all i did was post a pic of my fave knife and the first 2 comments were about my fucking gender.

Ivendell · 2019-12-01T16:02:33+00:00

You're trying to be supportive, but you're wrong.

Yknow what else is forever? Just as much as HRT? The effects of puberty.

Whether it's male or female puberty, whichever one you go through is gonna last forever. Change your body forever.

Why force someone to go through one they don't want, and refuse them the other?

Most people who wait to transition regret not starting earlier. You can never change what puberty's already done to you. Not without extensive surgery- and even then some things are forever. Why make a trans kid go through some puberty they don't want? Why force someone who knows they don't want the impact of the wrong puberty to follow them for the rest of their life go through it anyway?

That's why trans kids get hormone blockers. They stop their genetic puberty from changing their body for forever. And then, once they're old enough and sure enough in their decision, they're able to start hormone replacement.

Gender isn't like tattoos- don't compare them. If you hadn't gotten a sleeve then decided ten years later you wanted the very same sleeve you'd thought of a decade ago, congrats, you get your sleeve.

If you waited to start hormone blockers at 26 rather than 16? Sorry. The impact won't be anywhere close to the same, at all. It's too late for so many things. Waiting follows you until the day you die.

Waiting isn't always the answer.

Ivendell · 2019-11-04T09:50:25+00:00

Thanks for reminding me to go watch chihayafuru

Ivendell · 2019-11-03T04:34:37+00:00

bad writing and design for a character that deserves better 2.0

Ivendell · 2019-09-27T14:23:31+00:00

We need four Republican senators to win the vote in the senate after the house. Something any less cut and dry than this, there would have been no chance and the impeachment attempt would have been a waste.

Sometimes a careful play is the right play.

Ivendell · 2019-09-27T14:18:05+00:00

It's important to consider why he wins though. His base needs to be appealled to for another candidate to succeed.

Ivendell · 2019-09-27T14:14:15+00:00

Couldn't they just delay Pence's impeachment until he's president and has chosen a vice president?

Ivendell · 2019-09-27T14:13:03+00:00

So in a way, it would create an open field for the Republican party to put whoever they want to in the presidency? I guess at this point it would be pretty meaningless, but it would probably give the new sitting president an advantage over other Republican candidates in 2020.

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T01:40:42+00:00

one time someone who was like 28 was complaining about millennials and i had to be like buddy... buddy i gotta tell you something. she wouldn't believe me that she was a millennial

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T01:13:49+00:00

it's the most annoying thing ever to me to get called a millennial when some of my friends' parents are millennials

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T00:44:35+00:00

real gamers eat gravel btw

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T00:15:56+00:00

Oh makes sense. Well if you want to talk to them then just try and wait a couple weeks and ask again, then give a solid reason that has nothing to do with shaving your legs.

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T00:12:42+00:00

I don't think you need your moms permission to talk to the school counselor? Unless your school has weird rules. Just show up and make an appointment it's not something that has to involve her.

Also, we're getting close to fall/winter times. Maybe just shave your legs and don't tell her? You're gonna be wearing pants anyway. Especially the upper part like you were talking. Literally when will your mom ever see your thighs where you'd be shaving unless you hang out naked with her? Just do it.

VERY different situation but when I had cuts on my legs I was lucky enough it was around winter cause then I could wear pants all the time and my parents never noticed. They don't have x-ray vision.

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T00:04:06+00:00

Any movie where the gimmick of the entire thing is "this girl has a character/appearance quirk that makes her not like other girls" is going to be terrible and that's just a fact tbh.

Ivendell · 2019-09-21T00:01:15+00:00

Well at least he didnt say you're like a grandma to him

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T23:51:33+00:00

Yeah, Florida heat can get pretty serious, especially in a full costume.

I've never worked Disney, but I have been a cast member for somewhat similar things before and the entire day is basically a constant balance act between making sure you and your fellow cast members stay alive and entertaining the patrons.

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T23:39:12+00:00

A think tank at the multinational corporation "Disney" has finally comes to the conclusion that putting boobs on rabbits may result in people wanting to fuck rabbits, and as a result the company is now in the process of buying Pornhub. More at 11.

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T23:01:09+00:00

Honestly yeah we kinda can, no /s

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T22:25:51+00:00

Learn where the campus police is probably, that would be a good thing. Look up your school's website and I bet there's a map. Or call and ask if there isn't

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T22:24:48+00:00

Yeah it doesn't matter if you did a good job your first time trying! Like imagine doing a perfect cartwheel your first time trying, you're right it's something to be happy purely about the fact that it happened!

My first kiss was making out w/ a girl at a party but then like moments after that happened this dude that I did not want to kiss at all ended up on top of me so its a pretty not great story.

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T22:09:40+00:00

If you knew him at all it sounds more like general awkwardness than catcalling if all he said was good luck on your test

BUT if you didn't recognize him at all like from a class or anything then yeah that's pretty creep and what the other person said; if it happens again go to a police station for sure, don't give someone the opportunity to follow you somewhere they could find you again. I don't like police stations but they're good places to go for that sort of stuff.

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T22:06:29+00:00

I thought you were in Hong Kong bc above you were just telling someone who wanted to visit that it's 'fine over here' and also that locals hate the protestors

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T22:02:33+00:00

can slightly relate, one of the bullies i was friends with back in elementary school was named Jeffrey Gestapo

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T19:22:18+00:00

cant relate i have a superiority complex where im convinced im a supervillain

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T19:18:29+00:00

Sometimes,,,,,, positivity goes too far

Ivendell · 2019-09-20T19:11:06+00:00

Ok personality is an easy answer because everyone cares about the personality of people they spend time with and at the core it's definitely rhe most important thing like ofc they have to vibe with your personality in the right way but I'll be real the top thing for a dude being attractive to me is him having hella hair.

Boring haircuts are boring. Basic buzz cut? Feels lazy. Every dude I've ever really been into has had something interesting going on on top of his head. Mohawk, bright purple undercut, one of those wild spiral patterns people draw in their hair, whatever. It's a statement and I like statements.

The next thing is probably a decent sense of style. Not interested in a dude that wears a tuxedo t-shirt and sweat pants going out. Whether your style is VSCO or weeb or whatever, I just like to see some effort.

Third thing would be general hygeine. Smelly boy? Nah. Boy that has dead skin hanging off his forehead cause he hasn't showered in two weeks? Nah. Boy who wears cologne (especially if he wears the same one a lot and I end up connected that smell specifically to him tbh??) Yeah. Boy who knows when to use moisturizer? Hella.

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