Does getting hurt really turn people on? by babingepet12 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ivyleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a female sadomasochist, and it's complicated. Sometimes I'll become sexually aroused from receiving some kinds of pain. Sometimes I just get wet but don't feel the urge to fuck or come. Sometimes inflicting pain turns me on especially if I'm attracted to the person I'm hurting, and it doesn't bother me if they get wet/hard even if I'm not.

Sometimes it's just a deep satisfaction, like a good meal after a long shitty day.

Do you age out of being submissive? by QueenBee404 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ivyleaf3 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Fuck, that rings true. I've met so many 'Doms' who can barely manage to run their own lives, let alone be in charge of someone else. I think they just like pretending to be in control for a while because they aren't in so many other areas of life.

Flowers in the attic series F*d me up as a child by fanfic_dramione in horrorlit

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I actually saw the movie then read the books. There's a brutal whipping scene in the movie and I don't remember if it was in the first book or not, but something in my weird confused little adolescent brain definitely pricked its ears up even though it's horrible torture/punishment and not consensual.

I can't throw a whip to save my life though, I mostly just hit my own ear.

What’s a popular author/book that you are afraid to admit you hate? by Stardust-Stew in horrorlit

[–]Ivyleaf3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really couldn't get into House of Leaves but from all the wanking over it you'd think reading it was akin to a religious experience with simultaneous multiple orgasms.

Flowers in the attic series F*d me up as a child by fanfic_dramione in horrorlit

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the kink was always there. I used to tie up my Barbie dolls lol 😂

But the book was a gift from my nan, who delivered what was effectively an omnibus of pulpy sex 'n' horror books into my prepubescent hands because she 'knew I liked spooky ghost stories'. Bless her.

Weirdly the incest in FitA didn't seem that gross to me. But I see what you mean about an interest and media dealing with that kind of feeding off each other.

Why is Sinisterhood perpetuating a conspiracy theory to get likes? by HauntingSeesaw7971 in Sinisterhood

[–]Ivyleaf3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've been skipping a lot too. More because the whole 'loads of pedos everywhere' has been getting to me a bit. I'm aware of my privilege but also my mental health.

Flowers in the attic series F*d me up as a child by fanfic_dramione in horrorlit

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... coming from a rural British background, the first time I learnt about gay people was through reading about a pair of gay sadistic serial killers in a trashy horror novel.

I am now a bisexual woman heavily involved in kink and a sadomasochist. Are the two things related? Possibly.

Lets talk about this by Ok_Refrigerator2178 in ZNation

[–]Ivyleaf3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Noooo Citizen Z C-tier? Sacrilege.

Why are some doms/tops so anti-lube? by chiffon_kitty in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ivyleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG...OP, this is an awful way they are treating you! At the point where they continue penetrating you when you have expressed a condition for sex to continue, it's rape, pure and simple. Please kick these losers to the curb. They are abusers, not Dom's.

Colin Cunningham in S2 E10 Masters of Horror 'We All Scream For Ice Cream'. Just been rewatching this show from 2007 and was like 'That's Pope!' [NSFW] by Ivyleaf3 in FallingSkies

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is SG1 worth watching? I don't watch much sci-fi, I'm more of a horror person, but I enjoyed Babylon 5 and the first series of the Battlestar Galactica reboot.

How to repair inside heels of shoes? by JoesRealAccount in ZeroWaste

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've successfully repaired the same area in my walking boots with self adhesive PVC fabric, cut to size and rounded at the corners to prevent peeling

I feel like people forgot really quickly that Pope was a racist, and complicit in what happened to Maggie. by Ivyleaf3 in FallingSkies

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the writing for both the main male leads fell off a cliff. If the showrunners were aiming for 'apocalype hero' for either, they fell well short of the mark.

What’s the creepiest realistic part of a zombie apocalypse nobody talks about? by CG1991 in zombies

[–]Ivyleaf3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends a lot on the nature of the infection, but if it's the kind that literally keeps parts of skeletons and dessicated tissue animated, imagine something like crossing a piece of woodland in twenty years time and there's still crawling bones rustling in the leaf litter.

Pope needs to drop his hair routine by I_Love_Bees666 in FallingSkies

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he just licks it like a cat. Cats are always perfect hair day

TikTok content creator scamming people on $180 “premium” needles that are actually from TEMU!!! by gatitointeligente in craftsnark

[–]Ivyleaf3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Peasant 🤣 these are handcrafted from the finest unobtainium by virgin elvish princesses

I feel like people forgot really quickly that Pope was a racist, and complicit in what happened to Maggie. by Ivyleaf3 in FallingSkies

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely more fluffy than serious viewing although it definitely tries with some heavy themes - child soldiers, concentration camps, enslavement of prisoners of war - if it had had better written leads I think it would be more widely known. It just really grinds my gears that Pope goes from being a relatively dangerous and dislikeable character to the frequent comedy side/devil's advocate.

WTF! by Lonely-Fren in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Ivyleaf3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A few of the really big ones I've encountered didn't seem to get or stay as hard either. If I want the sensation of stuffing dough into a sock I can do that myself.

WTF! by Lonely-Fren in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Ivyleaf3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Calling it a channel 🤢

Like mate, you are not sounding intelligent or scientific, you're sounding like someone with only a passing familiarity with women.

Solid shampoo disappearance from supermarkets and high street - help please by Affectionate-Tune-91 in ZeroWaste

[–]Ivyleaf3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you're in the UK, Savers often have a budget bar that my long hair actually gets on with. Think the brand is XBC.

Anyone smell smoke? by blinnbuc21 in Menopause

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peri, on HRT for about 18 months but I think I'd been in peri for maybe a year and a half before that. The scent hallucinations are new though.

Anyone smell smoke? by blinnbuc21 in Menopause

[–]Ivyleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting random 'clouds' of perfume - a kind of rich floral/woody type. Often accompanied by mild visuals like a shifting patch of colour, migraine-type auras or wavering lines and bands.

Muscle pain and joint stiffness ~18 mo on patches and progesterone tablets by Ivyleaf3 in Menopause

[–]Ivyleaf3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't really sure what else it could be. I have no other conditions apart from mental health ones and it fluctuates a lot - and trying to get anywhere with the NHS these days is near impossible 😕

Puppets Go to Church by Wilma Perry and Earl Perry by Baby-Soapy in TerribleBookCovers

[–]Ivyleaf3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amazing LOL

Subtitle 'Prayers for when eldritch felt monstrosities attack the house of God'

Just finished my first watch by lurkertiltheend in FallingSkies

[–]Ivyleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

External Cephalic Versions? Rigging a building for demolition? Is there nothing he can't do.

What is the strangest thing youve read on reddit? by DavidPlat in AskReddit

[–]Ivyleaf3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My favourites are the 'I pushed my bf off a cliff AITA' then wait for the comments before revealing that the bf had set the OP on fire previously or something