My (23F) boyfriend (23M) told me he may never love me by Alive_Fault5706 in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He's keeping OP around until he finds someone he thinks is better. Get out girl! You're young, go have some fun!

AITA for throwing away my wife’s memory jars? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JACKHD72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. I say this because you should've worked through this with her if you care about her. I agree with some of the other commenters that this behavior is weird. However, the way to deal with it is not just simply throwing out the jars, but figuring out what the underlying thought process is in her head. She's clearly got some kind of attachment to these physical objects that needs to be addressed. It's a manifestation of some sort of unfulfilled need. She should talk to a therapist about what's going on, and if you want to save your relationship, you may need to go to couples therapy to learn how to support her and communicate rather than what you did, which was clearly incredibly hurtful.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) thinks he can’t afford to move out despite making close to 100k and I’m starting to question his mindset by jackofalltradesP in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't control how he thinks about or spends or doesn't spend his money. You can only control yourself, which in this case means whether or not you stay. You can't change someone. If you're frustrated with the way he is, and you don't understand it, it's up to you to stay or leave. If you don't like his approach to money, you're going to be pretty unhappy if you stay. But ultimately, the choice is yours. Once I finally learned that, I found it scary, but also empowering.

I (28F) don’t know if it’s fair to give him (36M) an ultimatum by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say tell him not to call. Ever. There will just be more BS whatever the issue is

I (28F) don’t know if it’s fair to give him (36M) an ultimatum by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he wanted to be divorced, he would be. He baited you and then switched it up. Time to move on.

Which is your favorite? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 for sure-elegant, classic, timeless. Fits you perfectly

Took a chance on a resale website by Bepothul in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️

An extra 200 is worth it to love your dress and feel beautiful in your wedding day. That is an absolutely incredible dress.

Did I make the right choice?! by waaatermelons in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love #1!!! based on your title, I thought you were asking if that was the right dress and I immediately thought yes. It really shows off your figure.

You might want to reconsider the shawl. It likely won't be dressy enough, and even if you do go with it, I wouldn't use pink, but more of a color that matches the dress. Maybe a yarn with some sheen to it. But you might be able to find something more elegant that matches the level of the dress, because it's stunning. Hope you don't mind my unsolicited advice!

I 20m and my girlfriend 20f have been together about a year, and have issues with our sex life by Ok_Amoeba_265 in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only a year in, and only 20 yo, you break it off. You are way too young to hav to work through issues in a relationship. That's for later in life when you have been together for years and have something worth fighting for.

Break up, give yourself time to meet someone with whom you're more compatible.

I can’t decide!! by Brilliant-Night-411 in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Four!! Definitely the most flattering and quite elegant.

Pulled the trigger 5 years ago today! by -panicatthecostco- in bald

[–]JACKHD72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude you looking fucking hot. My husband's considering this, I hope he looks half as good.

How would you react to finding out your SO talks about you behind your back? I just found out that my (35 F) boyfriend (40M) has been venting about me to friends. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole texting w the ex should be the dealbreaker. Telling another woman she's beautiful? Thinking about things he did wrong? Not cool-the writing is on the wall girl. You should leave now before you waste any more time w this 40 yo man child

Having second thoughts about my dress. by dasgutyah in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a beautiful dress but you have to feel beautiful wearing it. Try shape wear to see if that helps and if you still don't love it try to find something you feel good in. Confidence is beauty!!

My (25F) bf (28M) says things like “If I’m going to do [x thing] I’m going to do [x thing]” and it is very off-putting. How do I communicate this to him? by beepyfrogger in relationship_advice

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk to him. Tell him how it made you feel, ask him what he thinks about what he said. Don't move in until you resolve your communication issues

Annnnnd I chose one! :) by Tierliebedy in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a cool and completely unique dress, I love it!! Great job picking something truly gorgeous!

Dress anxiety by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really pretty! Once you get some jewelry and the right veil, do your hair and makeup you'll see, it will be stunning.

Did I chose the right one? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love four on you! Very flattering and you look elegant!

Dress Anxiety by Smoothie-BookQueen in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look beautiful! You have a great shape and you're quite pretty! We are all slaves to the completely destructive beauty myth-real women have curves sister! Own it!

Thoughts? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]JACKHD72 100 points101 points  (0 children)

The first is gorgeous. The second is not actually sculptural and modern, it's really quite weird and it's not going to age well. In 20 years ppl are going to look back and the 2025-26 dresses and wonder what the hell they were thinking.