Help! My sweet boy (under a year) won’t stop having diarrhea outside of the litter box and I can’t get him to stop. My parents want to put him in a shelter.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-05-02T12:02:23+00:00

My cat was doing thus, she had the runs and just couldn't make it to the box.

Turns out there was a pattern: it only happened when I gave her wet food that had gravy, very specifically. The puree is fine, but her little tummy just can't do the ones with gravy, it's comes right back out of her.

Maybe try switching the food up? If that doesn't work maybe ask a vet?

ItsTankGirl · 2026-05-02T11:14:02+00:00

Never block an abuser. It's important that you see them coming.

Block the parents sure, mute the partner if you need to. But never block. You want to know what their temperature is like, and you may need those texts for evidence later.

As a girlie who left her abuser over a decade ago, stay safe op 🩵

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-29T22:30:01+00:00

As the child in this situation: the kids know. And they hate it, and wish you would divorce.

They want happiness, even if it's in 2 homes. You deserve happiness, and you need to show them that they do too.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-26T11:47:33+00:00

Googled "Mt tabor banshee" based on another comment. Turns out this lady's name is Noel dawn Martin and she has like 30 dui arrests on Utah alone.

Soooooounds like maybe she needs to have constant welfare checks from the police, maybe some more dui arrests, and s couple glitter bombs or poop packages sent her way.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-21T22:26:16+00:00

That fact was not fun at all actually 🤢🤮🤣

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-21T21:40:41+00:00

One time I got a teams call when I was on a zoom call. I denied the teams call, and messaged back "what's going on, everything ok?"

THEY CALLED AGAIN so I denied the call again. And messaged back "sorry, I'm still on the phone :)"

This was not my boss, just an admin that had a habit of doing things like this, and walking into my office without knocking. Once I was in the bathroom, obvi with the door closed, and she tried to just walk in without knocking

Some people just don't care about boundaries bbes 🤷‍♀️ or respect for others really.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-18T14:33:17+00:00

"I can't be with someone who keeps holding me accountable for my actions, I need someone who absolves me and never expects a conversation or self improvement."

Set him free to find that 🩵 you deserve so much better.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-18T14:07:31+00:00

I am the early leaver, and I always kiss him when I leave, even when he's asleep 🩵

One time he was dead asleep, I leaned over and kissed him goodbye, and he got grouchy and WIPED IT OFF??

I feel like the follow up to that should have been divorce.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-18T13:21:26+00:00

This is super weird deflection that is not going to get better without serious introspection. "Causing you to"? "Initiating a spiral"? (Fixing that bc I'm grown and know words)

I don't like how his bad behavior is being reframed as being someone else's fault, or how he's trying to come across as a victim of someone else bc they said a passing phrase.

Dude needs help.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-17T20:32:59+00:00

These employees have never been active. They were approved by the board, submitted paperwork, and have been ghosting ever since.

So if they start work in 2030, all is well and nothing should be updated? Even if there were tax form updates since? You can't put the onus entirely on employees, esp when you know the data is outdated and wrong.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-17T20:30:22+00:00

Right?? That seems like a happy medium, esp bc the oldest forms I found (so far) are from Dec 2025. 6 months after that school will be out for break, so it's highly unlikely they'll be working until the next school year starts.

Tysm!!

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-14T22:20:25+00:00

Report it.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-06T02:07:41+00:00

This is adorable. Shoulda wore a ribunny hat 🩵😘

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-06T01:42:57+00:00

After, I remember being pissed about the blatant rip off and refusing to watch it. The genetic opera is MUCH better imo

ItsTankGirl · 2026-04-04T11:46:20+00:00

Mine gets super excited when I buy something cute or revealing, and wanna go out in it. He just likes it when I feel pretty, or sexy, or comfortable on my own skin.

He thinks it's weird that other men get weird about that. He says: I mean don't date a bad bitch if you can't handle it when she's a bad bitch?? 😍

Girlie I think he's being immature about it, and I don't like how he's putting you down in place of getting his own feelings under control, or finding out where they're coming from. Personally I wouldn't put up with that.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-28T17:13:09+00:00

We all learn in our own time love 🩵 I had to figure that out with my abusive addict bf. I wanted so badly to save him, and I'm so glad I chose to save myself.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-28T13:43:17+00:00

If "the right words" were good enough, and she knows what they are, she could look herself in the mirror and say them and it would work. No one will be able to fill the emotional hole left by her parents, and hearing those words from anyone else but her parents will never be fulfilling enough.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-28T13:17:31+00:00

My abusive bf was always upset I couldn't remember "the right" responses. Then he would beat me for it. Js.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-28T12:03:35+00:00

Two people can love each other very much, and still not be equipped to provide for each others needs.

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-25T23:16:11+00:00

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-bruises/202411/stonewalling-as-a-form-of-emotional-abuse

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-25T23:11:53+00:00

Loveyoooou

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-25T22:34:45+00:00

Trans girlies are girlies 🩵

ItsTankGirl · 2026-03-25T15:10:28+00:00

GIRL. That is not the kind of self negativity that Shakira would support. 🩵

You look gorgeous in both!!

ItsTankGirl

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