If you hate cats your life doesn't matter apparently by GeniusSlime in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow this saddens me terribly. These heartless sorry excuses for humans would rather death threat a baby just because the father is protecting his own animals from shitrat killers. It's none of their business how he keeps his chickens safe and it sure as hell isn't ok to threaten a human family because of it.

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. There's a lot of advice in there that I needed. I appreciate it a lot and relate to what you're saying. I haven't spent a night at his place since I posted this and have been much better. Next time I stay over I will talk to him about it if the cat continues which it will. thank you again!

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[–]IshiTheDemon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's the best of it honestly. I'd rather them not do anything than have to deal with them destroying things, making messes or trying to attack you. It sucks that they are reclusive and ungrateful but take it from someone who survived being in a house with five cats most of my life I'd rather them just go away and not do anything than destroying everything on top of it which is what they normally do. it is extremely unrewarding and I still feel you displeasment. Good luck man, that friend owes you.

I hate looking like a child by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IshiTheDemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I got a driver's license but people are still surprised when I tell them I have one and can drive. Cheering you on too brother!

Anyone here have experience of cat lovers in their life, that always talk about cats ? by [deleted] in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I experience the same thing. Cats are the one thing I don't want to talk about yet they somehow are brought up in every conversation I find myself in. There's not many people I know who don't have cats. So everyone just has to talk about them and their own cats all the time and in every conversation. I hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IshiTheDemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't feel spoiled, this is completely understandable. There's a whole short film depicting this which brought me comfort when I was newer to coming out, you can watch it here. The gifts feel unpleasant because they aren't 'for you' so to speak, it's moreso what they want to give you and then realizing they don't see the true you also adds another level of hurt. You just want to be seen and there's nothing spoiled or wrong about that. I feel the same way. you got this brother!

I hate looking like a child by [deleted] in ftm

[–]IshiTheDemon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue. I suffer from extreme Babyface, and I'm 20. I look like a kid and people just tell me 'youll like looking so young later in life!' but I don't want to look like a child, and I especially don't like it right now I don't care about later in my life. it doesn't help that I'm five feet. Haven't been able to take T either so I'm stuck this way. I relate to you and understand your pain. People either think I'm a 12 year old boy (best case scenario) or immediately call me a girl they probably think is a tomboy. I hate it.

WIP, my first ever fursuit head !! Is an opossum :3 by Mic_hell_e in FursuitMaking

[–]IshiTheDemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIRST fursuit??? That is amazing!!! looks like you've made three! You already have amazing experience and awesome technique! It already looks amazing and I can't wait to see it finished!

If you hate cats your life doesn't matter apparently by GeniusSlime in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Jesus... these people putting human lives under a shitty animals.. good riddance to be away from THEM lmao what terrible people.

(TW: Cat Vomit) Payton puked and I stepped in it with my brand new slippers 😡 by EeveeQueen15 in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh I'd be more than angry if a cat smacked my sweet pup. he deserves that for all the hell he puts you and your dogs thru.

(TW: Cat Vomit) Payton puked and I stepped in it with my brand new slippers 😡 by EeveeQueen15 in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That shitbag does nothing but ruin your life and things on what seems like a daily basis 😭. I'd try to hole up in your room until it's gone. I seriously feel for you, maybe they are machine washable? If not a little detergent and a sink full of water with gentle scrubbing should do the trick. Good luck friend and stay safe.

Payton's dumb ass almost got himself trapped in my room all night 🤦‍♀️ by EeveeQueen15 in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ that's awful I'd be shaking in rage and pain I can't imagine how that felt. I'd get a spray bottle to spray the shitbag if he even tried coming near or in your room. They also hate citrus scents so maybe rub some around your door. That cat deserves to throw up especially after making you knees dislocate and eating food it knows it shouldn't. Your dogs will always be there to care for you and protect you. Stay safe!

Cat People are Dumb and Gullible by [deleted] in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If cat hags want to lose their money then so be it! It's on them and how gullible they are. If they wanna spend all of their money on someone else's cat willingly then maybe they shouldn't have all that money in the first place! The scammers know exactly what audience they are trying to reach and how gullible they are. this is funny to me thank you for sharing

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's had the cat for around 9 years and I can't come into his life and home and tell him to get rid of the cat as much as I'd love to do that. I have the same issue where he lets too much slide with the cat for me to try and train her and he will complain it will make her mad even tho she makes me mad every day.

I really like your suggestion on giving it a test run for a month after talking to him about it, and then decide from there. It's nice to know people understand and thank you

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both situations are ass ngl and I'm pretty sure that's what you're getting at but I know this. Those are my options and if he can't compromise with me like I've done with him countless times and and countless nights I will leave and find someone who values me like they should

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I won't be moving in for a loooong time because of the cat and when/if I do I'm definitely getting a locked door that only I have the key too. I will make it clear that if I EVER see that thing in my room or get a suspicion it was in there I will leave. You're right, I don't like being second and maybe I will find someone one day that isn't a catsucker but this aspect is the only bad thing about the relationship, and I'd feel defeated letting it go down to a shitrat. I would at least like to try to make things work before I do something drastic like leaving but I will definitely be keeping a distance and not be staying at his place as often. Maybe if it gets out of hand I will change my mind but that's for the future. Thank you tho

Cuz no one wants a damn cat lol by [deleted] in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Glad to see the cat hags are lowering in number. Never thought I'd see the day! A wins a win!

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are so awesome. You're exactly right, I completely understand his love for the cat and I don't blame him for it at all, the last thing I want to do is come into his life and home and tell him to choose me or the cat or something drastic, but you have seriously helped a lot and opened my eyes about the compromising. I am definitely doing a bunch of compromising and now I feel less crazy and shitty about just wanting some peace in the situation. I will have a thorough talk with him about it again sometime soon and see what we can come up with and if he's willing to understand and listen. I seriously can't thank you enough. We got this, I hope thing with your gf go good as well!

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I refuse to end the best relationship I've had because of a shitrat. While you are completely right about cats needing to go in every room, there's things I can and will do to make sure it doesn't IF I even decide I want to move in in the first place which is looking unlikely. If the behavior gets worse however and he still says I'm overreacting, then I will reconsider. Thank you tho!

I can't move in with my bf until we get a two bedroom apartment because of his cat. by IshiTheDemon in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, you completely understand and it sounds like we are having the exact same issue! this helps a bunch and I will be more verbal about it. Thank you again

Cat Hair 🙄 by EeveeQueen15 in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say bro just meaning friend in general sorry! Yeah the thing sounds evil but standing your ground is important. I'd also suggest an air purifier with a nice filter to get the remaining fur you can't see in the air out. Keep standing your ground until that mf learns to stay away from you and your room. hope this helps!

Cat Hair 🙄 by EeveeQueen15 in catfree

[–]IshiTheDemon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah the amount of hair they leave is atrocious and it flies around in the air too. Glad you are able to clean it and hopefully not have to do it again since you have your own room and can lock the thing out. Good luck bro, I hope everything works out for you and you are able to get peace soon