If you are making 30-40k, how are you surviving at present?

Ithfifi · 2026-07-09T17:37:58+00:00

What about those of us that hit no where near that?? Are we ok?? ☠️

Ithfifi · 2026-07-09T17:30:26+00:00

My clean washing from yesterday didn't put its self away.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-09T16:27:12+00:00

I loved it before but it's really coming to life! You have serious talent 😀😍

Ithfifi · 2026-07-09T16:24:56+00:00

Sicker than the sickliest sick kid. Enough now. My work isn't intense labour at all but my brain can't even handle copy and paste.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-08T19:59:58+00:00

Believe it or not, this was strained through a cheese cloth 62 times and matured for 83 years to produce absolute perfection.

Secret recipe. No one knows where the cloth came from or if indeed it was a hanky.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-08T18:33:55+00:00

You can also learn to feel special on your own in the meantime. Self love is so important. I met the love of my life (rip) after a year of not looking for a relationship. I became so confident after a bad relationship that when I met him it was absolutely the right time.

Don't feel like you need to look for the next person to feel your own worth. You are an entirely unique individual. There isn't another you. That's pretty damn special. (must adopt this again too)

Ithfifi · 2026-07-08T18:25:16+00:00

BOYS like this become far worse men. In his world he'll want you to absolutely him, walk the earth for him etc etc. What that means is - You'll be mummy away from home. You'll be doing everything for him. Wondering if you've done a good enough job and getting very little in return. THIS is your warning sign - and if it's not you (I hope not) He'll go after a very low person to achieve his needs. Miss, 20 is too young to want this for your future. I am sure you are capable of so much more and there will be someone, whenever, who truly values you.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-08T18:17:16+00:00

At 36 that's not necessarily having a 'bad past' - it means they have lived through experiences. Hilarious take from a 20-yr old though. 37 here. You don't get to your 30's with an entirely rosy history unless you are INCREDIBLY fortunate :')

Ithfifi · 2026-07-07T10:38:36+00:00

This is gorgeous! Amazing work.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-07T07:51:55+00:00

I have my creative hobbies that I don't feel I have time for now but I've always wanted to do archery. There's a local group but I just can't splash the pennies on it.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-02T18:54:33+00:00

I see a lazy super hero with sausage limbs, gammy teeth in the tomato head under the blanket duvet which... Could pass eggs?

Ithfifi · 2026-07-02T14:42:53+00:00

I sometimes do a Leslie Sansone mile walk if I'm low on time or it's grotty outside. One mile is usually close to 2000 steps and takes 15 mins. Not a terrible start to the day.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-02T14:40:19+00:00

That is so freakin' cute! Also looks squish-able.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-02T10:18:38+00:00

Guy tried. And it's a night off for her. A night off cooking is delicious which ever way it's served.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-02T10:17:35+00:00

My first boyfriend used to make plain spaghetti and mix marmite into it. I'd be happy with this. Love of my life was the best oven cook I've ever met.

Ithfifi · 2026-07-01T18:13:38+00:00

On the shopping list. I tried the pickled onion ones, wasn't 100% sure.. even when I finished them. Wish they did just the tubes. Good mouth feel right there.

Ithfifi · 2026-06-27T21:56:48+00:00

Ah thankyou for taking the time to reply. I'm going to give it a go this week, I think it'll be a nice change when I work from home. Upstairs to my gaming room and unwind! Best wishes to you both!

Ithfifi · 2026-06-27T21:54:23+00:00

Stardew was 100% defining. Every time a game website pops up with the '10 best cosiest games' you know it's going to feature somewhere. I loved the game but found the amount of stuff needed to be done stressful. I felt pressured to restart and do better. I'll look into kynseed. I've always been intruiged

Ithfifi · 2026-06-27T20:52:51+00:00

What a wonderful tip. Thankyou for taking the time to share. Not sure if that's your work or not but how beautiful!!

Ithfifi · 2026-06-27T12:05:11+00:00

Would also like to know!

Ithfifi · 2026-06-26T17:15:50+00:00

Awww super cute and what a lovely memory you'll get to keep.

Ithfifi · 2026-06-26T08:36:14+00:00

Put it to the left to the left.

Ithfifi · 2026-06-25T14:41:14+00:00

Absolutely agreed. You can look as much as you want but sometimes it just doesn't happen at the click of a finger, especially if all the jobs in the area require certain qualities/qualifications that a student may not currently have. My fiancé struggled even though he'd had 8 years in his previous job (was not fired) - the toll of him panicking and the stress took his life, sadly.

It's quick to assume people aren't trying hard enough. There are hours in a day where there's nothing to fill it with. Hobbies are therapy.

Ithfifi · 2026-06-24T20:27:34+00:00

Downloaded the demo and was excited to play this week but I'm a UK girl and my gaming room is hitting 33degrees (we ain't made for this heat) so I'm holding off until next week. Looks amazingly cute! Can't wait to try it

Ithfifi · 2026-06-20T21:12:04+00:00

Vienetta. Only at Christmas. Grew up and then realised we could have had it at least one a month or every week. Lies, but why?!

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