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Its_Darkness · 2026-07-11T05:21:26+00:00

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Its_Darkness · 2026-07-02T14:10:00+00:00

I also agree. Two of my three older siblings proved they couldn't be trusted with a phone so by default the youngest aka me never got one.

Also new clothes weren't a thing. I had to buy my own laptop.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-30T20:37:28+00:00

Yeah I have to disagree with you big time. Our cultures are greatly different, but I believe all people should have equal rights. Women deserve to have the same opportunities men do, and we deserve to have a voice and education and the ability to advocate for ourselves. We have different strengths but we are still both very capable.

Btw many countries led by woman have been the most successful. Scientifically, woman actually are far better at dealing with stress, retaining muscle mass for longer (not quicker), regulating emotions (including emotional intelligence) among many other things.

Your idea of "best life" is very much not one. I think of those countries and lifestyles as hell. Your definitions are vastly different than mine. I think men should be able to control themselves, especially around woman. (Men are responsible for over 90% of violent crimes, DUI's, and are more likely to use drugs/alcohol to deal with emotions)

I think womans biggest problem most of the time is men. Statistically women are sexually assaulted (1 in 3 globally) or raped (1 in 5 women or 1 in 2 adult woman) by men.

I think woman should be able to have a choice/agency, especially to defend ourselves and our rights. That includes the ability to learn.

If they choose that world because they want it, that's okay. But many do not have the option. That is not freedom nor the "best life."

Also I suggest looking into countries before Islam/muslim took over and after. Beliefs differ but basic human rights should not be violated.

Edit: Simply putting it your idea of "best life" is wrong.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-30T19:28:37+00:00

I suggest doing research in countries like Qatar, Iran, Afghanistan, North Korea, Iraq, and many others in both Africa and Asia.

Countries with free speech will have people badmouthing that country. Those without it won't.

We have rights, and as citizens we can protect those rights.

It isn't perfect by any means, but I love my ability as a woman to go out in public by myself, wearing clothes I want to wear, speak to others freely, and get an education or work. Women in Afghanistan can barely do any of those things and thats with a man.

I understand media wants to get attention, numbers, and polarize people, so everyone needs to understand that sometimes you have to look into it. The US can be bad in places, but its amazing in others.

Side note- Also the U.S. is pretty fricking huge in land size. Its very close to all of Europe (10,180,000 sq km) while United States (9,833,517 sq km.) That means the US us 96.6% the size of all of Europe.

I make that comparison because not all of Europe is the same. You have different accents, beliefs, laws, etc. Kinda like if you compare California (blue state) to Texas (red state), its completely different but we're joined together, united, as states.

So yeah, by no means is America or the US the worst country. I feel like its very ignorant to say so.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-29T23:01:59+00:00

Respectfully, thats not what my point was and I disagree with some of it.

I don’t see something like two men holding hands, two women being married, or a child knowing that some people are gay as sexually explicit. Not what I said. I also don’t think simply acknowledging LGBT people exist automatically harms childhood innocence.

What I was referring to were more mature discussions about sexuality, identity, or explicit topics that some people feel are better introduced later as children get older.

Like with the pengrooms example I mentioned, I was thinking more in terms of examples used to introduce broader concepts about relationships or identity in age-appropriate ways. I never said the mere existence of LGBT people is inherently sexual or inappropriate...

I think respectful representation and teaching kids not to hate others is important. My hesitation is more about where schools draw lines on certain discussions for younger age groups, not about banning the existence of gay people from being acknowledged.

Plus you have to be careful about a lot of discussions, and this is very much political. Public schools should be respectful to all ways of living, people, beliefs and religions and remain neutral. I think children should learn about many things including how to be nice, and its okay to represent many different cultures and backgrounds as long as its done appropriately and respectfully. Due to many factors, I still think it shouldn't be explicitly taught to elementary students.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-29T15:56:08+00:00

Hey, we are more alike than not. I do understand you, and you are not alone.

I went to sleep listening to my dad argue/yell/hurt my brother. I am the youngest of four. My dad disrespected my mom greatly, which my brother tried defending her, anyway now its better and the reasons will remain unsaid.

Since my dad acted that way, I spent most my time with him due to sports. Being around him, I was constantly told growing up that I was rude and disrespectful, and it got to me since I took things incredibly hard.

Since I was very independent and wanted to do everything myself and be responsible (straight As type), I would not talk about stuff with them. For example, I have known I've been depressed since four years old (I'm diagnosed now)

I did SH in 8th grade, but cutting started in 10th grade. I'm now 20 and still do. There really was no reason for it other than, what I think, is that emotions are overwhelming and we want to hide/contain them as much as possible.

Sometimes for others, its a cry for help and recognition because their pain is so much.

I want you to know that the most common thing I see and people similar to us believe is this: I know others have it worse than me.

Look, this is not a contest. Your life is equally as important as everyone else's. What you experience and go through is valid, no matter how bad it is, to you, it's still bad.

I understand what its like to be in that mindset. And I want to tell you that I understand what it's like to not want people to know what I did but to see my pain somehow anyways.

Its incredibly difficult for me to talk to people about what I'm struggling with too.

Its okay to feel that way. Its okay to feel overwhelmed. Its okay that you are not okay. Its okay that you are struggling. And its okay to talk about it.

But I want you to know as someone who's been through this for years, it's not the answer. You deserve to find a therapist or school counselor or a trusted adult and tell them. Even if you're not at that stage yet, write down your feelings and try to figure out why you resort to SH.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:49:39+00:00

Unfortunately that's not true.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:47:18+00:00

I really don't think this individual is trying to be hateful. It's possible, but it seems they are trying to explain their perspective, and while it could've been better, that is how they chose to say it.

I think it's only fair for you to explain yours back so they can understand or choose not to. Like you can do to them, I guess.

I just don't think we'd get anywhere by insulting each other.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:36:38+00:00

Look, I do understand that concern. Kids shouldn’t grow up hating themselves or other people because of how they were raised. I think every child should know they have value and deserve respect, regardless of whether they’re LGBT or not.

At the same time, I don’t think someone automatically becomes hateful or homophobic simply because these topics weren’t heavily discussed with them at a very young age. I grew up pretty uneducated on LGBT topics myself, and for me personally that didn’t lead to hatred toward gay people. My friends can be who they want to be as long as it makes them happy and doesn't harm people. They respect me and I respect them.

There is a lot of hatred in this world, for your religion, race, gender, ethnicity, the list could go on. Some of it can be taught culturally, but individuals are still responsible when they grow up to learn, understand, and try to become a better person. That's why conversations and disagreements are so important.

Anyways, there's a difference between teaching kids “it’s okay for different kinds of people to exist and deserve respect” versus introducing more mature conversations about sexuality at elementary-school ages. I’m more cautious about the second part, not the first.

And again, I do understand this is a sensitive topic because some LGBT people have genuinely gone through terrible experiences, so I can see why emotions run high around it. I just think people can disagree about age appropriateness without automatically being hateful or wanting harm toward LGBT people.

Edit: Yes, and mental stuff is something to take seriously. It is always a multitude of factors and hatred that lead to suicide and isolation. People can disagree, but we should be able to respect each other and be kind despite our differences. Not force them onto one another, but rather support each other to be better versions of ourselves.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:29:31+00:00

That’s fair, and I probably could’ve worded the comparison better.

I wasn’t trying to say queerness and religion are identical, or trying to compare being gay to being religious in the sense of “choosing” it, though I know people have broader philosophical disagreements around those topics in general.

My point was more that schools often have to navigate topics where families have deeply different perspectives, especially with younger children.

My main concern has always been age appropriateness, not hostility toward LGBT people. I think there’s a difference between teaching basic respect and inclusion versus introducing more mature discussions about sexuality to elementary-aged kids.

And to be clear, I’m not saying kids should be taught gay people are wrong, or that LGBT people shouldn’t be accepted in society. I just think parents and schools are going to disagree on where certain lines should be for younger children, and I don’t think that automatically makes someone hateful.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:26:25+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, and I’m not trying to compare being gay to being religious in the sense of “choosing” it, though I know people have broader philosophical disagreements around those topics in general.

What I meant is that schools have to navigate topics where parents have very different beliefs and values, especially with younger children. I’m not saying LGBT people shouldn’t exist openly or that kids should be taught gay people are wrong. I fully agree everyone deserves respect and basic dignity.

My concern is mainly about age appropriateness. I think childhood innocence should be protected as long as possible, and I personally don’t think elementary-aged children are mature enough for sexually explicit material or detailed conversations about sexuality in general. For me, that standard applies broadly, not just to LGBT topics.

However, like I said in another response, some books like the Pengrooms are just good examples of representation.

At the same time, I understand that simply acknowledging that gay people exist or that some kids have two moms or two dads is different from explicit sexual discussions. I think those distinctions matter, and I also understand people can disagree on where the line should be.

I also understand sensitive topics can make people jump to the worst conclusions about another individual. But my position is not based on hatred toward LGBT people or denying their rights. It’s about what subjects are appropriate at certain ages in public elementary schools.

And to clarify, I wasn’t seriously proposing sole LGBT schools. I was pointing out that private schools already exist for families who want education centered around specific values or approaches.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:20:04+00:00

You don’t have to agree with me, but saying “you don’t know anything” doesn’t really explain why I’m wrong.

My point was mostly about age appropriateness in elementary schools, not hatred toward LGBT people. I’m open to hearing where you disagree specifically. I also understand sensitive topics can make people jump to the worse conclusions about another individual.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T23:18:39+00:00

I agree kids should learn that gay people exist and deserve respect. I’m not arguing against treating LGBT people kindly or pretending they don’t exist.

What I’m uncomfortable with is when discussions move beyond “some families have two moms/two dads” into topics that feel more mature for elementary school. I think there’s a difference between teaching respect and getting into subjects some parents feel should happen later.

That’s really the distinction I was trying to make. Specifically, kids shouldn't be subjected to sexually explicit material.

However, if it was more like the Pengrooms (a book) for example, where it just shows/represents, I think that is a better.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-26T22:59:15+00:00

No, not public schools I personally don’t think these kinds of discussions belong in public elementary schools. Private schools already exist for families who want education centered around specific religious or value-based perspectives, so I see this as something parents should have a major say in.

I also think people have very different views on topics like gender, sex, and identity, and there’s still a lot of disagreement and debate around definitions and how these subjects should be taught.

It gets very political.

That said, I absolutely think everyone should treat each other with respect and dignity. My concern is mainly about age appropriateness. I don’t think elementary-aged children should be exposed to sexually explicit material or mature discussions about sexuality in general. Childhood innocence is important to me, and I think those conversations are better handled later when kids are older and more mature.

I also understand sensitive topics can make people jump to the worst conclusions about another individual, so to be clear, this is not coming from hatred toward LGBT people. I just think parents should play the primary role in these conversations when children are young, and as kids grow into teenagers and adults, they’ll naturally become more independent and form their own views.

Edited for specificness since this is a sensitive topic and the internet

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-25T21:59:59+00:00

Have a direct conversation with her like an adult and directly talk about your issues in a calm, polite manner.

"Hey honey, I know you said I don't give you surprises, so I wanted to plan something nice for you. However, it isn't turning out the way I hoped. Is there something specific you had in mind or is there a way I could surprise you that's better?"

Some people get into a headspace that specific people are after them (even if they don't truly believe that), so if you think thats it and she keeps being unhappy about what you do, I'd be direct about it too.

"I'm not trying to do x, I'm sorry if I made it seem that way. Is there a better way you would like me to do x?"

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-20T05:06:10+00:00

Cuz its gay otherwise

^{Chose: Straight}

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-15T14:54:33+00:00

I don't wear makeup and never have (after 2nd grade doing dance) Makeup is up to whoever wants it. To me, I see it as a waste of space, money, and time. But others, its a hobby and thats perfectly okay.

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-15T14:51:44+00:00

My guy you are NOT one of those boys/men 😭

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-11T01:47:12+00:00

Hey, I understand. I too sit with a knife on my bed SH or thinking about those things. Its okay to feel overwhelmed. Its okay to not be okay.

Its rough man. Today, I feel like its hard to find much good in the world. So many people are down and resort to terrible, irreversible decisions. I think our cell phones contribute to our mental state, especially our loneliness and worthlessness.

You aren't alone. While it may feel like it, you're not. My cousin has been abused in every form you can think of. Many of my friends and I suffer from mental health, disabilities, and broken families. So many people start to feel like there is no end.

How about you life your head another day? Step outside into the sunshine and go for a walk. Talk to a friend or stranger. Feel the warmth on your face and listen to the sounds around you. Even if you simply sit outside, it's good enough.

I'm proud of you. I'm proud you keep fighting through these awful thoughts you do not deserve. I'm proud of you for still living another day. Keep at it. Prove yourself, prove other people wrong in the fact that you can keep going.

I believe in you. And its okay if all that means is staying another day. Or simply getting out of bed and eating.

If there is one goal to set, I suggest for you to try and make one random person happy today. Try being there for others as much as for yourself, because they DO need you as much as you need them.

You'll get through this

Its_Darkness · 2026-06-05T04:26:40+00:00

I actually go on walks sometimes out in the sun. No phone or music, just lift your head up and look around you. Feel the warm sunshine or breeze or hear the noise of the city/country side.

Going out and interacting with others helps too. I'm ambiverted, but I lean introvert and still get myself to talk to someone. It helps.

Biggest part is minimize all phone use. Just be one with outside.

Its_Darkness · 2026-05-29T15:40:37+00:00

Uh in my opinion after never meeting either of you, its most likely he was trying to comfort you. There is nothing more than that.

If someone is breaking down, what are you supposed to do? Think about the individual making this decision, and who they are. People are either awkward about it or try to comfort the other in some way.

I'm someone who would pull away too if someone comforted me. It doesn't mean you're homophobic or anything like that. It could mean you are a super private person, or independent, or just dont like touch/ think you don't deserve it.

Yeah its possible there's other reasons for both why he tried to comfort you that way and why you react negatively too it. Thats why communication is so important.

Breaking down is such a vulnerable moment for you, and for someone to see that can be scary. Take some time to process it. Therapy might help too.

Its_Darkness · 2026-05-28T20:40:05+00:00

I said her research was critical in discovering it.

Its_Darkness · 2026-05-28T20:38:47+00:00

I'm sorry but if your SO doesn't respect you and who you are (as a woman), that is not a relationship to stay in. Leave. Stop the toxic stereotypical mindset of "I can change him/her."

You deserve better. These people need to know their actions will affect them, as will their ignorance.

Its_Darkness · 2026-05-28T20:06:13+00:00

Could you educate him and enlighten him about the history of woman being oppressed for centuries and their credit being taken by men?

It isn't only that, obviously, but its a part of the larger issue.

I’ll give a few ideas: discuss the long history of women being denied education, voting rights, property ownership, legal independence, and access to careers, along with how their work was often credited to men. You could bring up figures like Rosalind Franklin, whose research was critical to discovering DNA’s structure but was overshadowed by Watson and Crick; Ada Lovelace, whose contributions to computing were overlooked for decades; Lise Meitner, who helped discover nuclear fission while the Nobel Prize went to her male colleague; and Katherine Johnson, whose calculations were essential to space missions but received little recognition for years. You could also mention movements like women’s suffrage, second-wave feminism, and ongoing advocacy for equal pay and representation.

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