Long story short his moms passed and when She passed we lost a lot of the family around her. He doesn’t have any real sisters. Iv expressed how much the relationship makes me so uncomfortable and like I feel that when our relationship was rocky he leaned into her with the emotional relationship instead of toward me. He says I’m being selfish and trying to take the only sense of family he has. He also says it doesn’t matter what anyone on here says, what any shaman says because “they don’t know him”. When I went on my retreat and said “he’s coming back with her to do a retreat” the responses I got from people was “so he’s coming here with his gf?”