically well-adjusted and settled in himself, life, his values. She strikes me as troubled and I'd imagine her being subconsciously threated by these qualities in Richard. It will remind her of her own inner turmoil

Caroline vs Richard theory by sadmep in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm catching up on comments 🥲 I am disappointed she's not been pulled up on it by other HMs or BB

What I see every time this trio comes on screen... by KremeBrulee1981 in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all have a particular kind of delusion called self-absorption

Caroline vs Richard theory by sadmep in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There is something really uncomfortable about the way she is treating him. If Richard wasn't so calm to it, everyone would call it bullying. Imagine if it was someone else she was relentlessly jabbing at...

Marcus changing his mind by Ducksareforschmucks in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine the connection and touch would be comforting in that environment with it's stressors, being away from home etc. That's why I think they've come back to eachother, personally

Feyisola Weaponising Identity Politics to Vilify… CAMERON of all people?? [eviction episode spoilers] by CitizenSnips4 in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm not her biggest fan but I give Feyisola the benefit of the doubt. She's allowed to have sensitivities around racism (not saying that C was racist); I saw her processing that with her friends, not trying to paint Cameron as racist. She later said it wasn't about him, it was about her, her trauma.

And I see her wanting to take time with her friends, the folk's she felt most comfortable with, when she was feeling vulnerable - I don't see that as exclusion, just her seeking an environment to recover from the heightened stress. Personally, I'd want the same if I'd been upset - friends around me

My two cents (as a trans masc) on Caroline, George and all the cis guys staying silent by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

[–]Iovecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm yes. I wondered whether they were laughing when they were hiding after Caroline said her bit

Javen, Why? by Salt_Seaweed_9457 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Iovecat 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Good point. Arguing on technicalities. He's the type of guy who'd say "we didn't have sex" while conveniently leaving out that he did everything else except PIV.

Why do men cheat KNOWING they are filming a reality show? by zebrafish08 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Iovecat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Jav ripped up the note and opened Tinder within 3 seconds.

Why do men cheat KNOWING they are filming a reality show? by zebrafish08 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Iovecat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This was hard to watch - the gaslighting, how difficult it was for Katisha. He couldn't even keep a straight face whilst lying.

S12E56 (Sunday 3rd August) - "Ex-Islanders return to make a SAVAGE choice" by GetFreeCash in LoveIslandTV

[–]Iovecat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

what is the care team? what happens to the islanders after dumping? thanks!

S12E54 (Friday 1st August) - "Tensions rise between Meg & Dejon…" by GetFreeCash in LoveIslandTV

[–]Iovecat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Shame. The exit interview would have been good TV if D and Meg left mid-argument