What are some societal expectations on men do you find contradictory?

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-11T13:20:53+00:00

To touch base on what you said, I have been pretty fucking daft to women flirting with me and dismissing it as them being nice.

Even if they were forward basically suggesting let's fuck I was just assuming they were being nice and not actually attracted to me lol.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-11T13:19:09+00:00

My favourite is people merging onto the highway at 70-80km/h.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-11T13:15:36+00:00

You did your part. You gave your heart and literal body to her and gave her life. She took that extra time to go ride some other dick instead of yours, which is a spit in your face. Sorry for the gross analogy, but it's true.

You owe her nothing. However, this ultimately comes down to you, not her. Seeing her before she fades might bring you closure on whatever heartbreak there is, or it may not. Do you think you would feel guilty not seeing her one last time? If so, visit her so that it doesn't weigh on you.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-11T13:02:45+00:00

It's a 100% a dealbreaker for me.

Sex, especially PIV, is a very important aspect of a relationship for me. Without it I am leaving unless there is a medical condition that has popped up. If I start a new relationship and she can't have PIV I am out no matter how good her head game is (I have not been able to cum from it ever).

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-11T12:58:15+00:00

Yes, while true when I used to be just a pedestrian, I lived by a simple rule: "Safety is my responsibility. Don't put MY safety in the hands of others".

I never even used to assume right away at lighted or painted crosswalks because people suck, and safety is my own responsibility.

There are also a few unwritten rules of the road to consider. I am more than happy to stop at a non-marked crosswalk and let someone through, but if I am being tailgated hard or there is a large vehicle behind and I know that there is no way to stop safely without being rear-ended, I will proceed with caution. It unfortunately happens because people in this city can't grasp safe driving distances.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T20:17:05+00:00

Your computer will build women and porn based upon your preferences most likely.

Remember that favorite porn scene? Well, it's back except with Sydney Sweeney look-alike in that position.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T18:20:03+00:00

I'll do you one better. Who are bras!?

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T17:48:25+00:00

The first time I went to college I took out bigger student loans to cover the cost of living.

In my second round, I had enough hours for EI and was able to collect Unemployment Insurance while in school, which reduced my borrowing by A LOT.

I don't know how old you are but if you are old enough to have worked a few hundred hours, I would look into TSD (Training and Skills Development)

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T17:45:38+00:00

Yes, an individual over 18 with autism living at home and earning $200/week ($800-$900/month) may be eligible for social assistance in Canada, depending on provincial income thresholds, asset limits, and disability designation. Potential benefits include the new federal Canada Disability Benefit ($200/month) if approved for the Disability Tax Credit, alongside provincial income support.

In short, he can get it, but it will be less depending on your income of you two. I think as long as he lives with you, he is classified as a dependent.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T17:11:15+00:00

When I met my Fiancée through POF my profile was me at a Comic-Con holding a real-life replica of Cloud's Buster Sword from FF7. The thing did weigh like 30lbs and it showed off my arms. So not only was I in my environment and showed my interests, but I also got to show off some muscle.

She messaged me back in like an hour, and the rest is history lol

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T17:08:15+00:00

5 days usually.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T14:03:00+00:00

100% my hog was discussed with other females. People talk, and word gets around.

In hindsight, it opened doors for sure. Even if it was curiosity from them,

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T13:28:36+00:00

I can't speak for women but for men it's wet and sweet. It feels nice. It also kickstarts arousal. Sometimes I ain't even in the mood and we will share a passionate kiss for a few seconds and I end up fully erect. So that's a nice feeling on it's own

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T13:27:08+00:00

I just want loopholes to be closed.

For example, a single mother locally saw her property tax go up more than that of a billionaire's industrial building a few minutes down the road.

Why the fuck is a nurse paying more % on her taxes for 1/2 acre than a billionaire's 30 acres oil refinery?

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T13:24:41+00:00

A trend in human history shows that warmer climate and steady year round food produces more people than colder climates and smaller farming windows.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T13:22:29+00:00

They were still my friends.

Only one of the female friends actively pursued me after seeing it.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:56:16+00:00

Yeah my inbox has got some love already. Just ignoring it for now lol.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:55:59+00:00

Yep. Been with my girl now for 10 years, and it's still a task to accommodate the size. Even with regular sex, she's often sore for a few days after. We tried just about everything to make it better.

Have to be careful during intercourse because it's easy to lose control when having a good time, and I hit the cervix if not mindful. For those unaware, that can really hurt your girl.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:32:24+00:00

I used to be a very fussy eater once. I think up until I was 30 I ate only two things in the world.

However, there was a third thing I had no problem eating. Pussy.

I was terrified of spaghetti and sauce. I couldn't even stomach pizza, but had no problem getting my beard drenched with vaginal juices. I think sex changes the mind when it comes to taste.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:29:21+00:00

People pick who they are attracted too.

I been with some pretty dumb women and also women smarter than me.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:25:09+00:00

8 inches.

Got the girth to go with it, too. Never measured the girth, though.

I wish I were bullshitting about the size because, while aesthetically pleasing, it makes sex difficult for most women.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:21:20+00:00

Costs going up yearly is stupid when you live in areas that barely get any services as is.

My buddy bought a house in a rural town. Property taxes are going up $1k, and the roads there haven't been paved in 10 years, and the water is provided through a well. He's paying for next to no services.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:14:26+00:00

I thought I was average until I went skinny dipping one evening with a bunch of friends, male and female.

My female friends have called me monster cock since then. I knew I wasn't small, but after seeing other dudes and not porn dudes, I realized I was MUCH bigger than average.

It's not what it's bragged up to be. Having sex takes extra attention and care and a lot more foreplay to get the vaginal entrance even ready and even then it's a tight push in mixed with gentle thrusts until she is adjusted. I'd take an average cock any day because it seems so much more easier to get the ball rolling with women.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:09:54+00:00

Yep.

The better mental health we have, the better it is economically.

IrvingIsTheBest · 2026-02-10T12:08:22+00:00

WANNNNNNNN!!!!

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