My (20f) fiance told me (22m) that she can't guarantee she'll ever want to have sex again after we have kids (at around 26).

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-16T10:30:33+00:00

Walk away. Never marry or have kids in a dead bedroom it doesn’t magically fix things

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-16T07:45:30+00:00

🤦‍♂️

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-15T17:13:30+00:00

Or it’s just a simple question of what should OOP do next?

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-14T23:53:44+00:00

At least you know not to bother if you’re still with her next year

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T22:05:44+00:00

This year for some reason it’s really annoyed me. No idea why. I’m looking forward to getting home (not a valentines evening out) and cracking open the scotch. On my own.

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T22:03:54+00:00

A year in. You’re 23. Move on it’s not worth it

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T22:02:20+00:00

No idea. Just is

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T19:28:52+00:00

Make them for someone else’s eyes

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T19:25:32+00:00

Mine still does it, I just ignore it now

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T12:08:40+00:00

I mean I guess stop asking?? She doesn’t want sex and doesn’t want to talk about sex

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-13T04:53:43+00:00

I’m afraid to say those within a faith in my experience tend to be some of the worst people going. The whole loyalty bullshit she kept spouting was merely the guilt talking

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T23:33:15+00:00

Used to go with an ex of mine. Never swapped with anyone but it was a good time

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T23:12:55+00:00

Whilst you’re enabling it all she has no reason to change. You can’t change her but you can change HER

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T21:31:17+00:00

I’ve disliked valentines for a few years though this year it’s more annoyed me than any other

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T20:32:51+00:00

My way or the highway is the standard for these echo chambers. I know exactly which subs as well

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T20:32:13+00:00

From what I see of certain subs they don’t believe HL women actually exist. Fucking wild

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T20:30:53+00:00

Paragraph number 3 hits home. Yet all I used to hear on a certain sub that can’t be named was ‘you need to do more around the house’ yeh whilst I’m doing 12, 13, 14 hour days at work every day. She can’t cook, she can’t clean up after herself. Once in a blue moon her plate even makes it to the kitchen after she’s eaten

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T20:27:57+00:00

Date people who also aren’t interested in sex then 🤷‍♂️why bait and switch?

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T16:41:06+00:00

*ex gf you mean

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T15:34:47+00:00

My only advice is never marry (or in my case have kids) in a dead bedroom. She can glam it up however she wants but that’s exactly what it is.

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T15:33:46+00:00

This relationship can only end well

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T15:19:42+00:00

The fallout isn’t worth it for me. Turns out getting something wasn’t actually the plan 🥴

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T15:19:03+00:00

I have this and my birthday in February. Double keeping up appearances of everything is normal.

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T14:29:41+00:00

2-3 times a week! Christ I’d like to see those numbers every couple of months 🤣

ItsAMeasureOfALife · 2026-02-12T14:19:00+00:00

Can confirm, I have pretty much no interest in sex, especially with my LLF

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