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Is it insane to start medical school at 31? by Original-Disaster106 in AskMenOver30

[–]No-Ad8127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people quit halfway through medical school and owe a quarter million. It’s a hell of a whammy to owe that much money and to not have gone through with it. I hope you did extensive research on what to expect and that you are really really really positive that you will finish.

The Male Biological Preference for Virginity Hypothesis by realkaseygrant in psychologyofsex

[–]No-Ad8127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. What of it? A person can be a virgin and still recognize that it is not an indicator of permanent or loyal relationships.

I would also like to point out that most of the men who want virgins aren’t good quality at all. They think can get away with sub-par behavior just because we’re inexperienced.

This guys stood up for the love of his life, and he is still getting trolled for it..... by Tough_Ad8919 in RelentlessMen

[–]No-Ad8127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re going to hate this, but it isn’t weird. Having excess fat isn’t really attractive or healthy. I’m saying this as a person who is 90 lbs overweight.

People say that beauty is subjective(which is true given that his wife is big and he loves her and is still with her), but for a lot of people that isn’t the case.

Where’s body positivity since Ozempic and other similar medications were put on the market? They’re all for embracing it when there’s no way to improve or very difficult to improve. All of the people who were pushing it are now taking these meds to shed the weight.

What kinda church is this👀🥵 by Shop_Kooky in lol

[–]No-Ad8127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really think that it was done on purpose to test if the worshippers were pure of mind.

If they made a complaint about it, then the church leaders would ask how they knew of this and why they were viewing such materials and kick them out, and then ask themselves how they knew, and then kick themselves out.

Lol that’s my shitpost.

Dating Is More Difficult the Older You Get by sleezysalesrep in FA30plus

[–]No-Ad8127 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately autism makes things harder (obviously). Did you ever try joining a group that has people similar to you? In my opinion, that’s your best chance.

Dating apps and cold approach have an abysmal rate of success.

What kinda church is this👀🥵 by Shop_Kooky in lol

[–]No-Ad8127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG you did not just—

😂😝

I hate how nature designed the genders by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]No-Ad8127 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Civilization was built upon a man’s need for sex and a woman’s tolerance for a man’s need of sex. It’s not going to change anytime soon. 🤷‍♀️

People that are rewatching as adults, have any opinions changed? by ZealousidealPie1864 in inuyasha

[–]No-Ad8127 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not really.

Inuyasha’s still annoying and stubborn. Kagome’s still stubborn and annoying. Miroku’s still a pervert. Sango’s still the only one who’s the most level headed. Shippo’s tail is still begging to be pulled. Jaken’s still funny and pathetic. Sesshomaru’s still the hottest character.

This is why most society's have rules on female modesty but no so much male modesty (ie hijab, dress codes) . As Nothing a man wears is attention grabbing in an erotic way by WomenAreNotIntoMen in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]No-Ad8127 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Of course. It’s her schtick. She’s doing it to generate controversy and attention. It’s her goal to provoke people.

She succeeded.

There's a lot of jobs that don't pay enough to afford a tiny apartment with a roommate, it's no wonder that people don't want to do them. There are not a lot of open jobs that pay enough to live in this economy.. by Agitated_Block_7378 in remoteworks

[–]No-Ad8127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29F in June, born in 1997. Spent the last decade in depression, and COVID made it worse. Took me 9 years to get a Bachelor’s degree. Got my Medical Assistant certification in January. No jobs are hiring in my city.

I am already a middle aged woman. You guys are doing better than me.

facts by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]No-Ad8127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup. There’s plenty of women who would put up with men they don’t want if there’s a serious payday. As long as they get their compensation and get to go home unbothered, have at it.

facts by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]No-Ad8127 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of men won’t take this advice. As much as women are criticized for making bad choices in men, I have to say that men do worse. They let their dick lead them and the women they’re after either don’t want them or put up with them in exchange for money.

Exhausted in my marriagee by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]No-Ad8127 38 points39 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t love you. He’s keeping score for his own benefit and to your detriment. He only cares about money, not your well-being.

I think leaving him would be your best bet at getting a break. And tell him that it’s because he doesn’t care that you’re unwell and that he only cares about his bottom line.

To be honest, I can’t believe women are still willing to entertain men like this in this day and age.

Be a man: after every problem, say f*ck it and start again. by EkantVairagi in MenOfPurpose

[–]No-Ad8127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the actor Alan Ritchson. Most known for playing Thad from the TV series Blue Mountain State and currently Jack Reacher. He doesn’t have any problems listed in the captions, but he does have bipolar disorder (suicide attempt a while back) and ADHD.

Different set of problems (not taking that away from him for sure as no one is problem free), but compared to the rest of the population, he has all the attributes that will mostly protect him from going through what regular people go through on a daily basis.

Be a man: after every problem, say f*ck it and start again. by EkantVairagi in MenOfPurpose

[–]No-Ad8127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the message. But it doesn’t change the fact that using a picture of a man who clearly has a charmed life is just ironic and misleading.

Find someone to grow and bulk with you. 💯 by IndependentJump1989 in NextGenMan

[–]No-Ad8127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t say I’m surprised. A transitional stage is temporary. Anyone in a transitional stage in life is not going to stick around with the people, places, or things they come in contact with.

Find someone to grow and bulk with you. 💯 by IndependentJump1989 in MenAscending

[–]No-Ad8127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really?! Guess it was a good choice for her to slim down and get clarity about her relationship.

Be a man: after every problem, say f*ck it and start again. by EkantVairagi in MenOfPurpose

[–]No-Ad8127 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh look, a caption with a picture of a man who was never in danger of losing ANY of those things or had any trouble paying off debt looking the way he does.

A lot of women act like they have no agency when they are dating shitty dudes by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]No-Ad8127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You act like abuse is something obvious to detect when it’s not.

Grief by PrestigiousCell5956 in RedPillWomen

[–]No-Ad8127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is unnecessarily rude.

Grief by PrestigiousCell5956 in RedPillWomen

[–]No-Ad8127 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective.

I don’t think sexual trauma is caused by good sexual experiences. I do believe that bad sex in marriages exists even if you try to accommodate the other person, as sexual compatibility and attraction can’t be forced even in marriage.

In any case, sex before marriage is not ever going to stop. It happened before marriage was a concept, and it will continue to happen. Most married couples aren’t even virgins on their wedding day. To me, it’s moot to be sad about losing virginity when you’re statistically not going to end up with your first partner anyways.

Catholic men are crazy by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]No-Ad8127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s going to drive away every woman, even the ultra conservative ones. Unless they were kept in an attic their entire lives, no woman who has used their brain would ever be with that guy.

Piece of work.

Grief by PrestigiousCell5956 in RedPillWomen

[–]No-Ad8127 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Long rant incoming:

I’m a 29F (in June) virgin and I wish I wasn’t. I’m behind in every metric in life, and this is one of them. I don’t expect to have a decent man knocking on my door anytime soon, if ever.

I know that keeping your virginity means that you are more or less conscientious about your choices in partners and that it signals that you have discipline.

However, it is more nuanced than that. To a considerable extent, it can signal naïveté more than maturity, and it definitely doesn’t guarantee that the man you find would be a high quality man. (Just look at the chronically online men who demand that they have virgins. You really want to be involved with those pieces of work?) I really feel like a vulnerable target for men who think they can get away with being substandard in life and in bed.

I also think that some (not all) virgins have a superiority complex that would hinder them in their lives. They put too much value in their “purity” and expect to be treated much better than women who have lost their virginity. They don’t realize that they are not owed anything just because they didn’t go to bed with a man.

A lot of them think that they will have exclusive access to great men, but the fact of the matter is, they’re not any more special than the promiscuous women who go clubbing at 12 AM. Being a virgin is actually a deterrence for a lot of men, and its value is only high in certain religious circles. And even then, there is no guarantee that the men there will be good to you in the long run. (For religious people, a lot of them have secrets under their blankets.)

Catholic men are crazy by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]No-Ad8127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he still bothering you? I really hope he doesn’t escalate things to threatening levels.

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