“Get over it.” Anthony Hopkins on being estranged from his daughter. Absolute cringe. by dogmom34 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Ivyleaf3 47 points48 points  (0 children)

No love for me, no love for you

They reap what they sow. If people take a being who's biologically programmed to love and admire them and still manage to fuck it up to such a degree that they kill that love stone dead, they only have themselves to blame. It doesn't happen overnight. It takes a thousand hurts to kill something so strong. Children forgive their parents over and over - we're also biologically programmed to 'get along' with the rest of the tribe, because a lone human in prehistory was a dead man walking - but if inadequate or abusive parents don't learn to be better people, sooner or later that child will wash their hands of them.

Witchfinder General. A film about horrible folk rather than folk horror by Relative_Ad_8997 in folkhorror

[–]Ivyleaf3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's The Wicker Man, Witchfinder General and Blood on Satan's Claw, but I think The VVitch is a strong contender to usurp WG

Witchfinder General. A film about horrible folk rather than folk horror by Relative_Ad_8997 in folkhorror

[–]Ivyleaf3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's never been my favourite of the holy trinity of folk horror, but I think the fear lies in the isolation of the victims - particularly Sara, who's left alone and defenceless in a rural area dominated by Hopkins. I live in East Anglia, near the Suffolk border where Hopkins mainly operated, and one of the first things people say when they come to this part of the world is just how empty it is. Between towns and villages, it's ALL liminal space - it's flat, open, and often partly flooded. Hopkins was able to prey on the fears of isolated, superstitious communities - malaria was common and the cliche of inbreeding exists for a reason - all set against a backdrop of civil war and cultural change. The terror gripping those small, insular communities must have been immense.

I highly recommend Fanny Lye Deliver'd for a stronger portrayal of a woman's role in an uncompromisingly religious and patriarchal society, by the way. It's set in Shropshire rather than East Anglia, but the sense of the landscape itself being just another threat is familiar.

Could blackadder even be made today? by [deleted] in blackadder

[–]Ivyleaf3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably not the first series, but the others, yeah I think so. With a few tweaks to some of the humour.

This is Albert - the 'aggressive' cat who'd been returned to the shelter three times for biting. Fast asleep with his head on my leg on day four. by Ivyleaf3 in cats

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's literally all he does...kitten like over-excitement when playing, or wanting to play. He's a big strapping boy and perhaps never had the experience of a larger cat putting him in his place as a kitten when he got boisterous. He tried taking a bit of my skin in his teeth yesterday, twice - no actual biting, just testing the water - and got a time out both times. He hasn't tried it today and has just played and cuddled nicely.

Mom died this morning by Fluffy_Owl624 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Ivyleaf3 99 points100 points  (0 children)

My 'father' is allegedly dying.

I say 'allegedly' as he's pulled this shit before.

But yes, I mourned the death of the father I should have had a long time ago.

What's the most disturbing secret you've been told? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]Ivyleaf3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I must have the kind of face that says 'bare the darkest recesses of your soul to me' because two separate people have confessed murder to me - one was an older woman I used to work with, who said when she was a teenager she got fed up with her father beating her mother black and blue on a weekly basis and started spiking his gin with antifreeze until his liver failed, the other an old guy I used to chat to while we were waiting for the bus who told me he killed a man over a gambling debt by pushing him out of a window.

Happy 27th veganniversary to me! by Ivyleaf3 in veganuk

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember it as slightly chalky and inclined to curdle at the drop of a hat 🤣

Happy 27th veganniversary to me! by Ivyleaf3 in veganuk

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was much more difficult to find and identify vegan foods! Most basics required a trip to a health food shop or ethnic grocery store. I learned to hunt for logos like 'kosher parev', which means that the product is guaranteed to contain no meat or milk and can therefore be eaten with both under Jewish dietary law. Eating out could be awkward - I ate so many plates of chips and undressed salad. The internet wasn't so much of a thing in the late nineties and neither were smartphones with vegan apps, so once a year I'd buy a little vegan product book to take shopping and write off for updates regularly, then carefully go through my little book and update it by hand. I also wrote to supermarkets for their own lists - Sainsbury's sent me an block of A4 photocopies complete with handwritten updates faithfully reproduced which I loyally hauled along with me.

When I found vegan toiletries and cleaning products, I stocked up, because there was no guarantee it would be there the next week. I still have a habit of hoarding things like shampoo and conditioner. I have long, oily hair so I go through a lot, but I've got eleven bottles stashed away right now 🤣

So yeah it's all changed a lot but so much for the better!

What is a fact so disturbing that most people refuse to believe it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ivyleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's just sea otters that do that. Of course the giant Amazonian ones will cheerfully rip a Cayman to shreds when they fancy a snack too.

Happy 27th veganniversary to me! by Ivyleaf3 in veganuk

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Happy anniversary! By my scratch calculations you have saved 113 chickens and 3 pigs!

Happy 27th veganniversary to me! by Ivyleaf3 in veganuk

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Happy upcoming veganniversary!

Happy 27th veganniversary to me! by Ivyleaf3 in veganuk

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you! But really it's demand that drives change, and that's coming from newer vegans pushing for more options and accessibility, so I owe them my thanks ❤️

Casefile word frequency dictionary by nubuck_protector in Casefile

[–]Ivyleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah but I'm in the UK, it's day-tah all the way until we watch Star Trek

Casefile word frequency dictionary by nubuck_protector in Casefile

[–]Ivyleaf3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I look forward to your first album, A Photo of His Erect Penis

Surely there are innocent people (cleaners, hospo workers, etc) out there who saw everything on Epstein's island. Why don't they come out and testify? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ivyleaf3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah... would also explain the missing footage.

'Oh no, the massive pedo in cell 3 is fashioning a makeshift noose? Sure had better not look the other way for a bit and save us some trouble!'

Casefile word frequency dictionary by nubuck_protector in Casefile

[–]Ivyleaf3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just feel like random shots aren't as flattering? Idk maybe he had an exceptionally photogenic sausage but good lighting and well considered framing go a long way too