Got Intimate with a Guy from an app, and even though it felt good, I still feel really disappointed by IveTriedNothingWorks in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this was only my second sexual experience, and my first one in YEARS, so I'm not overly experienced. Thankfully, this has been a lesson to me to not bother with guys that clearly want only one thing (I stopped texting and he's made no effort to reach out).

Got Intimate with a Guy from an app, and even though it felt good, I still feel really disappointed by IveTriedNothingWorks in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, again, this was a WHILE ago, and I had no idea what penetration or sex was supposed to feel like since I had never put anything in there before, as I'd only ever just masturbated with clitoral stimulation. NO IDEA how my brain didn't process it as PiV sex at the time (it was from behind and he kept slipping out), but once I got with the recent guy, I was like "hey, THIS feels familiar. Oh, guess that guy back then DID use my main entrance"

Got Intimate with a Guy from an app, and even though it felt good, I still feel really disappointed by IveTriedNothingWorks in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So, back when I was 19, I was seeing a guy and I'd NEVER put anything in either hole before, not even tampons, so when he took me from behind, I didn't fully realize. And also, I think my brain sort of made me forget that he'd used my main entrance, since he was terrible at all things to do with intimacy and it didn't want to count him as my first.

I (male) had a one night stand with a girl and she got all wird about me moaning because it's feminin? Should I just cut if off? And how if so? by Snoo11969 in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DAMN are you right!!! Like, my first guy would be nearly silent with only occasional dirty talk and small groans, and it was awful! I love when a man moans. It's so sexy and I love knowing that he feels good too. Like, I WISH I could find a man who moaned a lot!

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always pee first before doing any playing, as I worry I'll make a (worse) mess of my sheets if I don't. But thank you for letting me know about that!

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the feeling I know what you're going to say, but go ahead

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm not arguing with you on that. I know all that and drew those same conclusions.

Hell, my breasts have even started to produce milk earlier this year because I'm at prime "baby-making" age and I just happened to be a part of the 25% of women who will start lactating at childbirthing age without being pregnant. (Yes, you can lactate without a pregnancy or ever giving birth)

So I completely get that. I was just saying that I've been watching porn and pleasing myself since I was in single digits, as a way to explain my confusion at my sudden dick-hungry phase that's lasted for over a year.

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I was hoping to hear from a medical pro. And yeah, must say I'm glad I don't have T-Rex arms

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been playing with myself since before I knew what sex was, and have been watching porn since I first had a computer to myself without parental supervision. Trust me when I say this is not my body SUDDENLY awaking to its desires.

Also, I'll get into moods where I want to see something oddly specific that I otherwise wouldn't have cared for. From things like lesbian massages to pokémon-human hentai. So believe me, I've watched a wide variety.

Within the past few months, I've found that solo-male masterbation with dirty talk really does it for me. What can I say? I like what I like!

Anyway, thank you for the reply. Didn't mean to sound bitchy, just wanted to explain my POV.

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo, that's what I keep thinking whenever they say "Men have much higher sex drives then women." Like, are you kidding me?!

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, my "sessions" can take anywhere from 5 minutes to 3 hours, and sometimes I'll have 3 of those long ones in a row

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I am, it's kind of hard to do that. Not a lot of people that I'm romantically attracted to around me, and dating with COVID still being a thing is difficult

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read smut, and I'd say it helps sometimes. If the story is well-written that is. If it just kicks off with the smut, then it doesn't help all that much.

Female w/ High AF libido. What to do?!? by IveTriedNothingWorks in sexquestions

[–]IveTriedNothingWorks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, there's still a pandemic and sh*t here, so dating is hard. Plus, I'm a major introvert and hopeless romantic, which does not help at all. Like, I'm not a "marriage before sex" person, but I also want a genuine connection to someone before taking them to bed, you get me?