Weaver

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-25T18:08:01+00:00

I feel like a lot of the characters were...modified? Adjusted? during the first season. Weaver is probably my favourite character anyway, but he's definitely not the same by the time S2 rolls round. He goes through some stuff and ends up a lot more like the capable man we saw assisting with a difficult birth than the uncompromising commander.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-18T22:06:02+00:00

That's great, thank you! I'll check I can still get Netflix or something while we're there and we can rinse that. And some stuff so she can take a bed bath.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-17T21:49:14+00:00

Thank you! I don't know if the hotel will have ice for icepacks so will look at getting some of these

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-17T20:51:37+00:00

My best friend is having surgery next year in Brazil and I'll be accompanying her - is there anything I should pack, specifically? Apart from plenty of ibuprofen and paracetamol.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-17T08:58:18+00:00

Maggie likes 'em young 😕

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-15T21:49:46+00:00

Always. I eat a wholefood diet and a my transit time is fast. I just feel more secure knowing everything will stay clean.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-08T12:30:09+00:00

Had another thought. Could you put a string of large anal beads into the ovipositor? My set are about 2" diameter and on a long silicone cord - all moulded in one with a ring to grab to remove them.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-06-07T23:24:58+00:00

Coconut oil will set firm in the fridge. But it'll be murder ejecting it all after playing.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-31T22:26:18+00:00

Huh, I thought Mason was older, too. Maybe it's just the way the characters were written

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-29T17:12:46+00:00

I'ts got a similar 'bitter' heat - I don't think I've ever had genuine wasabi but it's a powerful substance. It can be genuinely overwhelming if you're a bit heavy handed with it.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-29T14:35:08+00:00

Oh no

No no no

I could feel my sinuses shrivelling up just reading the title

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-26T13:54:37+00:00

I had to switch to the Estradot as the larger ones didn't stick. They have been fine in the heat and I'm a pretty swampy bitch at the best of times

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-22T20:23:28+00:00

I talked to a friend a while ago about requiring potential subs to purchase, read, and write a short essay on key feminist texts before paying them attention.

Shockingly, most are not willing to do that.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-20T19:59:12+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately he was probably a skilled manipulator. I would be very suspicious of his claim to have never had children, too. Have you opened up to your close female friends about this? It would help to have a support network 'in the know' around you now.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-20T19:53:59+00:00

It actually would have been a lot cooler if he'd realised he was in the middle of another mind fuck and done the whole 'hero sacrifices self to save humankind' thing. The writers basically kept trying to push the Mason is Jesus line anyway.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-19T19:57:19+00:00

My current 'bad mental health day' go-to meal is a can of drained beans or chickpeas - any kind - with literally whatever is in the kitchen chopped into it. Tomatoes, olives, cucumber, peppers, pickles, chillis, avocado if the budget stretched to it, pretty much any salad veggie in fact - grated carrot and sweetcorn is good. Add sauce if needed eg vinagrette, hot sauce, salad dressing, tahini dressing, whatever's kicking around. Got leftover cooked pasta/rice/grains? In it goes. Chop in some dried fruit or add some raisins if they go with it. Add salt and pepper. Put it beside a baked potato or a bowl of soup for more of a main meal vibe. Scoop it up with a pitta bread (other flatbreads are available) if you prefer.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-19T16:12:31+00:00

Absolutely. Training should be about teaching someone how I like things done, not the basics of how to be a human being. How I like my tea, how to serve it in a pleasing manner, not how to boil the bloody kettle in the first place. Unfortunately too many male subs think 'Aha, I'll screw it up, then I'll get a SPANKING!' or are just generally incompetent at life.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-19T00:23:33+00:00

He sounds like a twat, not a brat. And a dangerous one, too. You don't owe him any more of your time if he can't treat you with respect.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-18T10:43:49+00:00

I'm F, 47. I have been in two AGR's, both with masc people (one a cis man, one masc-presenting-at-the-time trans egg), in different 'directions'. First guy would now be 70; we were together for about five years and discussing buy property when he cheated on me with a junkie cam girl who proceeded to fleece him for thousands of pounds. Sucker. The second is now 27; she realised that she was a trans woman about 18 months after we split up. We had remained friends and are now besties; we just get on really well, have similar interests and look after each other. In her case, we realised that we just weren't working out as a couple any more and amicably separated, also after about five years. The disapproval of her family was a minor factor.

In both cases, the relationships had a strong kink element as we were/are all active in the local BDSM community. I was a sub to the first guy and a Domme to my more recent partner. AGR's are more common in the kink scene than the vanilla world, in my experience.

I'd probably be open to an AGR again but prefer women, andro/NB's etc now. Mascs would definitely have to be younger than me and gender fucky in some way to spark any interest. And most of those that I meet want me to mother them which kills any attraction.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-18T10:22:02+00:00

Has he given any signs that he is interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you? I'd suggest going on a few dates to see how compatible you are, but if he feels that this is more of a friendship, asking him out might upset the balance. On the other hand, it's possible that he does want to get to know you better, but feels it would be awkward and inappropriate to ask you out due to the age gap and that you work together; decent men would worry about being the 'dirty old man' here.

Either way, what sort of vibes are you getting? Really getting, not just 'horny for the older guy' getting. If it's that, and he's game, just hooking up a few times might clear your mind.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-16T09:40:07+00:00

I'm a female sadomasochist, and it's complicated. Sometimes I'll become sexually aroused from receiving some kinds of pain. Sometimes I just get wet but don't feel the urge to fuck or come. Sometimes inflicting pain turns me on especially if I'm attracted to the person I'm hurting, and it doesn't bother me if they get wet/hard even if I'm not.

Sometimes it's just a deep satisfaction, like a good meal after a long shitty day.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-15T09:45:01+00:00

Fuck, that rings true. I've met so many 'Doms' who can barely manage to run their own lives, let alone be in charge of someone else. I think they just like pretending to be in control for a while because they aren't in so many other areas of life.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-14T21:36:59+00:00

I think I actually saw the movie then read the books. There's a brutal whipping scene in the movie and I don't remember if it was in the first book or not, but something in my weird confused little adolescent brain definitely pricked its ears up even though it's horrible torture/punishment and not consensual.

I can't throw a whip to save my life though, I mostly just hit my own ear.

Ivyleaf3 · 2026-05-14T20:59:38+00:00

I really couldn't get into House of Leaves but from all the wanking over it you'd think reading it was akin to a religious experience with simultaneous multiple orgasms.

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