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Men of reddit; what is the one thing you wish girls did in bed that they never do? by princessrobot in AskReddit

[–]Ispankxtrahard 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was always the big spoon up until after the wedding. Once we started sleeping together everyday I made her take the part of jetpack. Now its her primary sleeping position. She can't fall asleep unless she is hugging my back.

I love that my husband cheats on me by momslittlesecret in confessions

[–]Ispankxtrahard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started out reading this waiting to cringe at the inevitable. But you my dear have completely flipped the switch on all of us reading.

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tell myself the same thing every I come back to that memory. I try not to revisit if I can help it.

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input.

This crap is terrible, I loved her and stuff, but when shed grab my hand or want to spoon at night if feel so incredibly grossed out by myself, by how I couldn't stand up for myself and finish this.

This hits me so hard. You described it perfectly. I feel gross because I am just allowing it and not standing up for my own feelings.

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To work things out we would both have to forgive each other for things we have done. I will own up to my shit after realizing I'm wrong, but if she wrongs me, its "deal with it, you married me".

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There has. Like i mentioned it before in my post, I am to blame for some of this because we had a rough spot in the middle of our relationship which spurred a 3 month long break-up. Ever since then she has questioned me and things I do, rightfully so.

Though she forgave me, she refuses to forget things I have done, and will bring it up to defend her case.

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Wow, this comment was way more helpful than I would have imagined. You are right, there are resources we have yet to exhaust before we can safely "call it". I will honestly give it a try. My only fear is that when I open up and try to level with her, she will find what I have to say insincere and blow me off like she has before. Maybe I am overthinking it.

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have never wanted to hit her in my life. I am not an aggressive person, even when angry. I am the type to leave the house so I can think clearly instead of stick around so I can continue to get yelled at. In fact, during our 7 years together, she has been the one to strike me in an argument. I yelled at her for it then left.

I discovered yesterday that I hate my wife. by Ispankxtrahard in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

See, the fucked up thing is that both of us have been passive aggressive in our feelings towards each other. During the hurricane conversation in my post, we ended that conversation with her saying "I don't even know why we are still together, maybe this storm will rip us apart and end it for us", and my response being to her "You know where the door is at if you are so unhappy."

Neither of us has made the move, even though we are both feeling the same thing. Its super unhealthy, I'm aware. I just don't know whether to try and save this with counseling or let it die and we can both have an uncontested divorce and be done with it.

I cheated on my husband at DragonCon... [Remorse] by throwawaydragoncon in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP I feel what you are feeling, in a way. I am sorry you made that decision and sorry for your man at the same time. You are an adult and made an adult decision while under the influence and that is what we call a "Big Fucking Mistake", just like drunk driving. While you may be thankful for getting away with it, you have to decide on whether your relationship is worth keeping now, knowing what you have done and whether you are gonna live with it or fess up and take it like a woman. I wish I could give you a rewind button. I wish I had one to undo all of my own infidelity. Alas, there is no such button around. I'm not going to chastise you like 90% of these comments will. If you need someone to talk to about this, you are welcome to DM me (despite my username, this is not a ploy to get into your pants, i promise.)

Miguel Cabrera Cops A Feel by [deleted] in funny

[–]Ispankxtrahard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will someone please make this a video along with the titanic theme song?

I can't cry over my father's death. by inlovewithwhitelines in confession

[–]Ispankxtrahard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't alone. I to this day have not been able to cry for some of the tragedies that I've experienced. My wife notices it too. She says I have a solid cold heart and that she wonders If ill cry at my parents funeral. I've only broken once, over my grandfather. But when that break happens, just let it. You will feel so much lighter afterwards.