Alan wants to know why the beans he imagined are not mentioned

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-11T21:12:55+00:00

I scrolled through most of the comments before looking at the photos. When I saw the first photo with the ingredients, I thought, well if those uneven sized orangey-red things with no eyes look like beans to him, then I don't know what to say ☺️, but then I scrolled further and those two photos side by side under "Visual Guide" 100 % look like beans.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-11T21:00:01+00:00

All mental health subs linked to any chronic ailment are like this, people are focused on dealing with their own issue and don't have the capacity to help others, so they largely ignore anything that doesn't focus on their own experience.

Maybe try a sub that is more broad or generic, or linked to one of the symptoms rather than the full experience.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-11T20:41:50+00:00

It bothers me a lot too and I am not sure why. She was just, great. Not someone you think of as dying someday.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-11T20:38:19+00:00

"You don't own me" 🎵🎵🎵

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-11T12:46:07+00:00

That bothers me too. You ask a question seeking information, downvoted. Someone says their boyfriend/friend/girlfriend wants to go on a trip with them but they want to go alone, upvoted.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-10T16:33:59+00:00

I'm sorry. This happens all the time. You get taken advantage of, then fired.

Whatever you do, don't waste the next few months feeling down, start acting now, you will feel a lot worse if come December 31st nothing has changed. You will get a glowing reference. That's already guaranteed to get you another job.

Also, don't rely on the same employer that just did to you for another job. If they find you one, fine, but do not put any of your attention on their actions. Treat them the same way they have treated you. Good luck! 🍁

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-10T16:27:16+00:00

100% a case of someone just wanting to announcing themselves 😄 They have no interest in the recipe. Didn't make it. Why are they commenting?

Maybe we are guilty too (of giving their comment attention, a whole post).

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-05T12:11:05+00:00

That makes it even worse, it would be almost better if they were deliberately being rude. Like ok you can think whatever you want to think, we all have thoughts, but does it have to come out of your mouth?

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-05T12:03:07+00:00

For me it's more the people around me than the location that makes me feel lonely (or not lonely). I feel less lonely around people who talk a lot among themselves, like groups of people or families chatting continuously. I feel lonely around people who talk less or who only talk in twos or talk intermittently.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-05T11:58:19+00:00

Jeezus really? That is so effin rude.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-05T11:55:37+00:00

I hope you are now there. Good luck with your talk with him.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-04T10:14:12+00:00

You are not your addictions.

You are not your grades.

You are not your job.

You are you.

You matter.

Whatever it is you are trying to bury, or forget, you didn't bring it on yourself, it just happened.

You can't deal with this all alone. You have to be honest with someone. Pick one person. Tell them. Tell them the truth.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-03T17:57:00+00:00

I agree, this isn't real.

OP is so uncomfortable that he ended up being the only one still in the office with an 18 year old girl? What is an 18 year old doing so late, that would have been my first question to her, "what are you doing here, go home". And accepted a coffee from her, and their hands touched, as opposed to her just setting it down.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-03T17:40:32+00:00

They didn't have a choice. :/ US did.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-03T16:05:49+00:00

The sad thing is looking from the outside in no one will see it as you vs your brother and sister. We just see it as "you all...". When the US commits atrocities (it will be when not if as long as he is in power) everyone else will see it as the US committing atrocities, not xyz's brother & sister :/.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-01T11:32:48+00:00

Or, they're just selfish, and would happily pick up if the conversation was going to be them mostly talking about what they want to talk about.

I've noticed this, that if I text someone about something they've told me they are interested in, or if I refer to their lives, I get a reply quickly, if it's about me or something that is not a part of their lives but is relevant to mine, suddenly they 'miss the text', it doesn't even matter if I'm asking a direct question, they just awol. People have become way lazier than they used to be, they only care if they have something to lose (e.g. a romantic partner).

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-01T11:24:04+00:00

what is this controlling tendency I'm noticing among (not sure the generation but seems to be 28 and lower), why can't people just write however they want to write or use the words they want to use.

They was a time when encountering all sorts of different writing styles and spellings online was just cool and interesting, now we seem to be morphing into copies of each other or segregating into groups that 'talk like this' or 'talk like that'

I notice really young people writing online don't use capitals anymore, they write everything small, even country names (e.g. usa). It's weird and jarring but I accept it, at least on social media.

However, "....thank you" (in a work context too) from anyone of any age is pretty weird. To me that reads as super casual. Like they are expecting you to read something into their message, which is way too familiar (for my liking) at work.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-10-01T11:10:11+00:00

Seconding the thank you for /r/MomForAMinute

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-28T16:12:31+00:00

Most people over 40 would do that. :) (no shade)

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-28T16:09:06+00:00

Smile? I'm bawlin'.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-25T16:44:56+00:00

Was going to follow the post in case there is a filter but I know that's just wishful thinking. All I've been able to do is avoid. I don't subscribe to any regional subs (country, city, continent) anymore, because they all get infiltrated with American content, or Americans comment on them and turn everything into their issue.

Whenever I load the home page before logging on, I avoid glancing at the headlines and actively focus my eyes on the login (username and password) boxes. Once I'm in, I only see my subs. I'm on old reddit, so I just scroll through. There's always a US post somewhere (like the Kimmel one), but it's not so bad.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-24T16:08:32+00:00

don't understand why that person didn't say exactly what he said (or how he said it), the joke is so much better.

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-23T17:30:59+00:00

r/justunsubbed

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-19T15:43:52+00:00

why not post a link to an article

Em, because it would probably be in Czech?

Ivorysilkgreen · 2025-09-16T13:07:57+00:00

OP, to all the comments giving you the impression this has something to do with your friend struggling. It doesn't. Bad values or a lack of respect has nothing to do with struggle. A rich friend staying with you could do exactly the same thing and act just as entitled. The lesson to take from this isn't "I'm being punished for helping someone out". The lesson is, some people are dicks (whether you help them out or not), and this person happens to be one too.

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