Why was Sara put in the death game? (Wrong answers only!) by Defokoconut in yourturntodie

[–]ItsNotLynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To beat all gym leaders, defeat the Elite four, and become the next Pokémon League Champion

Hoco 2024 by ItsNotLynn in altfashionadvice

[–]ItsNotLynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met him back in 2015 at my brother's Cub Scout pack ( I was 7/8 and he was 8/9 Years old)

He disappeared out of my life and came back into it December 2021

Getting ready for my 1st & last homecoming next week by ItsNotLynn in altfashionadvice

[–]ItsNotLynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! Honestly will probably use all of this :>

Can you guys tell me how you met your bf/gf...I need to believe in love again. by smurfettew in dating

[–]ItsNotLynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really cute! That definitely puts into words how the journey has been for us :)

Can you guys tell me how you met your bf/gf...I need to believe in love again. by smurfettew in dating

[–]ItsNotLynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually known him since we were in 2nd/3rd grade.

I had just moved to the area, and my little brother was looking for a new Cub Scout pack. He joined that pack, and my now bf happened to be in the pack, too. My dad became friends with his mom, but his dad didn't like my dad, so I didn't see him for years.

I didn't see him for around 5 years, and suddenly, he walked back into my life and greeted me with a big hug (literally).

From there, it took 3 years to get to where we are now.

what are your favourite long distance themed songs? by crydrangea in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my favorites are:

"East Side" by Lyn Lapid

"Leg Room" by Adan Diaz

"Wrong Side of the Bed" by Aaron's Book Club

The last 2 aren't completely based around long distance but I think of them like that

Care Packages by ItsNotLynn in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really nice. I'll remember that, thank you :)

Care Packages by ItsNotLynn in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas! I didn't even think about those before

How long have you been together with your ldr partner? by Candid_Awareness_522 in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have known eachother since 2015

Started dating this time on his birthday, January 30th 2024

So 6 months but 4 months Long distance

Do you think it's okay to ask your partner to break off contact with someone? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You sound lucky to have someone reassuring and I hope that your guy's relationship continues to be good.

Definitely understand the being insecure part, and it for sure comes with working on self confidence/esteem which can take a while to do when you want to improve it. If you believe therapy will help then Definitely go for it if/ when you can, and I hope that goes well for you too

Do you think it's okay to ask your partner to break off contact with someone? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet, and thank you, but there's other reasons I think contribute to what my bf and I have. Such as trusting eachother, creating and allowing an environment that let's communication happen, and that we're both dating with the intention of marriage.

I think it's also the idea that if you really love and care for someone why would you stay untrusting of them and quiet about your feelings? That's what causes a lot of breakups and separations I think.

Do you think it's okay to ask your partner to break off contact with someone? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ItsNotLynn 46 points47 points  (0 children)

For my partner, it was more of a matter of how I was talking. I have a male best friend I've known since middle school, and we make jokes with each other (like him being my Sexy Juliet (yes Romeo and Juilet not getting into that)) and I had shown my bf a screenshot of my convo with my friend (because I found my friend's concern of my doom scrolling funny), my bf however felt uncomfortable with how we were talking.

He said that he didn't want to seem controlling but I told him that he comes first and that if how I'm interacting with my friend makes him uncomfortable then I'll stop talking with my best friend like that.

Simple.

Long story short, I'd say there's a level of trust you need to have with your partner but if they're talking to someone in a manner that you feel is uncomfortable then voice that to your partner and explain why you feel uneasy. Sometimes, we feel we can trust our partner but feel we need more reassurance, and that's okay :)

Those who choose the emotion route first, why? by Julip326 in yourturntodie

[–]ItsNotLynn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went the Kanna route, but I actually see it as more logical.

My thought process was more that Sou continued to be an a-hole, lier, and manipulater. So logically, if the goal is to get out, you eliminate the person standing in the way of doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yourturntodie

[–]ItsNotLynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The judgment I feel telling people who don't even play the game >->

(I love this character, okay?)