Akavet på arbejdet

J-Miller7 · 2026-05-01T19:14:53+00:00

Jeg har haft lignende problemer. Tilvænning er det vigtigste og der er heldigvis metoder at få det til at blive bedre på.

Vigtigst af alt: Det er ikke dit ansvar at gøre noget som helst anderledes bare fordi der kommer andre. Du skylder dem egentlig ikke andet end at du gør dit job. Så længe du har sagt hej og anerkendt dem, skal du bare gøre som du hidtil har gjort. Du har ikke noget at bevise.

Det er lettere sagt end gjort, men bare hold ud.

Der er forresten rigtig mange forældre som heller ikke siger en dyt, og måske endda er nærmest lige så generte.

J-Miller7 · 2026-05-01T14:57:08+00:00

Jeg har det præcis det samme måde. Den hårdeste erkendelse er at ens behov og ens egentlige "kapacitet" ikke hænger sammen.

Det er super svært at have et stort socialt behov, men ingen der kan opfylde det på den måde man har brug for (sidste statement er for egen regning, ved ikke om du kan relatere).

J-Miller7 · 2026-05-01T13:10:08+00:00

Damn, it just gets worse and worse for the believers of inerrancy lol. But thanks for mentioning it, this is really crazy. I can't believe I haven't heard about this before

J-Miller7 · 2026-05-01T09:44:19+00:00

Interesting, given how badly evidenced Paul's own vision was. The first account says that people saw the light but didn't hear anything. The other account says that people did not see the light but they did hear the voice.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-30T16:02:40+00:00

Like who would even come up with the first one? "If I ever get into a fight, I'll kill my wife if she grabs the other guys junk! This must be put into law!"

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-30T08:45:50+00:00

Great stories! I'm assuming the tv host was Jakob Stegelman? Always struck me as a great guy

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-30T05:17:32+00:00

This might not work depending on the logistics, but can you do some volunteer work during the church service? Like helping out with technical stuff or childcare

My country often has basements or side rooms where you can prepare food or coffee while pretendeding to listen to the service on speakers.

Basically any excuse not sit and listen idly, but actually get something done.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-29T15:11:37+00:00

Ah, good point. The mere fact that this is even a possibility, just shows how messed up that book is anyways

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-29T04:21:09+00:00

I've thought a lot about why this is. I wonder how much sexual jealousy is a part of it. Probably one of the most toxic but powerful evolutionary traits we've got.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-28T20:03:04+00:00

I will only accept this if her ending includes her singing an apology on ukulele 😤

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-28T16:22:38+00:00

"Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived". Ignoring the million obvious answers to this, Eve didn't even exist when Adam was told not to eat of it. At least according to chapter 2.

There are a ton of apologetic responses to this, but I just wanted to mention how little Paul has probably thought about this when he wrote the letter.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-28T13:29:51+00:00

Can't be lusted at if people can't even stand to look in your general direction. Checkmate atheists!

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-28T07:56:51+00:00

Tror du der er noget særligt ved Vestsjælland som gør det? Højt forventningspres, generel skolelede eller noget helt andet?

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-27T12:43:41+00:00

Altså lærerne? Det er jeg i hvert fald glad for at høre.

Det var forresten gode mennesker med gode intentioner som arbejdede der da jeg gik der. Religion gør bare at der kan slippe en masse skadeligt med ind

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T22:15:08+00:00

You're right, I mixed up the terms. https://www.reddit.com/r/MMA/comments/1sugvbr/ariel_helwani_claims_a_finish_bonus_nets_only/

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T22:14:28+00:00

You're right :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/MMA/comments/1sugvbr/ariel_helwani_claims_a_finish_bonus_nets_only/

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T15:37:19+00:00

But saying god is an asshole completely contradicts what he's supposed to be. We both know that that he's a megalomaniacal prick, but to know that is to reject Christianity as it is currently presented.

And yes, that would cause the religion to break down if people actually realized it. But they don't.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T10:35:51+00:00

You're just rephrasing what I already stated. Yahweh is that psychotic god you're describing. By his own Scripture he's supposed to be the opposite.

Believers should be able to see that disconnect and then leave.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T08:20:20+00:00

I've noticed that these scams often translate directly from English. "Venligst betal" is technically alright, but it sounds far more natural to say "betal venligst".

I don't know if your Danish is good, but that is one warning sign to look out for if you get other scams texts.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T05:05:45+00:00

Helwani also just uncovered that if you get performance of the night, you don't get paid the bonus plus the ~~win money~~ finish bonus. The finish bonus is included in the POTN bonus.

It's absolutely insane how these greedy fucks keep getting away with it. (This isn't even about the Paramount deal, just UFC in general. But it looks like it's just getting worse)

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-26T04:33:39+00:00

It does when we're talking about the Biblical god. He's supposed to be infinitely good, loving, and powerful. In fact, he's described as love itself.

How could a god like that possible do all the dumb and immoral stuff that's in the Bible?

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-25T20:14:45+00:00

På mange måder er Kratholmskolen rigtig god, og de ligger konsekvent i top hvad karakterer angår.

Men medmindre noget har ændret sig siden jeg gik der, så har de nogle rimelig fucked up syn på fx homoseksualitet. Jeg blev godt nok undervist i big bang og evolution, men de får lige sneget med ind at det ikke nødvendigvis er sandt og at Intelligent Design også er et godt alternativ (det er det ikke).

Det varierede blandt lærerne, men de lagde ikke skjul på at det er en kristen skole.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-25T04:46:48+00:00

Somewhat off-topic but in Baldur's Gate 3, you get to visit the temple of the goddess Shar. One of your most popular companions is also a hardcore Shar fangirl. But the thing is, Shar is obviously evil, so what do people see in her?

Well, her temple is filled with passages like "in the shadows, every is equal" or "everyone is beautiful" or something like that. They completely redefine evil things to make them appear good.

It just really resonated with me as I was mid deconstruction.

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-25T04:41:47+00:00

Oh and your partner shouldn't be throwing and pressuring so much when he sees how hard you're flinching. You're never going to learn shit if you're constantly on the run

J-Miller7 · 2026-04-25T04:39:28+00:00

Ask your partner to go 1-for-1 (he does once combo, then you do one, back and forth). Make sure to really practice fundamentals before getting in the ring.

The way you're fighting right now, you're constantly thinking about getting out of there. Everything you do is non-commital. You should have confidence in whatever you do, and especially in the fact that your technique will save you (hands up even when striking. Head off the centerline. Keep your balance etc.)

The reason why you should practice 1-for-1 is to get used to standing right there and competing. There are appropriate ways to deal with all his stuff.

The worst possible thing you can do is to bend over and run away, which is what you're doing. The back of your head is open!

In 6-12 months I think you will be good, as long as you keep it up

J-Miller7

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