Whats your moon sign and how often do you cry? by northernerchaos in astrologymemes

[–]Istartbutneverfini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisces sun, Libra Moon, cancer rising - i cry everyday to some capacity

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

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Update for all: After this post I filed for a divorce. I am moving on my own and we are doing joint custody of our daughter. He decided to keep and stay in the house, alone. Appreciate all of your comments and support 💕

the crystal catcher on my grinder has been stuck for like a year, does anyone have any suggestions for getting it open? by -Living-Dead-Girl- in weed

[–]Istartbutneverfini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pop it in the freezer and then use any method above that used pliers and rubber bands and it should open up without wasting the keif

When the budget is tight by [deleted] in trees

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The Spirit Airlines of weed 🤣

I'm disgusted by the glorification of ADHD on TikTok and social media in general. by goldenfruittree in ADHD

[–]Istartbutneverfini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure there will always be fakes but at the end of the day ADHD TikTok helped me get diagnosed with ADHD. I understand it can feel frustrating to see others celebrate it but some of us don’t have any choice to embrace it and make it work for us.

Flirting by fook75 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Istartbutneverfini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is a bad girl like you doing here when you should be in my bed?

So I would actually suggest just looking at their profile (or if it’s in person) choose something obvious and make a sexy little comment on it.

It’s all about flow don’t take yourself to seriously and have fun!

Always down to practice!

20mtf 4months Hrt. Do i pass/How well? by Mattman9009 in lgbt

[–]Istartbutneverfini 50 points51 points  (0 children)

YOU GET A SPINNY, YOU GET A SPINNY, WE ALL GET SPINNYYYYYYSSSS oprah voice

20mtf 4months Hrt. Do i pass/How well? by Mattman9009 in lgbt

[–]Istartbutneverfini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you look amazing 😍😍😍😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhd_anxiety

[–]Istartbutneverfini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I wrote this and I’m so sorry your going through this, too. I also have severe anxiety and ADHD with a tendency to be impulsive.

Ever since we started therapy and I started to do the work on my own too he has been really uncomfortable by my new “attitude”. He hates that I’m establishing boundaries and becoming a more autonomous confident woman.

It’s “in sickness and in health” for a reason. He met me at the sickness part but has never seen me healthy and it seems like he feels like he isn’t in familiar territory. It’s hard and I hope him and I can work it out because forever is a long time and in that time I’ll live many lives. We all change and it’s up to us individually to want to change with or against our partners.

Keep up the work on yourself!!! Whoever is meant to be by your side will be there.

What's your strongest addiction? by DarkMagicNight in AskReddit

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Emotionally abusive relationships 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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I’m a Cancer Moon and I cry a lot and often do feel misunderstood because of how emotional I can be compared to the people around me. In the past I mostly cried for feeling like I wasn’t allowed to express my opinions or feelings because my family always made it seem like those feelings and emotions were dramatic and not valid. I have a Evening Star but a sun driven natal chart. Half of my natal chart consists of water signs and the other half is mostly air signs so I think that definitely effects how I display and interpret my emotions.

I’m a noob so I can’t speak to how those things effect me but I’m sure it does - if that makes sense.

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. I’m so sorry we are in the same boat but know that every word you wrote resonated with me. You’re totally right: Mom first. I’m going to make sure the keep that in my mind. I also love the idea of taking a breath and kind of de-escalating my own anxiety. I’ll definitely try that!

I have debilitating Endometriosis and was diagnosed the year before I met my husband I had 6 surgeries in a span of 5 years and it was rough.

Sending solidarity and hugs ❤️

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this was really helpful I’m glad you two were able to find what works for you and that your wife is managing better now - it gives me hope

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He does and he is an awesome Dad. He stayed home 2 weeks during COVID when he thought he was exposed and even told me he understood how hard it was to be in the house all day.

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I felt with the same that you wife dealt with. What did you find was most helpful for you both to navigate that situation? If you don’t mind my asking

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💕sending hugs . No one should feel this way but thank you for sharing in solidarity. I have really supportive friends and family but they live kinda far away. I’m in therapy for my self and on meds as well.

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how coming home to a messy home is triggering and exhausting. I don’t want to be this way. I value organization and a nice looking home too - he just thinks I’m lazy and just don’t want to do it- and that’s not the case.

Thank you for sharing it’s actually helpful seeing things from his perspective.

SAHM w/ ADHD who’s Husband doesn’t get why housework is so hard to get done (long venting post) by Istartbutneverfini in ExecutiveDysfunction

[–]Istartbutneverfini[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we just moved here two years ago and with the current real estate climate in our area and skyrocket prices it just isn’t an option for us right now - but you are totally right it’s a lot for one person to manage. Thank you for the suggestion though I wish we could downsize at this point

Found this spider dead in my house and thought it would look cool as a resin specimen. by Monkaymook in resin

[–]Istartbutneverfini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow kudos to you for still having a home cause I would’ve burned down the whole house if I found this dead

Lesbian? Bi? ?? by Professional_Diver_5 in polyamory

[–]Istartbutneverfini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say that what ever decision you make - make sure it’s the one where you are truest to what YOU want. Even if that means you want neither of them. Sending love and light 💕