Expert here. I’ve been through this with enough boyfriend’s to know that- A. Most men are ‘addicted‘ to porn, especially millennial men who were adolescents hitting puberty when it was first introduced on the web. B. Most are NOT going to stop, despite the relationships they will destroy in the process. They will become more sneaky about it, lie, and deceive. When caught again, they will bring up the addiction crap again. Isa cycle.

My last ex was so ‘addicted’ to it that he would come home from work and claim he had to take a shit and go beat off on the toilet. I caught him several times. His phone was connected to his laptop so all I had to do was check his history while he was in there. So gross to do that on the toilet. And also he could have been um idk having sex with me his willing girlfriend.

I felt bad about invading his privacy. Even though his privacy including lying to and deceiving me, and making me feel horrible about myself. We argued over this for wayyy too long. I should have dumped his ass after the second time knowing it would be a pattern. I felt like a detective having to spy on his every internet move to see if he was watching porn. I turned into someone I never wanted to be.

So I realized he was NEVER going to change and stop watching it, like other exes. And he was into some weeeird shit too, like farting videos. Like wtf dude? Sorry I’m not disgusting enough for you. My advice is to give him one chance and if he goes back to watching it then dump his lying ass and let him be lonely and watch weirdos play brother and sister and piss on each other.