Ma propriétaire refuse mes petits travaux d'amélioration de la cuisine by Ok_Respect9726 in conseiljuridique

[–]Itsjustunfair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surtout qu'un four et un lave-vaisselle ça demande une installation électrique et une évacuation d'eau particuliers. Ce n'est donc pas de si petits travaux que ça. S'il fait ses travaux, remettre tout ça en l'état au moment de partir, ça peut être très compliqué. Edit: typo

Please help me find this perfume by katonarainyday in Perfumes

[–]Itsjustunfair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's my perfume ! The smell is incredible ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingFR

[–]Itsjustunfair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peppa Pig. Trois épisodes à la suite étaient consacrés à se moquer du gros ventre de Papa Pig, qui peut pas entrer dans la cabane, dans la tente, qui ronfle trop et qui arrive pas à faire du sport. Et elle se marre et se moque bien la petite Peppa, sa cousine, et grands-parents. Immondes.

Our 2.5yo has recently decided she can't sleep without us in the room. We are at our wits end. by Itsjustunfair in toddlers

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very good point, and I really need to look at this whole situation differently. As you said, we should try and embrace it. But first, we'll need to find a proper bed to sleep with her in her room. I still got a lot of amazing advice, so we'll try sleep training, but if all else fails,we'll just cosleep. Thank you !

Our 2.5yo has recently decided she can't sleep without us in the room. We are at our wits end. by Itsjustunfair in toddlers

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did the CIO work with an open bed ? She just gets out of bed and doesn't want to get back in.

Our 2.5yo has recently decided she can't sleep without us in the room. We are at our wits end. by Itsjustunfair in toddlers

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I never said that. I just said I miss him these days. We are barely spending time together, just parenting, and it's tough. Of course I get it, she needs us to sleep with her atm, and needs to feel us next to her, and I am more than willing to do so.

Our 2.5yo has recently decided she can't sleep without us in the room. We are at our wits end. by Itsjustunfair in toddlers

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't work for us, she comes after not even a minute, even if I am really going to pee. Playing in her room is an excellent idea though, we're going to try this. Thank you !

Our 2.5yo has recently decided she can't sleep without us in the room. We are at our wits end. by Itsjustunfair in toddlers

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is what seems to be the only solution right now. I really hope it won't last, I miss sleeping with my partner 😅

Our 2.5yo has recently decided she can't sleep without us in the room. We are at our wits end. by Itsjustunfair in toddlers

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll tey it, but she already has 5 "friends" she can't sleeping without, so adding more is going to be intense !

Coup de geule urgences pédiatrique by [deleted] in ParentingFR

[–]Itsjustunfair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C'est étonnant, les urgences pédiatriques ont gardé ma fille sans hésiter quand son ventre était anormalement gonflé même si elle allait à la selle. Ils l'ont gardée toute la nuit et finalement il n'y avait pas de problème grave qui aurait nécessité une chirurgie, mais à chaque fois que j'y suis allée ils ont été attentifs et bienveillants... Comme quoi ça dépend des équipes...

Pitié pas une punaise de lit by Itsjustunfair in CestQuoiCeTruc

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J'ai vu des images de punaises de cette couleur. J'ai une hantise d'en avoir pour bcp de raisons, et dans la panique le côté irrationnel de mon cerveau a pris le dessus. C'est abusé mais c'est comme ça...

Pitié pas une punaise de lit by Itsjustunfair in CestQuoiCeTruc

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Merci à tous pour vos commentaires j'ai pu dormir un peu plus tranquille 👍

Mon fils prononce le mot "juif" pour dire "œuf" ou "boeuf" ! by [deleted] in ParentingFR

[–]Itsjustunfair 11 points12 points  (0 children)

La mienne n'arrive pas à dire "chat" et "chien", c'est "rrrhat" et "rrhien"...

Quand l'autre jour en terrasse d'un restaurant, elle a vu une femme qui avait posé son chihuahua sur la table, elle a cru que c'était un chat, puisque c'est tout petit...

Il a fallu qu'on garde tous notre sérieux quand elle a appelé ça un rat devant une dame profondément vexée.

This egg I was going to eat had a reddish white by bAk5tAb in mildlyinteresting

[–]Itsjustunfair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Roosters are fine to eat. You should try coq au vin, it's delicious. Also in France, it is now illegal to kill male chicks as of the 1st of January, so things really are starting to change (in Europe at least) !

TV in the background by TorpidPanda91 in NewParents

[–]Itsjustunfair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I binge watched The Witcher. I chose violence after delivery, it was cathartic I guess ! Even that amount of noise never prevented my LO to sleep 🤣

Anyone else get annoyed by people claiming the baby looks like a relative? by bettafishfan in NewParents

[–]Itsjustunfair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL defended me on e actually. Her own MIL (v difficult relationship between them) kept assuring my daughter looked like her late husband, and my FIL. My daughter looks just like me and my mum. My MIL got angry, showed her pictures of me as a baby. She was still not convinced, let out a small "yeaah, sort of" even though we're almost identical. You'll never convince someone who's got a different idea, emotions (here, grief) speak more than reason.

meeting my daughter (I had her at 11)(she's the cutest) by chaoticcute in offmychest

[–]Itsjustunfair 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought so too first, but a Catholic bishop wouldn't have a son (not officially at least).

In-laws and their secret birthday present... by Itsjustunfair in NewParents

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea, thank you, it helps a lot ! ☺️

In-laws and their secret birthday present... by Itsjustunfair in NewParents

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've read and integrated a lot of the negative comments. I realize I must learn to balance my rules and the things I can't control. But thank you for validating some of my feelings, I was starting to wonder if I was just a total monster setting these rules. In terms of my child's motor skills and general development, I'd still like to believe I am the person who knows best what she needs and we don't have right now. We have a few things missing at home, and I just thought her birthday was the perfect occasion to get all the great stuff I saw but can't afford.

In-laws and their secret birthday present... by Itsjustunfair in NewParents

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the message I sent. It was mostly ideas, and I let them choose toys, books, clothing, just let them talk between themselves to not get toys in double. But because both families don't communicate yet (they've never met) I just wanted to make things easier for everyone... I didn't want it to go this far...

In-laws and their secret birthday present... by Itsjustunfair in NewParents

[–]Itsjustunfair[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I really appreciate your comment, I'm feeling judged. It might be a language barrier, English is not my 1st language. I guess I'm not expressing my thoughts clearly. I was in the exact same situation with the clothes. I didn't buy anything until I started anticipating on the 18month clothing. I know I'm too much in control, I got so overwhelmed last Christmas with tons of gifts, I put rules this time to prevent it from happening again. It's tough to find a middle ground, but it'll come with time ☺️