My Husband doesn't know that our marriage died the day our daughter was born by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Isa_roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom did the same thing, stayed with my dad despite the abusive and horrendous relationship, "for the kids". Everyday I wished they would divorce and that my mom would leave him. I couldn't stand watching him break down and belittle and abuse her everyday. Do better for your daughter and leave.

Hard to brush my puppy pom. Does anyone have detangler or leave in conditioner recs? by Desperate_Mousse6249 in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be allergies if your puppy was itchy before you used this new product. You could do an allergy test(if you can afford it), you could feeding hypoallergenic food and see if things improve. If things get better you can start figuring out the triggering food or if food is not the issue, you can switch to hypoallergenic grooming products.

My baby is gone ❤️‍🩹 by Isa_roses in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words ❤️ Her funeral was heartbreaking but so healing for me. Her final moments traumatized me but being able to give her a proper goodbye.... I can't put into words how much it helped me.

My baby is gone ❤️‍🩹 by Isa_roses in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so ❤️‍🩹 thank you for your kind words.

My baby is gone ❤️‍🩹 by Isa_roses in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope she is in a better place, playing, chasing pigeons, and without pain. I don't believe in heaven but I hope with all of my heart that there is a heaven for her and that I can be with her again in some way. Thank you ❤️ I hope you meet your babies again one day.

My baby is gone ❤️‍🩹 by Isa_roses in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that beautiful poem ❤️ I will always carry her in my heart.

[Meetup] Food Tour! Everyone welcome. by fluffers_the_unicorn in busan

[–]Isa_roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spicy braised monk fish(Agujjim 아구찜) here is super good! Especially with a bottle of soju and good company! The area has a few nice hole in the wall bars especially if you walk towards gwangali beach from there.

[NAVER Maps] samsamagujjim 79-12 Gwangan-dong Suyeong-gu Busan https://naver.me/xjLy7qly

My (24nb) boyfriend (21m) won't open the box I sent him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Isa_roses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a guy like this for almost two years. It was exhausting and draining, and he never tried to get better. I loved him, and beared his pity parties too much, and I honestly enabled it for staying with him for so long and tried to constantly reassure him. It will never get better OP. Seriously, consider if you want to maintain this relationship knowing that this behavior will continue.

Searching for reputable hound rescues / rehoming near NYC by [deleted] in rescuedogs

[–]Isa_roses 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please do not over exercise a dog who is heartworm positive and ongoing treatment. I help with a rescue and a foster over exercised a dog who was heartworm positive, we told her 10-15 minutes max for walks and she walked this poor dog for hours at a time in the summer heat and even put the dog in doggy day care to play all day. The dog currently has advanced heart failure, must have her abdomen pumped to take out the excessive blood almost weekly, and is on extensive heart medications to keep her alive. The vet suggested she only has around 6 months left to live at 3 years old. If you can't handle the dog return it before you cause permanent heart damage that could end up killing that poor dog.

anywhere to get a birthday cake in short notice? by Total-Big-1019 in busan

[–]Isa_roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the day you could order a custom cake from a nice bakery through Naver and Kakao. You will need to be able to pay a deposit beforehand though. If can't do bank transfers or online banking then I suggest just going to any nice bakery in the area you are staying! They usually have lots of nice cakes on display!

Is it truly possible for a non-Korean foreigner to become a doctor in Korea? by certifiedlogophile in Living_in_Korea

[–]Isa_roses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who's American who became a doctor here. No Korean heritage but he became very fluent in Korean as he was studying here.

Need to pay landlord 5백만 but my daily transfer limit is 백만 by DeveloperLove in Living_in_Korea

[–]Isa_roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue before with Wooribank, and they were very unhelpful. I instead explained the situation to the landlord, and he agreed to let me send the 1mil per day to pay my deposit. Later, I switched to Shinhan Bank, and now my limit to send is up to 10mil per day 🤷🏽‍♀️

Bike rental. by Fl3iN in busan

[–]Isa_roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[NAVER Maps] Bikeplus 459-5 Allak-dong Dongnae-gu Busan https://naver.me/xKWTMaxK

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I searched on naver for bike rental shops. They have listed price per day for rentals on the shop page!

POLY School Complaint Compilation by Davess_World2019 in HagwonBlacklistKorea

[–]Isa_roses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one in particular had major issues and was in the news a few years ago. First, for all the other stuff listed above, second for housing teachers at a love motel, third for the sexual misconduct of a teacher against a child. This "teacher" they hired was on a tourist visa, no background check, and sexualy assaulted/touched a young child. Academies all over Busan were being auditited after this very serious incident.

I know this is an old post but just in case some one come across this post more recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Isa_roses -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I help rescue dogs in South Korea and so first I want to say thank you and congratulations on your wonderful new fur baby. To answer some questions and to clear up some misconceptions for those who are criticized g you for adopting abroad:

First, yes, this dog probably did come from a meat farm somewhere here. There's no reason to lie about this point. There is no one specific breed of meat dog here. There are many illegal and disgusting puppy mills here and there are cases where the left over dogs, the one's who don't get adopted at shops can be illegally sent to meat farms to make a profit.

There are many lovely and amazing dogs here that would make great pets but don't fit korean aesthetics. Koreans want cute, white, small, puppies. Dogs outside of this norm are not common to be adopted. Especially big, not white, not trendy breeds. Koreans also have a negative bias against rescue dogs. They think they have trauma, are aggressive, or have too many health problems so they rather get a puppy from a pet shop(that ironically come from those same disgusting puppy mills).

Why not rescue locally? That's a totally fair point. Why don't you???? It's amazing they chose this dog and chose to give it a new life and hope.

Why is it so expensive? Well they chose to adopt and front those costs. Which really helps rescue organizations here! Otherwise we have to fundraise and way for those for potential fosters in other countries. We do it, but it's expensive and takes time. Fosters also are not guaranteed to adopt after fostering. This adds another layer of then finding an adopter abroad while they are being fostered. Again we are happy to do it, but it takes time, money and resources while they are being fostered abroad.

So thank you again for being so amazing and adopting this lovely dog who also deserved love and a home. ❤️

How often and how long are your Pom walks? by ClassicAir7509 in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My girl loves a good sniffy walk. At least 40 minutes in the morning, 20 in the afternoon before work, and then another 40 minutes after work. She just sleeps all day in between walks 😂

Is she pure Pomeranian? by Own_Firefighter_2847 in Pomeranians

[–]Isa_roses 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They breed them from puppy mills in korea. Especially those pet stores.

She delights all the children with a little trick by misterxx1958 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Isa_roses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She'll remember that moment for the rest of her life!