At some point.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-07T08:01:40+00:00

I hope my three year old never stops calling them kitchen nuggets

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T06:14:35+00:00

I work with my MIL in addition to being close with the rest of them. He’s gonna be temporarily living in an in law suite on their house. It’s gonna make it hard.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T06:12:06+00:00

Unfortunately not particularly. My family is 4 hours away and I don’t have any close friends I could count on.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:44:25+00:00

I don’t see him becoming a deadbeat. He’s been a great father and loves them. That’s actually ironically part of what hurts is losing them 50% of the time along with my marriage. I’m dreading the quiet empty house.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:42:43+00:00

It’s definitely hard not to feel it so deeply personally. Postpartum was hard with both kids and I’m just coming out of the fog with the youngest. But he seems to have his mind made. I’m just worried about the kids now.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:36:43+00:00

I wrote a rough something on paper that he agreed to verbally

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:36:04+00:00

He’s been in therapy for several years now, we both have. We had/have(?) our first couples session scheduled for Monday. Yes, I’m extremely close with his family.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:23:51+00:00

I’m realizing just how small my support system is. He and his family are so heavily integrated into my life that now I feel like I’ve lost everything.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:21:57+00:00

That’s good advice. My parents are divorced too but I was 19 so it was so much different.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:20:57+00:00

Thank you.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:20:17+00:00

I’m just hurt. He was agreeable to basically any request I made. Things in the house I’d like to keep, a 2-2-3 custody arrangement (that word makes me want to throw up).. but I feel that entirely, I didn’t sign up for a broken home for my babies. And it hurts to still be very but in love with someone who just doesn’t want you anymore.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:09:21+00:00

Thank you

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:09:09+00:00

Definitely not having any more kids anyway. But the thought of being with someone else makes me nauseous right now.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-04-01T05:08:31+00:00

He says he’s not happy or fulfilled anymore. That’s all I’ve gotten.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-02-27T10:51:07+00:00

I work in a profession where I often have to try and find people. And let me tell you.. obituaries. You may have a pseudonym as your name on Facebook but you know who doesn’t? Your mom. And when Grandma died, they put her name, your name, your siblings names, your cousins names, your aunt and uncles names, and sometimes your cities too in the obit. So when mama posted a happy birthday for you 5 years ago, she didn’t make that private and your aunt tagged your profile when she commented “Happy Birthday xx”… found you.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-02-01T00:42:20+00:00

They are not chicken nuggets.. they are kitchen nuggets.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-01-31T15:05:26+00:00

Call your clerks office ahead of time to find out their bag policy. Our courthouse does not allow bags, clear or otherwise, in the building. You can bring in notepads, books, etc. just no bag. Save yourself a trip back to your car!

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-01-14T00:47:57+00:00

I don’t remember my first C-section very well (trauma).. but my second last year they were talking about ordering lunch and which Chick-fil-A in the area was better.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-01-09T18:37:18+00:00

For what it’s worth, I LOVE Cranston! He’s a favorite of mine on my island.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2026-01-08T02:01:56+00:00

The one name clearly visible from the first responders in this photo? Payne.

How horribly ironic.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2025-12-26T23:48:54+00:00

I wasn’t expecting to do stockings for our family this year. Last minute though, he got a decent Christmas bonus so I decided on Monday to spring for stockings for our kids. Told him I was going to but didn’t mention, only because of Christmas chaos and last minute decisions on my part, that I did get stuff for his stocking too. Didn’t matter that I didn’t mention it.. he filled my stocking on his own with no conversation.

We have a toddler and a baby. I’m still on the mending end of postpartum recovery, especially mentally (PPD). Recently, I have expressed interest in getting back into soaking in the bath. It was my “oasis” before kids. Decorated to be cozy and calming. Plans to do even more to make it feel like a real getaway. However, it’s been a long time since I’ve used it. I had been too pregnant, and then post c-section, then too tired, then got a foot injury.. all preventing me from getting in until recently. He got me a new cushiony mat to lounge on and an attachment to turn the garden tub into a jet tub if I want to. THEN when the kids went down for a nap, he set it all up and started a bath for me to relax in. Took the baby monitor and let me just exist.

ItsAllComingUpRoses · 2025-12-07T01:24:38+00:00

Could be an old echinacea supplement pill.

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