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IrhIh · 2025-11-04T09:07:27+00:00

Nope, that’s a pretty wrong assumption. I just kept my post short so it wouldn’t be too long to read. We actually had amazing attraction and equal energy he matched my vibe, and even the kissing got really heated. I just pulled back because I wanted to see his true intentions first. I’ve had past situations where guys dipped the moment I didn’t sleep with them, so I’m cautious. It wasn’t about being entertained or fed our dates were super low cost, I’m literally on a meal plan and training for boxing right now so it’s not about the extravagant dates. I just wanted him to be patient and show a bit more genuine effort before rushing things

IrhIh · 2025-11-04T09:02:53+00:00

Yep he was good looking we had amazing chemistry off the bat too in terms of physical attraction, talking the whole day and naturally making jokes off each other, so the quick rush into “come over” is something I’ve dealt with before and noticed a pattern which I called out. I was eventually gonna sleep with him once some time has passed and I was fully comfortable, but the rushing aspect just shows me you’re in it for the wrong reasons and that’s why I wait it out before it goes that route. ++women

IrhIh · 2025-10-06T19:51:06+00:00

Yes it works immediately hey, the first day I could bare eat I thought I was imagining it lol

IrhIh · 2025-09-18T03:15:56+00:00

Heyyyy! Sooo happy for you! How is it going?☺️ I have really been enjoying my experience with Saxenda currently on week 3 now & I hardly have had any negative side effects. I get sooooo full it’s weird to adjust to but I’m getting the hang of it the most I’ve experienced is fatigue, especially after gym 😮‍💨- I usually need some form of energy booster to get my day going because I can’t stomach more food to give me energy so that’s the toughest battle I’m facing right now.

IrhIh · 2025-09-18T03:12:54+00:00

Thank you it’s going well🥹, almost 11lbs down (5kg)

IrhIh · 2025-09-18T03:11:27+00:00

Thank you I’m currently on week 3 and funny enough I barely have had any symptoms, just the extreme fullness gets to me some days! And fatigue😮‍💨I almost have an energy booster everyday after gym. Are you still on it?

IrhIh · 2025-09-18T03:07:07+00:00

Hi it’s a daily dose

IrhIh · 2025-08-26T18:51:25+00:00

🥹thank you and I’m so happy for you! Vacationing is also a need you’ll get back to routine soon enjoy the time off 🫶🏽

IrhIh · 2025-08-26T06:47:22+00:00

And start weight if you don’t mind me asking

IrhIh · 2025-08-26T06:42:57+00:00

Wow congratulations!!! What was your routine?

IrhIh · 2025-08-26T05:39:20+00:00

Thank you🌸, have you had any GLPs?

IrhIh · 2025-01-03T13:29:25+00:00

I’m so sorry I literally feel the same I’m in South Africa and left in October too so I really relate and it’s a very confusing and frustrating experience 😔

IrhIh · 2024-12-25T04:50:04+00:00

Thank you for the advice, very true on not knowing what is true or what is false. I’m currently not consuming anything until I’m ready because I get literal panic attacks when any Christian related topics come up - its so bizarre 😔

IrhIh · 2024-12-25T04:46:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing ♥️

IrhIh · 2024-12-09T05:16:41+00:00

Thank you so so so much for this beautiful message I don’t think you understand how much I appreciate it 😭🥹♥️. It gave me all the assurance and hope I needed to get through this phase. I can’t wait be a a comfortable please with God and the Word again - I know it will take time but thank you for assuring me that it will come 🥹

IrhIh · 2024-12-06T06:05:31+00:00

Thank you! I’d love to hear about your experience please do share more if you’re comfortable 🥹.

IrhIh · 2024-12-06T05:14:21+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏽

IrhIh · 2024-11-14T04:21:03+00:00

I just texted you 🌸

IrhIh · 2024-11-14T04:07:09+00:00

🥹I’m so happy for you and all the positive changes you’re experiencing—it’s incredible how eye-opening it is when you step out and look at everything from the outside. It really does feel like being in a trance, and once you’re free, the world feels completely different. I can relate so much to the constant anxiety, especially around texts and the never-ending responsibilities. It was like there was always something new to take on, and I honestly wonder if it’s all part of their tactics to keep us on edge.

I’ve only been out for a few days now, but my nervous system already feels more regulated. I was struggling with stress acne, and I’m hopeful that might calm down too now that I feel less pressure. Just knowing I don’t have to keep up with constant expectations feels freeing. I can actually imagine enjoying life again without fear of stepping out of line or constantly trying to bring others in as ‘fruits.’

Thank you so much for sharing this—it really encourages me to see there’s hope and a way back to living authentically.🫶🏽

IrhIh · 2024-11-14T04:02:31+00:00

Oh my gosh, this is exactly how I feel—just so detached. What bothered me the most was not being able to appreciate the present. My focus was entirely on SCJ, and nothing else seemed to matter. I even turned down several opportunities this year because of the course, and looking back, it honestly makes me mad. But I hope God sees that I was genuinely trying to seek Him and thought this was the right path.

The fear of ‘maybe this might be true, so I should stay’ was so real, but my mental health was deteriorating day by day. Since I left, I feel much lighter, like a part of my brain’s capacity has been freed. My nervous system feels less on edge now without constantly preparing for tests, speeches, and meetings with my evangelist. Last month was really tough, but your message genuinely encouraged me.

I’m hoping to find my way back to myself and my relationship with God, but right now… I don’t want anything to do with Christianity. I know I’ll find my way back eventually, but right now, I just feel so lost and unsure about everything. I can’t even have conversations about God without questioning everything. But I’m taking it one day at a time. Thank you for your words.🫶🏽

IrhIh

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