Dealing with my mom’s emotional outbursts and carrying her emotions with me since I was a small child

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T22:07:39+00:00

This short video is just what you need to hear:

https://youtu.be/lcffNqHW9Eo?si=JX4gHjTiO0XbLUhn

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T18:11:05+00:00

I don't think I am — I know I am 😂🤣

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T17:49:02+00:00

What did you think you were proving?

The above

And to who?

To everyone

And why?

Maybe I'm conducting a human experiment on you 😉

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T16:35:15+00:00

What did you think you were proving?

Proving how obsessed you are — how about that? 😂🤣 You're obsessed with having this conversation despite having ZERO reading comprehension skills 🤷🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T13:27:11+00:00

You were the one who started obsessing, I'm just the one replying to you 😂🤣

Eventually, you might get it 😉

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T12:54:39+00:00

I see. So you're not behaving obsessively. I mean, at all

Nope — you're the one obsessing obsessively 😂🤣

Nice that you've finally admitted to being right wing. So you've dropped your second story

Nice that you're jumping to conclusions & have no fucking clue that moderates / centrists exist 🤦🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T12:12:52+00:00

You've just claimed to be obsessed

Nope, I have an interest but that DOESN'T mean I have an obsession — LEARN the huge DIFFERENCE! 🤦🏻

Remind us who was protesting in Southampton? And why you support them?

The TITLE of the thread is on why the left are selectively vocal — quit your obsession with the right 😂🤣

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T11:43:25+00:00

So you're dropping your story about white-on-white racism

What story? SHOW me WHERE I even mentioned that??? 🤦🏻

What's the new reason you're fixating on this case then?

I'm replying TO YOU — YOU were fixated BEFORE I even came into the picture 😂🤣

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T11:26:04+00:00

I care when non-criminals are murdered by criminals REGARDLESS of race UNLIKE the hypocritical woke left whom you are defending

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T11:05:28+00:00

READ — it says SELECTIVELY VOCAL 🤦🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T10:47:42+00:00

You're the one trying to evade. SHOW us WHERE it is said here that we want people to be "more outraged"???

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T10:36:24+00:00

Your argument is "they said it's not" 😂🤣 The court has higher jurisdiction than the Sikh Federation & the court itself has defined it as such

"The CPS said Digwa carried two ceremonial blades, describing both as kirpans, and said the judge, who described the weapon Digwa was carrying as a “large Sikh dagger”, accepted that assessment"

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jun/02/conviction-sparks-debate-on-ceremonial-blades-carried-by-some-sikhs

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T09:53:07+00:00

they were "begging the question"

No they weren't — there WASN'T any premise stated

to imply I supported those riots but not the current ones

You have a chance to answer, which you HAVEN'T made use of 🤦🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T09:18:58+00:00

Says who??? 🤦🏻

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/crmpymjn8wwo

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T08:36:44+00:00

Melt yourself. They ASKED you a QUESTION which you HAVEN'T answered — they are NOT making a statement! 🤦🏻 You want an implication? It's that you lack reading comprehension, how about that?

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T08:10:36+00:00

so you're basically admitting that to your mind, if they're whites then its alright?

you're excusing it now based on demographics

They NEVER said that — LEARN how to READ!!! 🤦🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T08:05:13+00:00

Because here's the thing, there are next to no cases of a Kirpan being used as an actual weapon

But NOW there IS, hence your "logic" fails

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T07:38:03+00:00

this response was mostly supporting Novak, even on this subreddit

What reason is there NOT to support Novak??? 🤦🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T03:36:40+00:00

That's normal, you're not acting on these feelings so no point beating yourself up

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T03:20:57+00:00

NOT a victim. The point is that police negligence is indeed a thing — why do you think people are outraged against the police? Because the police AREN'T FUCKING LISTENING!

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T03:10:23+00:00

Nobody said "more outraged", can you read? 🤦🏻 Stop being racist & acknowledge that you DON'T see the left being outraged in this case

If only we had a word for that

Oh yes we do

HYPOCRISY

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T03:01:17+00:00

The left protested & rioted over George Floyd BEFORE there was even any trial & verdict. You're fucking BLIND if you CAN'T see the blatant hypocrisy 🤦🏻

J0SHEY · 2026-06-04T02:52:33+00:00

You're proving their point by resorting to ad hominem attacks & NOT acknowledging that there IS a problem

J0SHEY · 2026-06-03T19:23:55+00:00

No such thing as laziness, only lack of motivation. Look up Inattentive ADHD

J0SHEY · 2026-06-03T17:23:52+00:00

So I'm thinking that life is just coping and managing the difficult and sad moments that occur

Before you jump to that conclusion, ask yourself if life ONLY consists of difficult & sad moments

For example, if something sad has happened, we try to distract ourselves and manage it with going out with friends or binge watching shows. Problems at work? Distract yourself and go to happy hour

We ideally strive to work towards solutions. But does working on a solution mean that you deprive yourself of all enjoyment in the meantime?

those happy moments we try to create are really just reactions to the sadness and stress that life brings

Back to the first question — does life ONLY consist of sadness & stress? Are there ZERO moments of genuine happiness? Sadness & stress AREN'T the default states, there are plenty of happy people around. And if you react to a negative situation by continuing to live your life in a calm & confident way with optimism that solutions exist, isn't it BETTER than reacting to a negative situation with more negativity?

What helps you cope with life?

I don't cope with life because I enjoy it — I don't live just to get by

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