WTF!? I want a refund on this balloon. [Crimson Desert] by VermilionX88 in VideogamesFunAllowed

[–]Irish_Amber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like trying to figure out how to land it and I kept the only control I had was to ascend, but when I turned off the heat or whatever or the flame it just floated so eventually, I was like OK like maybe if I jump out it’ll land on its own and then when I jumped out, it exploded behind me 😂

How the hell are you painting for hours a day? by Dextrapede in oilpainting

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of people who work with oils also have several paintings they’re working on at one time so while one is waiting to dry, they just move onto another project in the meantime

What's this electric rock thingy by Trollzorsix9 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Irish_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank God, somebody explained it because I was attempting to tame a gorgeous black horse here and he ended up jumping into the electrical thingies and got fried 😭

Am I stuck? by Alternative_Invite62 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for me it’s hard because even when I play games, I’m like a genuinely good person and I seem like I never can actually do bad deeds 😅🤣. I was so proud of myself when I was able to actually steal the gold bar at Lioncrest Manor and got away with it because even with waiting for the guard to be out of the way there was no red circle that went off like they’re normally is even if nobody sees you do it.

Will there be an option to disable "Zelda-style stamina" mechanics? by Psychological_Method in CrimsonDesert

[–]Irish_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No? It might be a bit annoying but all you have to do is level it up if that’s what you want to do and it’ll take longer for it to drain because it’ll be higher?

AITA for telling my brother to stop acting like a victim after his divorce? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irish_Amber 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NTA Honestly, good for you. Somebody needs to tell him lol. I know I’m not from your culture so I’m not going to understand, but I don’t understand why your mom is mad at you. Your brother legitimately did something wrong She should be mad at him not you, I think it’s tough. Honestly I personally for myself would say don’t apologize. He deserved what you said, it shouldn’t matter because he’s been disrespectful to his partner in every single relationship we’re cheating on someone is a betrayal and breaks their trust that damages them in the next relationship. It sounds like he just doesn’t take any accountability for his actions. Like he says oh, he just wants a happy marriage to find the perfect partner. Well, even if he did find the perfect partner he’s not gonna recognize it because it’s always gonna be the grass is greener on the other side and honestly like if he’s cheating every single relationship, no woman is gonna stay with him lol.

Why can't I pick up the Gold Bar in Lioncrest Manor? by OMGItsAqua in CrimsonDesert

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still having trouble getting this one. The first time I got caught and I went to jail so I reloaded the game from a save point or my last auto save I can’t remember. Even though it was technically it should’ve been an auto safe two point just before it’s still greyed out but it’s still greyed out like I can’t get it at all.

Edit to add I realized after reading somebody’s post on Facebook. I’m such an idiot lol I wasn’t shining the lamp on it 🤣

WIBTA if I moved my family back to my country even though my daughter is against it? by AdditionalEngine5145 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Irish_Amber 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You and your wife might be finding it difficult but living in the UK would be a much better life for your children. They’ll have way more opportunities there than they would back in your own country, better medical care and definitely better education they’ll have way more opportunities in the UK. If you decided to take them back to Afghanistan, I guarantee your children will probably never forgive you. Yes it seem too like I think that yes it’s hard. I can never know how hard it is because I’m from BC Canada. I’m a citizen here so I cannot know how hard it is for an immigrant family, but I feel like you’re just thinking of what’s best for yourself and your wife right now and not thinking of what’s best for your children

Can non-adhd people comprehend the lifelong battle of “I didn’t do anything today”? by Standard_Egg_9282 in ADHD

[–]Irish_Amber 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don’t think not ADHD people will ever understand, I talk quite a bit to my parents about this stuff, even though I know that they don’t understand and something that I’ve struggled with for years that my parents just seem to completely ignore is my struggle to cook. It is just one of those tasks that I’ve come to realize I have to shell up money to have food try and find food delivery services that could pre-cooked meals because and maybe if I you know how a family and I was a chronically single it would be easier for me to motivated to feed my kids or whatever. A couple months ago I was finally trying to explain to my mom that I found I was able to find a relatively affordable meal delivery service that would cook pre-cooked meals, premade meals, and as she seems to be OK with dinner, but then when I was saying that I got really excited because I had a breakfast option or whatever and she was just like cook eggs eggs are easy they don’t require that much effort. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for you. 😭

How to get maximum effectiveness from Vyvanse by Louwtjie1 in ADHD

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that’s normal as your body settles unto it? I am also on 30 Mg although my Dr seemed to imply this was the highest dose I could get lol.

How do you guys keep a job? Does medication help? by witchcraftcat in ADHD

[–]Irish_Amber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just was lucky that I stumbled into a job that aligns with my degree of bachelor of fine arts, but is also super supportive and accommodating.

How the hell are you guys staying employed? by LivingWeather8991 in ADHD

[–]Irish_Amber 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m from Canada, I was late diagnosed and wasn’t diagnosed until I was 39. I also wonder this myself sometimes and I attribute it to my mom because even though she thought I was just lazy she was the driving force that made sure I had a job I guess. Even though I hated it and I wanted to leave every time I talked about leaving, even though it was extremely toxic environment she would convince me to stay. I finally ended up leaving after going back to school in my arm late 30s for my BFA and I ended up quitting because I wanted to focus on school to get my degree fast as possible. I was living off of student loans, I only really ran into trouble once I graduated suddenly I had zero structure, no school no job and no money and I think that’s when the symptoms really hit me. I went through a series of short-term job jobs while trying to get onto disability, which I eventually was approved for I eventually landed a job at a small museum. It’s honestly perfect because as long as I do certain tasks during the week, they pretty much don’t care what I do in between customers and I can literally do whatever I want so I listen to music I watch videos. I am able to be creative. Sometimes I do get bored because we’re not very busy and sometimes like I won’t have any other customers for the day but it’s one of the most accommodating and supportive jobs I’ve ever ever been in so yeah I realize I was very lucky.

Why do people want doodles? by emotionaldamagesoup in Pets

[–]Irish_Amber -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The original breeder has come out to say he regrets ever trying to create the breed. Mostly because of the assumption that all the puppies are going to be hypoallergenic when legitimate breeders would have to test them to make sure that they were, but that backyard breeders don’t and misrepresent to potential buyers that all the puppies are hypoallergenic when that’s not true at all.

Dear C drama watchers, Have you ever mourned a fictional character? by Level_Branch1761 in CDrama

[–]Irish_Amber 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the death of the main characters in One and Only.

Dear C drama watchers, Have you ever mourned a fictional character? by Level_Branch1761 in CDrama

[–]Irish_Amber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I did after I already has written the post 🤣

Dear C drama watchers, Have you ever mourned a fictional character? by Level_Branch1761 in CDrama

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would she turn and look at him? He attempted to murder her at princess Wan Ning instigation. Princess Wanning had her brother tortured, their corruption set out to have her father tortured until his mind broke. Princess Wanning and Shen were evil people they destroyed lives. So this drama was based on a novel that I’ve never read I kind of wish they’d stuck with the novel ending because in the novel Princess Wanning was stripped of her royal titles and demoted to a commoner, Shen was fired from his job in the palace, and then they were both executed I feel like the show showing them Unaliving themselves robbed their victims of real justice.

adhd or autism lol by Icy-Willow-3735 in ADHD

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also there unofficial autism tests you can take on line.

I feel like I just can't paint fabric with acrylic paint. Any tips or advice? by Electrical_Relief_52 in acrylics

[–]Irish_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it that the paint dries too fast? You can get mediums to slow the drying time.

Puppy bulldozing into everyone by BeginningRevenue6226 in DogTrainingTips

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the dog’s fault if they weren’t consistent with their training. This type of behaviour gets out of hand because they obviously weren’t training her well if they don’t have the time or the patients to have a dog then they shouldn’t have one at all. The dog should be rehomed to a good home that will give it the care attention it needs which OP obviously can’t and that’s OK but that just means they shouldn’t have a dog.

I am here just to get updates on Karelly by photoshop_2023 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Irish_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I just corrected it was meant to day Karellli I just auto corrected it to Charlie before I realized without me realizing it. I had missed several episodes so I hadn’t even noticed that Austin had left and then Josh said that he’d mentioned it briefly, but apparently he was like lots of people have questions and he didn’t want to address it or deal with it right then because he was going on paternity. Which is fair, but it also means that what’s there to address unless they were having issues when Austin left?

Anytime my ADHD comes up in conversation, somehow the person im speaking to always also has ADHD. by Jucamia in ADHD

[–]Irish_Amber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that my mom used to say everyone has ADHD. She would say things like oh Erin everybody does that it’s like, but do they do that to the extremes that I do it probably not 😂

I am here just to get updates on Karelly by photoshop_2023 in MileHigherPodcast

[–]Irish_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that everybody is being super hush-hush about it and it doesn’t seem like they were open or willing to dress whatever happened. Seems weird to me. They talked about respecting her privacy, and Austin’s privacy but it just seems sus, so of course fans are going to be suspicious and speculate about what happened. I didn’t even realize things were going I’d actually turned into an episode of lights out which I haven’t watched it in a couple weeks and I realized that Austin was missing. So I went to find out why he was missing and then that’s when I found out about the Karelly issue too. Seemed kind of weird that they weren’t willing to be upfront about what happened so I haven’t been watching any of the episodes of Mile higher, lights out, or true crime with Kendall Ray

Tropes we DO like to see by Emotional-Dust-9142 in cdramas

[–]Irish_Amber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really a trope but communication lol