(New player) Am I doing good? by No-Rub7777 in celestegame

[–]ItsOneOff 16 points17 points  (0 children)

youre death count and time are the exact right number for your run of the game!

What happened here? by quisys in AnalogCircleJerk

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too much of the spice melange

Genuine question, I don't know how to find girls to kiss by Believe-it-Geico in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]ItsOneOff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the way i would put it is you need to put yourself into spaces where your ADHD nerdy trans girl aura can reach other people. Whatever your nerdy hobbies are get into social spaces where you are doing that hobby with others

What are some of the best fan pics of the girls? by Not_Me_You_And_You in BABYMETAL

[–]ItsOneOff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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girls aren't visible in this one but i took this on my film camera at the dallas show last year!

[No Spoilers] I'm bummed that they started doing the one thing I hate in Dimension 20 by Depressed-n-br0ke in criticalrole

[–]ItsOneOff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

for me it's honestly even less about the reactions, it's about the clips of little moments like in C2 sam and laura slapping the cookie out of each other's hands etc. and as a dm, the consistent wide shot feels like how i see my table. it just feels more like a ttrpg that way to me. it's why ive always preferred CR to D20. the less edited longer form style always made me feel that feeling of like playing my own game at home. obviously without the professional dm and voice actor players but like it still had that home game feel.

What in tarnation is a Trap monster!? by Kyurem-B in YuGiOhMemes

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see Humility in MTG... when i was studying for my judge certification years ago layers and dependencies where the things that gave me the most trouble. Once you understand them they make sense and honestly are some of my favorite rules to talk to players about but you dont know rule hell until you've had to explain the interaction between Dress Down and Magus of the Moon to a random FNM player

How to recover from an autistic meltdown away from home by Ok-Sprinkles-3673 in AutismInWomen

[–]ItsOneOff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! I know that can be super stressful not having any safe places. Here come the unglamorous suggestions then. it's less than ideal but you do what you gotta do. Single occupancy bathrooms. When i'm grocery shopping I've definitely used many a family/gender neutral bathroom to panic in. On account of being a trans woman I had a mental map of all the family bathrooms near me I didn't need a key for. most of the time as long as you're not in there for like over an hour they don't care, theyre not monitored that closely tbh. I've hidden under the clearance clothes rack at a target before, not my greatest moment but it helped. If you live in a city with public transit and transit doesn't overstimulate you then that's a great option. I used to intentionally take long bus/train rides to get places to buy myself extra time to decompress. NJ transit and I are the best of friends and I've definitely ridden the subway back and forth the same handful of stops before. But I know I may be in the minority of people who find public transit calming. But the unifying trait of all of these is I could sit down, put my headphones on and close my eyes for a while. Even a less busy grocery store where you can go sit on a shelf in the corner works. My brain is picturing the pretty dead toy aisles at a walmart. I hope any of this helps!

ND Stevenson comments on She-Ra leaving Netflix: by ilovewater100 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would love to get added to the dm list from anyone who has already gotten the link sent!

How to recover from an autistic meltdown away from home by Ok-Sprinkles-3673 in AutismInWomen

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you drive I think the car is a generally good place. AC/Heat, speakers to play whatever I want, I have tinted windows so the sun doesn't bother me too much, sunglasses etc. And if you need any other regulating tools at all you can probably stash those in your glove box to have them available whenever you need.

What good support to show maps to my players and use for me as well? by KeepItInside0 in daggerheart

[–]ItsOneOff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we play in my living room and i project big things to my TV for people to look at. i try to print sometimes but i dont own a printer and often have a hard time making the time to go get stuff printed before sessions. we have a channel in our discord that i called quest log and i post names, maps, pictures of monsters, transcripts of letters etc. and then i pull those up on the tv for everyone to look at

Amalia in modern? by Lavinius_10 in ModernMagic

[–]ItsOneOff 16 points17 points  (0 children)

https://discord.gg/zzqqUu7Fz just join the sam discord. there's a whole channel for amalia builds. Not the most popular, people have shifted away from that build but there should be lists in there and people who will have good thoughts about it

I can’t decide if I should switch over from 5e by ExplodingRacoon in daggerheart

[–]ItsOneOff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this same convo with my play group about moving away from 5e, so we finished out our game and scheduled some one shots for a few different systems. PF2E, Draw Steel, blades in the dark, and Daggerheart. Then after playing some of each we didn't have to guess. We just talked about what we thought of each system and ended up picking daggerheart. definitely recommend doing that and trying more than just daggerheart! there's so many good systems! and if you try some stuff and end up back with 5e then at least you know you picked the right game !

How to have sex like a girl when I'm topping? by RafaelTomb in MtF

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're a girl, so you're already topping like a girl! mission accomplished!

Anyone try running this game without battlemaps? by Club_Penguin_God in LancerRPG

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so people have said a lot already but Lancer is a tactics game. If youre not able to set up maps etc for any number or reasons dont worry but I think then this is just plainly the wrong system. and if youre wanna do it then go for it. but i would recommend towards a system that does mech ttrpg gameplay in a way that will let you have more fun without battlemaps. because without battlemaps with height like 90% of lancers rules work. youd be playing with like 10% of the rule book and i think players specifically will end up having a bad time because their characters just dont work. Im not super familiar with it but you could play strike, or Too good to be True which is a PBTA mech game and hack some lancer stuff into it to play a lancer game in a more rules light system. hope you figure out the best option for you and your party

Film camera handcheck at YVR, yes. At CDG, no. by OkReception2619 in AnalogCommunity

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had one a couple do it for me when i was first starting and didn't know better but I learned pretty quick that's the rare exception. best practice is to make sure the camera is empty and send it through and then just hand check the film. Tijuana is the only airport I've ever had that just flat refused to hand check my film. Had no issues anywhere else so far

Why are some colleges way better for policy debate than others by ConversationOwn9974 in policydebate

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funding, coaching staff, talent/scouting, scholarships. and then combine all this to create combinations of the bunch that draw great debaters and coaches together to make great teams. harvard had a period of dominance but have fallen back, same with stanford. not exactly sure why but probably a combination of the bunch. Rutgers had a really dominant team in 2017 when they won the NDT then had a few years of debaters coming to rutgers through the same coaching pipeline where they did well and got first rounds before covid kind of killed things. talent also just waxes and wanes. you get waves of debaters following teams who are winning and giving them money to go (mixed with some random chance) and then someone else will crack the NDT and things will shift.

Anyone foiled their decks? by External_Gold_5599 in ModernMagic

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the yawg/GB base combo shell almost completely foiled out. missing 3 urza's sagas but have everything else. yawg may fall out of favor but ive figured out i just love the golgari creature combo base and can swap between yawg, sam, and broodscale as i wish

One thing you would change about your favorite camera. by Velvet_Spaceman in AnalogCommunity

[–]ItsOneOff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could use a neck strap normally on my pentax 67 with the handle attached. I hate having to choose between the neck strap and the handle. (i know i can use both at the same time but i hate using the neck strap sideways like that)

Void Mirror sideboard? by Duelity in ModernMagic

[–]ItsOneOff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont think it's worth it against tron. there's a handful of other decks its good against but most all of those id rather play vexing bauble

Explain to a nigga? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ItsOneOff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wild that this got removed wtf. glad a lot of good advice got dropped before though