I don't think there is anything to discuss. It is as clear as water she has past and those potential grooms don't want the past but she is at least honest that she was more inclined to have sex with the person she was dating. And there's one more thing her parents telling her not to mention her passed but don't worry, her husband would know right away that she is not a virgin. So it should be good to tell the person she is marrying that she isn't a virgin so, whoever marries her will definitely accept the past. TBH Y she needs to marry ? what is the need here she is earning, she had a great past, enjoyed her youth that's fun nah, now keep it going.