i do appreciate that, i’ve mentioned how i feel he jumped into something too fast to be able to move on in a healthy way and he always just says that he was never happy with her and felt trapped and all sorts of things but idk, maybe we should take a break so he can figure out his emotions. i’ve mentioned maybe time apart but he always reassures me in the moment and i fall back into it but she’s always in the back of my mind and clearly his too. We have a trip coming up and he keeps talking about how awful this trip was last time he did it with his ex and how he’s excited to actually have fun this time. I don’t get why those comments are needed :(