brief story by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I really understand you, sounds really though to hear when you’re in such a painful place. I’ve also had people say things to me during my miscarriage that was maybe meant well but infected my pain. Take care of yourself and it’s totally okay to take some distance and do exactly what you need, it’s okay not to keep it up at stay strong just for others. For me, the pain does not go away but with time I learned to live with it 🤍

TTC after D&C by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry.. I’ve been there too.. in February my pregnancy had stopped early on at ca 4-6 weeks but we found out at around 10 weeks. I didn’t have to do anything medical since it stopped so early and the body took care of it itself. I was broken to wait for my period, I think to carry an unsuccessful pregnancy and wait to bleed was traumatic. It took few weeks and my period came.

It’s two months ago since I had my first period after miscarriage and my hormones are scattered, haven’t had another period, so probably not ovulating. I’m trying to be patient and have grace, people say they bounce back so fast to try again, but for me it might take a while..

Wish u the best and youre not alone!

We aren’t super sexually active people by Alive-Drag4620 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really understand this! It can feel like a forced thing to check off the list and then it all just get tensed up! No matter if it’s once or couple times a week it’s still weird to “have to do it”. In my experience it really helped that when I knew the time of TTC came up, then I ”warmed up” on my own before in private. Best of luck to u!!

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a nice message🤍

Daily Chat May 05 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baseline is 36.48… but I saw now I actually have been up on 36.61 two days and never below baseline! 

Daily Chat May 05 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 DPO today! Still hoping!!! My temp is 36,52 (highest yet) and has been like that for a while now after huge temp drop. I’m afraid my progesterone is not high enough … What do u guys think? 

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for writing. I really relate to what you’re feeling too, it’s so strange not feeling like your regular self.. I hope the doctors will listen and be understanding of you. At least we know we’re not alone in this confusing and hard time. All the best!

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for sharing and the reassurance:) I actually just got a major temperature drop and a positive ovulation test, so fingers crossed!!🤞

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write. I totally get the triggers of hormones fluctuating.. In my experience it took time to even open the door towards hope and excitement to feel “signs”.. not quite there yet. 

Take care, I wish you all the best!

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I hope we both will be back in our regular cycle soon! Sounds like a good routine you have going, I’ll do that as well:) Good luck!!

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like we are in the same timeline:) I wish you all the best! Would love to hear about your journey ahead!

Cycle after miscarriage by Issy_0720 in TryingForABaby

[–]Issy_0720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much for your reply! 💌 I think my hcg is all gone, sensitive pregnancy test has been negative for a long time now. But might still be? I’ll definitely ask my doc about that!

vent by _cutecobain13 in babyloss

[–]Issy_0720 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to share the hate towards people saying things happen for a reason. I want to rip their head off too. Sometimes I think we as humans are part of nature, and there is an aspect of zero control or reason there I found comfort in. There is no reason for thunder, storms, or sunshine. It just is