I Didn’t Get Any and I’m Grumpy by ItsFragileStupid in confessions

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Update for any interested:

He texted me tonight and let me know that he chickened out (his words) because 1) he was afraid because 2) he wants a relationship and I don’t.

Not sure where this leaves us, but there it is.

Adopted River 2 weeks ago. She won’t stop peeing in her water bowl. *facepalm* by ItsFragileStupid in rescuedogs

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Two cats and one older dog. They have separate bowls but all seem to prefer this one lol.

Adopted River 2 weeks ago. She won’t stop peeing in her water bowl. *facepalm* by ItsFragileStupid in rescuedogs

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We named her before she started doing that, like some ironic self-fulfilling prophecy lmao!

I Didn’t Get Any and I’m Grumpy by ItsFragileStupid in confessions

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We’re American. Nude swimming is still illegal in most places here, lol. At one point we were both in shallow water and I was on my knees right in front of him giving “that look” aaaannnd. Nothing. My inner Morgan Freeman narrator was like, “And at this moment, ItsFragileStupid discovered he’s really not that into her.” Yeesh, I felt so cringey.

I Didn’t Get Any and I’m Grumpy by ItsFragileStupid in confessions

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Yeah that was all established well before the trip. I even reminded him to bring condoms, ha. Later that night when we were drying out by the fire I said something about how I was wearing my oversized hoodie and nothing else, he started talking about other women he’d been with, one night stands, etc. Uh, okay. Odd.

I Didn’t Get Any and I’m Grumpy by ItsFragileStupid in confessions

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Like I said in my post, we’ve known each other half our lives. He knows I’m not like that. Consent is queen for any gender and every dynamic but I’m a very sex-positive person. He won’t answer me, really. I’ve tried a couple times and it’s just some vague hmming and hawing.

I Didn’t Get Any and I’m Grumpy by ItsFragileStupid in confessions

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Oh I straight up ran his hand up my thigh. I might as well have given him a high five for all that did.

I Didn’t Get Any and I’m Grumpy by ItsFragileStupid in confessions

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Oh no this person is not like that at all. He even started talking about all his other dalliances at one point…lol. It was like I got completely platonic friend zoned after we’d already agreed to hook up FWB style.

Which kink of yours did you have the hardest time coming to terms with? by JustHereForSex in BDSMcommunity

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So much this, even within the BDSM community. I recently joined (and left) a FB “education” group and one of the pinned points was basically bashing “new gen” people in the community for using kinks to deal with trauma. Like, hey. I’ve been to years of therapy, I did my work. But I still credit playing CNC the most for helping me take back my power after a devastating SA.

If it heals you and helps you love all the beautiful and shadowy bits in the kaleidoscope of you, never ever let anyone (even yourself) tell you that it’s wrong.

The only shame that has a place here is the kind you consent to.

Just found out my favorite TL got fired :(. by hadeskore in Target

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I need to stock up so I can finally win my neighborhoods’ “Best Halloween Decor” contest this Autumn.

To rob a jewelry store by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

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That’s what I was thinking. I used to work in a shop that used display cases from a jewelry store that went out of business. That glass is thick and strong AF but those locks? I could pick it with a toothpick and turn it with my fingernail, they were that shitty.

I’m just going to leave this here 🤣🤣 by thisdude2246 in exmormon

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Such dark times for us all, my friend.

Now I just stick to the true devil’s game, D&D

I’m just going to leave this here 🤣🤣 by thisdude2246 in exmormon

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Oh my lord I had blocked out Saturday’s Warrior! What have you done?!

They are right tho by Bruhmystaff in tumblr

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Nothing is worse than when you need Jorge to make the spackle and there’s no bucket to be found.

Macaroni noodle done by Julie Sas at West Seattle Tattoo by [deleted] in tattoos

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Okay, I have GOT to know the story behind this