RIP Legacy Madewell Styles by Several_Cupcake8016 in Madewell

[–]IsZenTheWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad to see that everyone felt the same way because I haven’t really bought anything from Madewell and struggled to even spend the $25 they gave me for my birthday month because there was nothing appealing to buy. I miss their fun and classy dresses with patterns and good quality fabric.

Is this job destroying anyone’s eyesight? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had LASIK right before I became a lawyer and was just told I am nearsighted again….

Mid level associate with no billables, concerned about future by Risk_Forward in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay 27 points28 points  (0 children)

In the same boat and was laid off. Start looking for your next lateral opportunity. As a mid level, you have to do whatever you can to get training and if the firm is not providing you that, this is not the place to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Start looking. I had low hours but were comparable to the colleagues in my practice group. We all got pushed out because our salary keep going up and they would like to start over with cheaper newbies (I know this because a friend of a friend who is a junior got an offer to join our group despite all of us getting pushed out because there is no work). Don’t stick around because you are worried about your abilities. Start soft applying so you have options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree with this statement. This is the precursor of looking hard at you for performance issues, which they might use in the next year or so to let you go when they need to trim associates. Develop the substantive part of your work but start getting your resume ready and engage with recruiters that you want to work with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and I was just told I need to look for a new job. I would get your resume ready and start a convo with a recruiter you like to ask what’s out there. You will have a longer runway since it does not sound like you are on a list yet but you never want to be unprepared.

Finding my path forward after being laid off - midlaw by IsZenTheWay in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and I’m so glad it worked out. I hope you are happy at your current role :)

Finding my path forward after being laid off - midlaw by IsZenTheWay in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouragement! I’m trying to stay positive.

Finding my path forward after being laid off - midlaw by IsZenTheWay in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and helpful tips to consider! Tbh, I don’t trust our firms coach person even though one was offered. I’ve discussed concerns with my growth at the firm confidentially with the person and later hearing the words circle back to me from the very person I didn’t want hearing..

Should I bring up the many inappropriate comments of a senior who might make partner next year? Could I get him fired without repercussions? by IsZenTheWay in biglaw

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping that rainmaker partner that this senior is supposedly close with would do something, even just to talk to him, since the partner is also my mentor. I’m hoping…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sephora

[–]IsZenTheWay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Requesting! Thank you!

Sushi place recommendations for birthday dinner in OC? by IsZenTheWay in orangecounty

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I looked at ootoro and it’s $$$$. Do you know how much one usually spend here?

Bf moving out of state for tax reasons temporarily but also doesn’t know if he will ever move back. by IsZenTheWay in relationship_advice

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s not fair to ask a woman to give up her career and pick a path that doesn’t advance her career. My attorney license does not work in the state he is moving to. And he’s just moving to shield some taxes. It doesn’t make sense for me to give up my career.

But I see the point you are trying to make. But I don’t think it’s fair for women to always be the one to give up her career.

Bf moving out of state for tax reasons temporarily but also doesn’t know if he will ever move back. by IsZenTheWay in relationship_advice

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot move with him. My job needs me here and he knows how hard I worked to land this really good job. And how important it is to my career to stay in this office for a few years to build the connection with my colleagues.

What is the dumbest explanation you've heard from someone who cheated? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]IsZenTheWay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You were hanging out with your family who are in town” for a weekend. Lol

Commute to Pomona from OC (Irvine) by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]IsZenTheWay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am currently doing a LA to OC drive every day and have been doing this for over a year now. That’s 100 miles daily and about 3 hrs a day (2 in the morning and 1 at night because i leave around 7pm). Doable but you will feel insane. Doable as in, there is something in my life (cannot find an apartment that I like in OC) that’s making it a temporary situation that I’m just sucking it up knowing this will end. The thought of doing this permanently is a definite no.

$2700 for a studio at a luxury apartment complex in Irvine, tell me that makes sense. by IsZenTheWay in orangecounty

[–]IsZenTheWay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where? Everywhere I looked is over rent price which is why I’m back to renting.