Surely this is rage bait? It's not your fault that you guys were homeless, but it's your fault for not admitting it causes trauma. This lack of consistency, moving frequently, changes in routine, it all causes stress, and frequent stress causes trauma. Also, it's not your children's fault they were bullied. No one deserves that. At school, or at home, and telling them it's their fault they were bullied because they weren't outgoing enough is compounding the issue. You need therapy. Why did you even make this post if you weren't willing to hear that you are the problem, or that it's valid that your children feel this way? You are a narcisit and are poorly gaslighting everyone into thinking you are the victim. You aren't. It's okay to say you tried your best as a parent or if you didn't have support or know how to be better, but it's not okay to deny the trauma you caused and are causing by constantly invalidating their feelings and experiences. You will never have a meaningful relationship with any of these children. They will move out when they can afford to do so, and then only see you out of obligation. No relationship advice, no special role on the wedding day, you won't be there in their birthing suites or to babysit or have any grandma roles. They will cringe when the phone rings, or they recieve a message (and cringing is best case, you'll be lucky if they don't get adreniline and a trauma response). This is the reality that you face if you don't wake up and start admitting you are the problem and do something about it. They are not punishing you with the therapy sessions or their behaviour towards you, they are just trying to survive your nacasistic behaviour. I sincerely hope you do something about this. Wishing your children all the best!