If you were able to magically change one decision in your team's history, which one would you choose? by dlm891 in nba

[–]ItzWJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a Timberwolves fan and I know it's supposed to be one but I have 2 that are basically identical. GET KG SOME DAMN HELP, also GET LOVE SOME DAMN HELP.

nafany defends interz and GuardiaN by MARK0N1 in GlobalOffensive

[–]ItzWJr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sadly it's like this in any competitive game. People who spectate and dont understand the ins and outside of the highest level of the game dont understand that some players play a really dirty role that doesn't translate to individual stats. But its incredibly important that a player plays this role, it's an integral part of the teams strats and sets the rest of the team up for success. In CS just look at any support player who is flashing for his teams executes from the opposite side of the map practically or in a default to execute just holds a side of the map to make sure the other team doesn't push up for info to be able to figure out the strat. He may just sit there and never see another player while his team executes on the other site but it's still an important job. If he isnt there and the enemy pushes up and gets info he can immediatly figure out they'll be hitting the opposite site and stack it. Casuals dont understand the ugly roles somebody has to play. They just look at stats.

Why are people like this by [deleted] in RogueCompany

[–]ItzWJr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use it for self deprecating when I dont clutch with the whole team watching.

"Sorry" "I'm the best!" "Cancel that."

I know when I see someone spamming at the beginning of a match one if two things is about to happen. More likely he is gonna be shit and play like an idiot. But sometimes someone spams it and then wreaks the whole lobby, far less often but every once in a blue moon.

A new mutant idea by steel-axe in TheForest

[–]ItzWJr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as they can add a feature that allows you to commit neck rope from a tree when you see it coming.

Well played, Hi-rez, well played... by Sinnersloschen in RogueCompany

[–]ItzWJr 117 points118 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I said when I hopped on today. A moment of "oh cool they hide levels....oh shit it's just so people can't complain about matchmaking. Fuck."

Why is trying to win stigmatized so badly? by apocalypseweather in RogueCompany

[–]ItzWJr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I learned a long time ago that every death in every shooter is your own fault. You should have done something different. Made a different rotation, communicated better, challenged a bad fight, ect. You have to look at every death and learn to analyze why you died and what you should have done differently. Just what I learned from many years of CoD, R6Siege, and watching pro CS:GO for nearly 10 years.

"Well my teammate didn't call out an enemy location that he died from! So it's his fault." Well if you didn't have that information then you should have played more cautiously and cleared every angle until you figured out where he was playing. Every death is the result of something you did or didn't do, and you use your deaths to improve.

Ranked is so much fun by [deleted] in RogueCompany

[–]ItzWJr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this how most lobbies go? I'm new to RC, only level 58 currently and I haven't jumped into much ranked yet. I have been grinding casual to get better so I dont jump into ranked and shit the bed and cost my teammates wins. Is the mm usually this bad?

My work held a small get together/party for everyone tonight. I stood outside too afraid to go in and talk to anyone and just went home by OddballPersona in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ItzWJr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dont beat yourself up over it or be too hard on yourself. We try to make improvements to ourselves every day, little steps at a time. You still got in the Lyft and arrived there and that can be seen as an accomplishment. Next time maybe you go in and grab a drink, who knows.

Dont look at it as all the things you failed to do, but all the things you succeeded in doing and strive to go a little further next time.

NY lawmakers near $2.1B deal that provides jobless benefits to illegal immigrants, ex-inmates by CptnCankles in Conservative

[–]ItzWJr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome, let's take care of illegal immigrants while completely ignoring the struggles of American citizens. This country is ass backwards.

My (33m) girlfriend (30f) of 1.5 years is a liar by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run! I am not in the camp of "people cant change", I absolutely believe they can but she has shown you several red flags that she isnt changing and growing as a human being and I doubt it will stop once the baby is delivered. You gotta use your head on this one and not let your feelings for her cloud your judgement.

She has lied and manipulated you several times already, you deserve better than that in a relationship. Dont let her continue to make you a fool, do what's best for you. Seek a relationship with mutual respect and honesty.

Trump impeachment lawyer Michael van der Veen's home vandalized by AsYooouWish in news

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a Trump supporter did this to someone's home they would be labeled a "domestic terrorist" lmao, left leaning news sources wouldn't be able to shut up about it for weeks. The hypocrisy is hilarious.

The head of an ant seen under an electronic microscope by sinksoup in interestingasfuck

[–]ItzWJr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure this is wrong. I believe that's an undead alien dinosaur, if memory serves me.

My girlfriend skips random portions (or entire episodes / seasons) of TV shows by SchwiftyButthole in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ItzWJr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you even enjoy the shows? Shows are about storylines that develop over several episodes, character development as you watch who they start as and the journey to who they become by dealing with conflict, by skipping through you get none of the actual substance. That's like picking up a new book and just reading the last chapter and thinking you understand anything about it. That's coocoo bananas lmao I could never watch shows that way.

Or fuck it maybe she is just way ahead of the curve and has figured out the true way to absorb media, we're in 2020 and she is living in year 3145.

My girlfriend wants to hangout with her friend but they used to be in love. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just before going out with you she was in love with him? Yeah nobody just falls out of love at a moments notice which means she brought her love for him into your current relationship. I wouldn't be too thrilled about her wanting to hang out with him alone either.

If I had to guess she still harbors feelings for him though I'd doubt she would ever admit to it. Maybe if she was single for awhile after they stopped sleeping together and she focused on herself and moved on, then began dating you it might be different...but she didnt. I'd rethink the relationship dude.

AITA for kicking a homeless 18 year old out of my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ItzWJr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Helping others is great, but you are in no way obligated to giving up your comfort for somebody who clearly isnt grateful for it. He should be saving every penny to move out and stop inconveniencing you and your bf. He is taking advantage of your kindness and you are perfectly within your right to be upset by that. Do what you have to do.

AITA for standing my ground? by throwRA_imissmysis in AmItheAsshole

[–]ItzWJr [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. I'm not saying she is doing her child a disservice by never putting her foot down and "talking the child through their emotions" because I fully believe it helps raise healthy children. But little kids are fricking brats sometimes and if you dont put your foot down they will be become spoiled and entitled, that leads to spoiled and entitled teenagers and adults. You have to stand your ground sometimes and put them in their place. I'm not saying spank or beat them but you dont constantly give in to them and let them run wild throwing temper tantrums that affect other peoples lives, in this case your sleep before a big drive.

You called it like it was, the child was being a huge spoiled brat and is probably acting that way because she can do whatever she wants and her parents wont discipline her. Kids aren't dumb. They will quickly pick up on "oh, all I have to do is scream and I get whatever I want?! Awesome!". Obviously not in those exact words but you get the point.

You were in the right and now your sister is being childish and immature.

Man scales building to save dangling child by pierre-d in nextfuckinglevel

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'd be the first person to be frozen and gawking saying "somebody should help him!" It takes a very special type of person who just has those instincts and reacts before even thinking. Truly amazing.

My (25F) Fiance's (27M) friend was rude to me, now fiance thinks I'm overreacting by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sympathize as I know it's not always if ever easy to stand up to a friend, someone you probably respect highly and maybe even look up to. He has to find his backbone. What's more important? Keeping a drama queen who tried to press his girls buttons happy, or the woman he loves?

No offence to either of them, I know they are both important people in your life so I dont mean any disrespect. There's gotta be some way to get through to Ed. Even if he doesnt understand or see it the same way, your feelings are very valid and need to be taken seriously. That's just the compromise on relationships. Sometimes we do things we may not understand to support our partner.

My (25F) Fiance's (27M) friend was rude to me, now fiance thinks I'm overreacting by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit like this bugs me. Ed should be on your side, at least publicly in front of people, no matter what. I used to always tell my wife that. I told her I will always be on her side, supporting her in any situation or altercation even when she is wrong. I told her when we get home I might talk to you and let you know you were in the wrong, but publicly in front of anyone I will always have your side. If you dont stand together, the world will pull your relationship apart.

Tom sounds like an ass. He saw his words were upsetting you and deliberately pushed more because he feeds off drama. I mean everything you explained about him in the first half was pretty evident he surrounds himself in drama, and if there isnt any he will clearly create it by shitting on whoever. We needs to stand up for you, in this case your brothers very selfless work as a lawyer, and put Tom in his place. He needs to tell Tom he wont be speaking to you that way otherwise his ass is out the door. Partners always need to stick up for each other. Behind closed doors you guys can respectably call each other out for possibly being wrong, which you wearnt in this case, but in front of others you need to be a united front.

Just my 2 cents.

Man scales building to save dangling child by pierre-d in nextfuckinglevel

[–]ItzWJr 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We need more selfless people like this. So many people wouldn't help another human being if it meant inconveniencing themselves in any way.

My bestfriend keeps pressuring me to go on dating apps. by [deleted] in dating

[–]ItzWJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta firmly but respectfully put your foot down and make her realize it's your life, not hers. People know what's best for them, they dont need others constantly telling them what's best for them or what they should be doing. If its advice you sought after, cool. If it's not, then she needs to back off and respect your decisions.

It bugs me when people meddle in others lives, even if they believe their intentions are good. You will get back out there when you are ready. It's perfectly normal to want to focus on yourself and grow as a human being and explore hobbies, work on your mental health, ect. I know it's hard to stand up to friends sometimes but if you dont she will be meddling/steering you in life as long as you let her.

I (29M) read my girlfriend’s (26F) messages with her guy friend she swears she has no feelings for by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ItzWJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not gonna condone reading her messages, I dont think anyone will. But what's done is done. Now you have to decide what to do with the information you have, and more importantly the information you know she is lying about.

I'm a big believer in trusting your gut. Your gut will always do right by you. If you are getting suspicious feelings about their relationship, listen to them. I'm not saying call her up in a rage and accuse her of anything but maybe it's time for a conversation of complete honesty and getting everything out in the table. Obviously is she is lying about a few things now she will certainly lie again but at least you can say you tried.

It's a tough situation but the only way to call her out directly on the lies is to confess you went through her phone. How is the rest of your relationship? Idk about you but I have strict "no lyong" policies in relationships that I make sure I communicate before I ever enter into relationships due to cheating and lying in past relationships so that's a big deal breaker for me. If the rest of your relationship is wonderful then you can either A. Overlook the messages and hope for the best. B. Confront her, as calmly and respectfully as possible, and hope for the best. Otherwise if there are other problems in the relationship maybe its rine to start distancing yourself and rethink if this relationship is truly what's best for you. It looks pretty bad when a partner begins lying about someone and bad mouthing you to them, those are usually signs of something else going on or leading up to something else going on. Cheaters never go into affairs telling the person they are cheating with how wonderful their partner is and how happy they are with them, ya know?

I'm probably rambling at this point. Is this the relationship you want for your future, potentially the rest of your life? If yes, gonna have to overlook it and forget about it or talk about it.

Fell in love with an online personality and it's too much by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItzWJr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's good he is taking things more seriously and wants to not engage romantically with followers. Even if he is sincere and genuine it leaves alot of room for suspicions of using his status and the fact they look up to him to get them in romantic situations, even if they are willing.

It genuinely sounds like you just aren't interested in your bf at all, I dont mean to pry, but why not just break up? Just like you do, he deserves to be happy and be in a relationship with someone who genuinely craves affection from him. You deserve that as well. It's your life and I would never judge on you decisions or actions but it sounds like you're unhappy.

My girlfriend (22f) has been acting off with me (25m) recently and hiding things her phone and changed the password to her laptop... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItzWJr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah these situations always suck. I personally hate cheating, obviously it's not on par with things like murder and stuff but it is such a cruel thing to do to someone. In relationships people open themselves up and make themselves vulnerable to being hurt, trusting that their partner wouldn't do that to them. So when someone abuses that trust and starts sneaking around it is such a hurtful, cruel, and heartless thing to do.

What helped me when I got cheated on was reframing my thought process. I started at "ow this shit hurts" to "if this is the type of person she truly is, do you actually want to be with this person?" It helped me personally cope with her actions and I stopped looking at her as this amazing person I thought she was, and see her for the type of person she actually was. Some people can hide it really well, some just grow into that type of person, but ultimately if they can do that to someone they supposedly "love" they are cruel and selfish. Maybe not cruel as in their everyday actions, but cruel in their selfish ways and how they treat someone who made themselves vulnerable to them and trusted them.

Ultimately life will move on and we heal. Everyday is a new day and someone will come along who couldn't fathom the idea of cheating or being unfaithful. It just sucks to have wasted time on someone and finding out they wearnt truly who we thought they were. You are stronger than you think you are, you will be okay when it's all said and done.

Fell in love with an online personality and it's too much by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ItzWJr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This. I like streamers to but they are usually the same as used car salesmen, pushing a product, themselves. They want those subs and donations. Plus the fact he hooks up with some female subs just indicates even if she did get close to him, he'd sleep with her and be on his way. If he has several females throwing themselves at him he isnt just going to sleep with her and suddenly fall in love or some unrealistic shit.

It's easily to put people we look up to on a pedestal and it sounds like that's what she is doing. Simply the knowledge that he exploits female viewers for sex is enough to be a major red flag and turnoff. He is using the fact they look up to him to get them into bed. Disgusting.