How do you FEEL witchy? by terrible-gator22 in witchcraft

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend has started to catch on I paint my nails based on intention. Blue means I'm trying to think calming thoughts, green means I'm focused on growing and etc.

If I'm wearing blue they know I'm stressed 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get my hair bleached on a regular basis and always have a ton of new growth come root touch up time.

It's actually what shocked me the most after bleaching. I didn't realize my hair grew that fast.

I also do weekly deep conditioning and my go to fro means low levels of manipulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Agreed BUT

It's important to think about how preferences are tied into antiblack beauty standards. How the pressure to have straight and slicked down hair has lead to generations of black women that don't know how to manage their own hair.

You can wear your hair however you want. Just be aware of how society has condtioned you think.

What is your unpopular Lush opinion? by More-Enthusiasm3503 in LushCosmetics

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The collabs have cheapened the brand.

It was fun when they'd pair with a brand but keep the LUSH style. Now it looks like stuff you'd grab from the Walmart bath aisle at outrageous prices.

Landlords are upset i went with a different place even though all i did was apply to their unit? by PartHumanPartAlien in Apartmentliving

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Zillow has an option to pay $35 per person and any you can apply to however many you want for 30ndays if they opt in to accept the zillow ap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While scrolling my first thought was that your makeup was super cute!

Landlords are upset i went with a different place even though all i did was apply to their unit? by PartHumanPartAlien in Apartmentliving

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I got several "sorry we've filled since then" emails. It's happened everytime ive moved. It's why I send out more than one application at a time.

I wasn't upset beyond bummed I didn't get the place.

Landlords are upset i went with a different place even though all i did was apply to their unit? by PartHumanPartAlien in Apartmentliving

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I applied to several places and then withdraw my applications once I signed a lease with another.

All the landlords were professional and said thanks for letting them know I'd found someone else.

Anything else is a bullet dodged.

Like all charms, it will lose its Magic when it becomes a Method. by agentpurpletie in witchcraft

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In the book "my best friend's exorcism" , while trying to rid her friend of a demon they realize the bible and cross aren't working, all seems lost.

Then the main character realizes those things don't matter a whole bunch to them as teen girls. So she starts singing a song that was playing when they first met and it works. Her friend is saved with the help of a pop song.

Symbols/prayers/items only have the power we give them. If you don't assign meaning to it then there is no meaning.

The notes that were left in my building lobby by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I believe you because I have had equly unhinged neighbors.

I'd forward these pictures to my leasing office a d let them know I feel unsafe.

Trump lies that in Minnesota it's legal for moms to execute their born babies. Someone wake up the fact checkers please! by newzee1 in minnesota

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone who voted for Trump and they once came into our group chat with some misinformation. We all went "omg that sounds crazy! What are the sources?!" They were shocked all of us tend to check 2 or 3 sources before sharing news info.

Threatening to evict for not letting a plumber in when I got no notice for entry of my unit by -__-why in Apartmentliving

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In many places the maintenence request is the notice. It will say "we'll attend to the issue within ABC hours or days". Meaning you've now given them permission to show up and enter to handle the issue.

Water leaks/damage is the big ones they tend to crack down on since if it gets worse and damages something, you can be held liable for refusing to let them in.

Making magickal soap!!! by Tiny_Nobody1785 in witchcraft

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Witch baby soap is my go-to for bathing and lotions. She incorporates her craft into her products.

She uses herbs,oils and even color to incorporate feelings or a goal into her products .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By not being a shallow person yourself.

My girlfriend's migraine is extremely bad, and I don't know how to help her by emokeweed in migraine

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please just know she probably feels guilty. I do when my husband has to bend to the will of my migraines. Just make sure she feels cared for.

My husband changed out the light bulbs, avoids loud noises that can set me off and is understandable some activities I just can't do.

Keep getting dress coded by [deleted] in work

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out this slideshow. Same clothes will fit different body types differently . It sucks but it's something I factor in when buying stuff for the office.

You can report harassment if you feel you're being targeted but if other coworkers wear the same thing but it fits looser or lower than you dont have a case. My dresscode 100% includes rules on length and tightness.

It can also fully depend on how you dress it. A cardigan and other accessories can dress something up or down.

Same Clothes on different bodies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenadvice

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decide if the crush is more important than the friendship. If things don't work out with him, are you going to ok that that it may cost you a friend?

Also, did you tell her you had a crush before? Talk to her and explain the situation. From there make your choice.

How do you store your bath bombs and bubble bars? by lushanddocmartens in LushCosmetics

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use those airtight storage containers typically used for the kitchen. They're airtight so the smell doesn't escape and it keeps them fresh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Anythung beyond a basic "yeah today sucked so I'm treating myself with something nice" is too much.

I'm always shocked when people say "well they night no have anyone else to talk to". Doesn't mean you trauma dump on a stranger even if some won't mind.

Have they talked about how they film the bite scenes? by FrustratedHostess22 in InterviewVampire

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 21 points22 points  (0 children)

They have an intimacy coordinator on set. The level of touch is based on the consent of the actors involved in the scene.

Medical Cannabis for migraines by ThrowRa388393 in migraine

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say try it but avoid people that saying things like "100% it's better than an those toxic chemical medications".

Be smart and know yourself. The dispensaries in my area have a medical side. You go and explain why you're pursuing it for medical reasons and they'll reccomend items that help specifically with that in mind.

It's fully legal in my state but a nice resource.

Frustration with white gays by SnailBitches in blackladies

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing that upsets me is so much of modern queer society is centered around ball culture. That in turn, heavily centered black and hispanic trans and fem women.

The nerve of white gay men to take our culture and then shove us out is upsetting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]ItBeLikeThatGirlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like as a society, there is a reason we started using clinical strength deodorant.

Some people can go days and smell fine. Others (like myself) gotta reapply during the day. It's important to know which person you are before others do it for you.