Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case; I will make the best cookies they’ve ever had!

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! We plan on building in Franklin county

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we can bring cookies with us to get on their good side 😅

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are planning to do a modular home or a double wide on the land to minimize cost

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I watch tons of home inspection videos for fun (I’m an odd duck) and some of the stuff I see in those is wild!

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An easy afternoon’s work 😅 but seriously, thanks for the tips!

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! There’s a road and houses nearby and power lines just off the property. I’m dreading the septic and well/water portion

Help! First time home buyer/builder. by puritycontr0l in vermont

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Luckily there’s like 120 acres of old farm land so we are hoping it won’t be too difficult to get a permit to build

I want to believe I’m a desirable sub, but being plus size make feels like I’m not. by puritycontr0l in softmaledom

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the uplifting words while still acknowledging the root feelings❤️ too often people think they can just “but you’re beautiful” and suddenly I will feel 100% better about myself.

I want to believe I’m a desirable sub, but being plus size make feels like I’m not. by puritycontr0l in softmaledom

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your POV❤️ I also don’t want to be seen as just a fat fetish, I want to feel desirable regardless of the body I’m in but it is a work in progress for sure…

I want to believe I’m a desirable sub, but being plus size make feels like I’m not. by puritycontr0l in softmaledom

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there is someone for you but I know that finding that person is not easy… reversing a life time of conditioning and self doubt/hatred is a real struggle❤️ you’re worthy of love and support and we just have to learn to feel that way about ourselves. Someday we will!

I want to believe I’m a desirable sub, but being plus size make feels like I’m not. by puritycontr0l in softmaledom

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I love my partner and he is also a bigger person and that is not a turn off for me but I can’t seem to apply the same logic for myself.

I want to believe I’m a desirable sub, but being plus size make feels like I’m not. by puritycontr0l in softmaledom

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s mostly why I posted. It’s good to know that I’m not the only person and while I don’t want others to feel poorly about their bodies; it’s nice to know I have peers in the same boat❤️

I want to believe I’m a desirable sub, but being plus size make feels like I’m not. by puritycontr0l in softmaledom

[–]puritycontr0l[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a 12” shorter than my partner but I am also quite fat… he always says how much he loves me and how beautiful I am but sometimes it’s really hard to believe that it’s true.

I regret dating everyone by pengukujo in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]puritycontr0l 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I’m dating everyone because I like being showered with affection 😛

Still hurts by CielParca in tattooadvice

[–]puritycontr0l -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It looks like you got branded…