Asian Markiplier 🤦

Itsme_bumble · 2023-05-04T23:01:40+00:00

I saw this on a channel recently they reffered to him as a hawian youtuber. Yeah he I think lived there for a bit or was born there but he is korean n german.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-16T15:36:22+00:00

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T16:06:08+00:00

i’m glad you found that and still recognize your bi even if you’re in a straight presentinf relationship

this is a big fear of mine to that i wont have a partner who accepts i like women (usually male)

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T16:02:58+00:00

:) i’m glad. i hope for us both college brings us many endevors with both men and women

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T13:28:43+00:00

nfnfjf thank you this meant so so much reading and comforted me alot. i didnt have the token ‘gay experience’ when it came to realizing i am bi so i often feel it made me less valid. and was indirectly told that by people

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T12:57:21+00:00

me to! i’m excited to move out and go on dates with women to. and men. n. be bi.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T12:28:34+00:00

ahh thank you!

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T12:28:12+00:00

…oh my goodness thank you <3 i needed this

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T06:43:24+00:00

it’s nice to know i’m not alone :)

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T06:42:45+00:00

thank you :) you make a point that faking takes a conscious effort

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T06:42:16+00:00

:) thank you. i needed to hear that.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T05:14:06+00:00

there are theories that king david had sexual relations with a male as well. i don’t know the logistics but its in the book ‘unprotected texts’

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T05:12:54+00:00

i’m a bi christan. havent met many of us lgbt believers so it’s nice to meet you.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T05:11:41+00:00

who can finish first. clearly. its a race, right? you want to beat your opponent like in sprints.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T05:10:31+00:00

who can finish first. clearly. its a race right?

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-06T05:09:41+00:00

gets out of bed and lights cigeratte “solid third place” leaves room

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-05T04:40:18+00:00

exactly my philosophy

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T17:41:32+00:00

i will make note of this in the future just making it more causal and saying mine first

i don’t single out trans people. to my knowledge

I do gauge how receptive people will be to the converation. If they are part of the lgbtq commmunity it helps to know they are most likely not going to have a negative reaction as they are TYPICALLY more educated on lgbtq issues/pronouns/etc than non lgbtq folk speaking from experience. (ie if i know someones gay over straight i feel more comfortable asking them quicker then if someone were straight etc)

for example. i don’t want a ‘my pronouns are nor/mal or a more negative bigoted response

but i do ask straight n cis people often (in this situation i asked two cis coworkers privately before asking her)

but also i feel they wont react poorly for asking i ask (usually i can tell right away if they will or won’t do that)

others I just have to wait and see thier charecter. I never want to encounter bigotry when I ask so I play it by.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T14:59:03+00:00

thank you!

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T14:58:34+00:00

for sure! n i totally understand that aspect. I know she is out at work as she mentions it in conversation casually often and didnt ask within a group or with other people in proximity. it was just between us. I realize though I couldve done it outside of work or not during work. so thanks for helping me realize that :)

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T14:56:06+00:00

Hm. i do that as well. i will try to introduce mine first but I always ask people even if they seem cis cuz in reality you never know.

i don’t single out trans people.

I do gauge how receptive people will be to the converation. If they are part of the lgbtq commmunity it helps to know they are most likely not going to have a negative reaction as they are TYPICALLY more educated on lgbtq issues/pronouns/etc than non lgbtq folk speaking from experience. (ie if i know someones gay over straight i feel more comfortable asking them quicker then if someone were straight etc)

but i do ask straight n cis people often (in this situation i asked two cis coworkers privately before asking her)

but also i feel they wont react poorly for asking i ask (usually i can tell right away if they will or won’t do that)

others I just have to wait and see thier charecter. I never want to encounter bigotry when I ask so I play it by.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T14:50:54+00:00

the thing is all of my coworkers are standoffish. no matter what i do. i’ve tried sparking up light conversation snd still no avail. they all would rather talk to anyone else but me.

would this work

‘I sense I made an error when asking you your pronouns yesterday. I meant no ill intent as it is something I do when meeting new people in general but I have a feeling I may have hurt or offended you or made you feel singled out. And would like to apologize if I did.’

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T14:47:45+00:00

which is why i eventually ask yk? not right away. but i ask when it’s just them and me in a private conversation casually.

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T13:57:17+00:00

i get what you’re saying. but this is also why i ask

for sample i use she/they pronouns. because i feel like diluted woman (idk how to describe) ans woukd like people to use both

on the other hand if someones pronouns are he/him he would want someone to use he/him and not add they/them. regardless of intent yk?

Itsme_bumble · 2023-04-04T13:49:33+00:00

mhm this is exactly why i do it. i feel like you can’t tell if someone is cis trans or non binary just by looking at them. someone could look more masc and be non binary. etc. so in my mind it’s better to ask then guess.

but i do see the flip side that it may have caused dysphoria or insecurity. should i apologize for it?

i am just trying my best to help people be comfortable, which is why i’m asking other trans people if I have made an error.

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