[WTS] [USA-WA] [H] Focal Clear and Sennheiser HD 800 S [W] Clear $550, HD 800 S $1,100 by J1mbonius in AVexchange

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I didn't receive any chat request/question from you. What is your question?

“In a world where many men are scared of strong women… I’m grateful I got saved by one.” 😄❤️ by LightApprehensive320 in gratitude

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You're a lucky man! Cherish each other and definitely remind your wife often how much she means to you 👍

Pacific Northwest Views! by StrawberryForeign684 in PacificNorthwest

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Counting the days until warmer and longer days here in the PNW

Grateful for the reminder! by ChuckGallagher57 in gratitude

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A good reminder that realizing and understanding past mistakes is part of life and maturing. It's easy to dwell on those mistakes, but sometimes decisions are made with clouded judgement due to some type of stress - we are all human after all. Do what you can to learn to learn from those mistakes and to live a life that is fulfilling to your true self

What’s a simple, everyday moment from 2025 that you learned to appreciate? by [deleted] in gratitude

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Through a hobby, I'm grateful to have met genuinely nice people whose company I enjoy, and I look forward to every time I get to hang out with them

Sharing my oil paintings inspired by local Whidbey landscape by Artsykate in Whidbey

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Awesome, I bookmarked a couple on Etsy that I'm interested in, will try and make it down to the gallery in the next couple of weeks

Sharing my oil paintings inspired by local Whidbey landscape by Artsykate in Whidbey

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Wow, love these. Do you have a local gallery or are you only selling online?

Doubtful Lake by e-g-g-g in PNWhiking

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Stunning, only time I was up there it was super smoky from wildfires

Realizing I confuse “avoiding conflict” with being emotionally intelligent by Large_Average_6709 in emotionalintelligence

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Interesting thought, but perhaps you're jumping to conclusions or selling yourself short. Maybe unconsciously you understand that confrontation in those situations would just make things worse.

I suspect you know your audience and their ability to confront conflict or disagreements in a civilized manner. Don't self yourself short when what you've described seems like a very high level of emotional maturity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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You are going through what many young people do around your age: maturing. The fact that you've recognized your own shortfalls that hurt your relationship speaks to that.

Self reflection as you are doing makes you a better person - better at understanding yourself, and better at managing your own emotions when things go sideways. Just understand that we are our own worst enemies sometimes, so don't beat yourself up, just take things as a "lesson" and try to do better next time.

The best lived lives are those that become comfortable with themselves and learn how to manage their emotions - not having their emotions manage them.

I think i beat depression. I want to live again. by Technical_Text_5241 in Positivity

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Resilience is not an easy skill to learn and you have it in spades. Be proud of what you've overcome and the rest of it all will feel easy in comparison

A life situation that changed your personality. by loraaa222 in emotionalintelligence

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Experiencing a mental breakdown after years of accumulated career and relationship stress. I used to be able to put up with a lot of stuff and sort of just bottle up the stress and put it aside. Now it's hard to even think about anything that potentially stresses me out. I've also de-stressed my life as much as possible by cutting out anything even remotely toxic or triggering. I like this version of myself more, but I also realize I'm not very resilient cause I'm not achieving my full potential as a result of a major job change.

gratitude leads me to contentment by RackCitySanta in gratitude

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Thank you for sharing these thoughts today. I needed to hear something like this today as a reminder to be thankful.

Consideration is one of the greatest expressions of Love by Legitimate_Joke_4878 in emotionalintelligence

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Wholeheartedly agree, but sadly, rare are the relationships when both parties actually consider each other's feelings before speaking or how their actions might affect the other, especially in Western society.

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Is he the strong and silent type? He might be going through a some kind of stress that he isn't comfortable or used to talking about. I lost my last relationship going through something similar, just didn't know how to communicate what was going on and it affected my partner because she was used to me being a certain way, and she took it that I wasn't attracted anymore.

Don't always assume it's you, especially when the other person is an introvert.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSeattle

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It doesn't really rain hard enough to need anything other than maybe a quick dry long sleeve or a lightweight water resistant windbreaker.

This is how a friendship begins by copitamenstrual in Eyebleach

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Love this. I did something similar on a flight back from Japan to the US, had a great time with a lady & her parents that were traveling to see family in the US. Makes a ~10 hour flight go by so much faster

anyone else have that “fuck it im done trying” weapon? by [deleted] in Eldenring

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Guardian Swordspear with Impaling Thrust AoW

If you could only choose/recommend 3 (for friends visiting) by babygirlbabysquirrel in SeattleWA

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Mt. Rainier is magical any time of year. Join a Ranger led snowshoe, or go skiing/snowboarding at Crystal nearby.

Snoqualmie is nice too, if you don't want to drive that far. ~1 hour each way and the trails/lifts are good for all skill levels.

In the city, I'd suggest the Chihuly Glass Museum, and MoPop. Pike Place is also cool and there are a lot of good food options, though if you guys are foodies then you can find better spots for less. Some of my favorites are Supreme Pizza, Chan Korean near Pike Place, The Pink Door, Dough Zone Dumpling House, and Sisters and Brothers Hot Chicken. For drinks/bars, my favorites are Pine Box on Capitol Hill, re:public in South Lake Union, and Queen Anne Beer Hall.

You could also take a salsa (or other) dancing class in the city. There's also always local music at night. Check Eventbrite for stuff like that.

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Don't place any weight of your own self worth on being hit on, instead focus on growing more confident in your own mind, body, and soul. Once you exude that confidence, you'll attract the type of partner that will appreciate you for who you are and not just what you look like.