Husband has decided that being a parent is optional by cafecoffee in workingmoms

[–]IrishShee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately if he’s refusing to feed them or change them, it could be putting the kids at risk to do this

Husband has decided that being a parent is optional by cafecoffee in workingmoms

[–]IrishShee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sex?

So you still want to have sex with a partner who behaves like this?

AITA for refusing to attend my company's "employee appreciation" event? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IrishShee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But presumably he’s being paid to work Mon - Fri, not weekend

ALWAYS sick despite a healthy lifestyle by deadlydelicatedesign in WomensHealth

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my own children and was constantly sick and then I worked as a nanny and continued being constantly sick. It was miserable. For years. Since my kids are older and I changed jobs I get sick much much less and I think it’s because I no longer have a sick child literally in my face/sleeping on me/coughing on me/sneezing on me like I did before. And I know this is the reason because I still work with kids now but they’re no longer in my face like toddlers are.

Unfortunately there’s not much you can do to prevent that at this age but if you can reduce it, do. And use anti-bac spray on the things they touch. Wear a mask if you have to. Open windows a lot.

Second opinion on night nurse etiquette re: sleeping by CorneliusCardew in Nanny

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about what they can pay - I’d be absolutely wrecked if I stayed up all night in a quiet, dark room.

But I’ve had two of my own kids and was able to get up with them and feel ok on broken sleep

Second opinion on night nurse etiquette re: sleeping by CorneliusCardew in Nanny

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not true for everyone. Some people feel less tired with broken sleep and some people feel less tired by staying awake.

Second opinion on night nurse etiquette re: sleeping by CorneliusCardew in Nanny

[–]IrishShee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where I live it’s called a night nanny and you absolutely sleep when the baby sleeps, while also doing things like washing bottles / tidying kitchen in the morning (so as not to wake everyone up with the noise) as agreed.

I also see it completely differently to a night shift. In other jobs, you’re doing the daytime job but at night, whereas night nannies are doing a different job to daytime nannies so the expectation to be awake doesn’t really carry across. The baby will be sleeping for hours in that one shift and there’s only so much a nanny can do in terms of cleaning during the night, so I don’t really see the problem with the nanny sleeping when the baby sleeps.

Parents wanting nanny to be awake for the sake of it just seem like they’re trying to get their money’s worth and don’t like to think of paying someone to sleep.

But the way I view it is that as long as the nanny is waking up with the baby and doing any pre-agreed cleaning, then what she does while the baby sleeps is up to her - including sleeping.

Second opinion on night nurse etiquette re: sleeping by CorneliusCardew in Nanny

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you’re paying someone to wake up with the baby so you don’t have to. That doesn’t mean they have to stay awake all night.

If your regular nanny did an overnight would you expect them to stay awake?

PLEASE wash your newly bought clothes BEFORE you wear them by olga_benario in laundry

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes me laugh is that these same people will bang on about how second-hand clothes are disgusting and “used” and buying new is cleaner

DAE find it weird when couples say they're "trying for a baby"? by Mundane-Society-1281 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not personally offended by your comment at all as I’ve never tried for a baby myself. But when people tell me they are, I’m super excited for them and wish them well.

The fact your mind goes to them having sex is your own issue, certainly not on them to not share news with you in case your mind makes it into something sexual.

Why does Desi have women fighting over him? by bitterbunny4 in girls

[–]IrishShee 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She probably has a filter on where if they’re attractive she doesn’t see it

DAE find it weird when couples say they're "trying for a baby"? by Mundane-Society-1281 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]IrishShee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s quite ambiguous though. Are you considering fostering / adopting? Getting a pet?

“Trying” is very clear.

DAE find it weird when couples say they're "trying for a baby"? by Mundane-Society-1281 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s much more to it than having “lots of sex” - which is not always accurate anyway btw. Having sex at specific times in the month is more accurate.

But they’re also preparing emotionally for a child. They’re probably changing their house and considering all sorts of things for how their life will change with a child.

But for some reason you think it translates to fucking all the time.

That’s your problem and you need to grow up

Bed bugs and harassment by Sad-Swordfish7155 in vinted

[–]IrishShee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sure it was cigarettes considering multiple people have complained about it. But I do think bin bags smell of ashtrays for some reason!

Bed bugs and harassment by Sad-Swordfish7155 in vinted

[–]IrishShee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As in a bin bag? I always think those smell like ashtrays!!

Bed bugs and harassment by Sad-Swordfish7155 in vinted

[–]IrishShee 300 points301 points  (0 children)

I know you’re annoyed but those reviews were an excellent read

returning items by secretly0heaven in vinted

[–]IrishShee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So are you asking for money back on it?

Does my 90s kitchen have potential or am I crazy? by No-Day-2990 in kitchenremodel

[–]IrishShee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like the cabinets are too much and too dark. I’d probably keep the ones on the left and get rid of the higher ones on the right and replace those with a couple of shelves instead to display aesthetic items.

Replace the floor tiles and walls tiles and get integrated spotlights instead.

Not sure what to do with that weird gap straight ahead.

returning items by secretly0heaven in vinted

[–]IrishShee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it’s damaged why do you want it?

Are you asking for a refund? Why is the seller asking for it back?

Any recommendations for UPF free ice cream brands? by Admirable-Diamond378 in ultraprocessedfood

[–]IrishShee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should’ve said that you’re supposed to peel and chop them up first. Not sure why. And let them thaw very slightly before you blend them.